Well remember a few months ago when I was talking about getting a girlfriend?

Well the worst thing that could possibly happen... happend... she cheated on me. Yeah its sucks... it sucks hard.

But that ain't the worst of it she's posting terrible things about me in her online diary and playing this other guy up... for the whole world to see...

So I was just gonna throw out the question... how can I tell her to stop without being mean... cause I want to flippen scream my head off at her but it just isn't worth it... I just want her out of my life as fast as I can get her out of my life...

Oh and another question... all the stuff she has given me... I don't want it. Should I give it back? Throw it out? Keep it in a shoe box and never mention it again? I dunno... help...

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Don't be unwise judge me not by my size. You wont believe your eyes watch the xwing rise!

Give it back and ask what her problem is.

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Do you have stairs in your house?

Just ask her politely to stop. If she doesnt, ignore her. Its not worth getting upset over, and anyone who is really your friend won't care what she says either.

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[This message has been edited by DSettahr (edited February 20, 2004).]

Man... that sucks.

Yea, the best thing you ought to do is confront her and directly ask her why she did what she did. If her answer indicates she doesn't think it was wrong, then maybe she's just not the right one for you.

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[This message has been edited by The_Mega_ZZTer (edited February 20, 2004).]

I'm done talking... I've tried to fix this for the past week and all she has done is pushed me away... I'm giving her stuff back...

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Don't be unwise judge me not by my size. You wont believe your eyes watch the xwing rise!

Um, keep that ****. What is you? Crazy?

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I don't want it.

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Don't be unwise judge me not by my size. You wont believe your eyes watch the xwing rise!

Make your own diary, and go nuts!!!

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Someone wrote this over one of the urinals: "The joke isn't on the wall; it's in your hand." - BV

If she wants to hate you, make her hate you.

Unleash upon her the harshest words you can, make her cry and everything.

If you don't want the stuff send it to me. I'll be more than happy to destroy it for you

Spray paint her car so it says "ME IS TEH SMAARRT!11!"
or
"He has risen (Than a swastika)

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When you expect the pain - nothing left to ascertain
When you respect the lie - Deadly chasm open wide
---Circle of Dust "Chasm"

[This message has been edited by FH_PhoenixFlame (edited February 20, 2004).]

Try to ignore it.
Put it in a shoebox and forget about it.

Words from experience.


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To artificial life, all reality is virtual.

Burn it. Seriously. Don't give it back.

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I can't think of anything to put here right now.

set it alight, then give it back!

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Drugs & Stupidity, Tons of it.

I you have a cat, dump her stuff in the litterbox.

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Map-Review | Digital Core | The Matrix: Unplugged

Farewell, MaDaVentor. In our hearts, you'll always live on.

Girls are very good at convincing themselves that what they did is right, because someone else was at fault.

I agree with Evad.

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Roach - Steal acceptance, lend denial.

0 of 14.

Yeah, that sucks



Pile the stuff -> apply white gas -> light match

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I'm not an actor. I just play one on TV.

I set it right in my mind boys... don't worry bout me anymore after today she will have no grey area about how I'm feeling.

And the stuff is in the mail... it'll probably see me in hell but atleast for a few years its out of my hair.

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Don't be unwise judge me not by my size. You wont believe your eyes watch the xwing rise!

DO what I'm going to do...Burn all her stuff

then, sedate her, take her to a remote location and...

Burn her !!

Seriosly, women like that need to flushed from our lives and society as fast as possible.

Burn the Witch.

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

Cheaters are the worst form of people.

First of all, she cheated on you. Personally, I consider that grounds for immediate termination of all retationships/interactions with her. No second chances, no second thoughts, no hope for forgineness from you. Move on.

However, its even worse. she's spreading rumors and s*** about you too and shes messing with this other guy in front of everyone. Just get rid of her and DEMAND that she stop spreading rumors about you or you will sue her for libel. Don't downplay it in an attempt to be "nice", the whole point is to let the b**** know that you're not going to put up with this. If she keeps doing it, follow through with your threat.

As for the stuff that shes given you.. it depends on what it is. If it's stuff that is somewhat valuable, sell it. Otherwise, just trash it.



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Most people regard me as the dark and immoral side of Massassi. At least I'm getting what I want out of life.

A few years? where did you send it, China?

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"No good can ever come from staying with normal people"
-Outlaw Star
"Some people play tennis. I erode the human soul"
-Tycho, Penny Arcade
"I'm a Cannabal-Vegitarian. I will BBQ an employee if there is no veggie option"
-DX:IW

I never got a chance to mail it I told her I was gonna do it and she yelled at me so I threw it in the trash... its all gone... and she's out of my life... you guys are right I feel the same way cheating = no second chance

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Don't be unwise judge me not by my size. You wont believe your eyes watch the xwing rise!

sell her stuff on ebay and call it revenge

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wang is within all

Alright whose gonna bit on a lie? Can I hear 3 dolors?

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Don't be unwise judge me not by my size. You wont believe your eyes watch the xwing rise!

I was gonna say pawn it, but there's millions of people on the internet = more humiliation for her. Yeah.

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TI-MAH!

i totally agree with pagewizard_yks

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*landfish 'splodes*
7 of 14

Yeah I do too...

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Don't be unwise judge me not by my size. You wont believe your eyes watch the xwing rise!

1. Give the **** back to her... Don't keep it. ****in throw the **** in her face and laugh at her. Act confident like the **** doesn't phase you.

2. If the dude knew you were goin together and he STILL hooked up with her, beat his *** as an example of what happens if someone messes with you.

3. If she says **** about you, say **** back. Rumors and **** shouldn't phase you if they ain't true

4. Get rebound sex from someone ASAP.



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My Tracks

I'd probably just laugh at anybody threatening to sue me for libel, unless they were a corporation...

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Shut up. I'm GOING to do this whether you like it or not.

This is why massassians avoid rap.

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Someone wrote this over one of the urinals: "The joke isn't on the wall; it's in your hand." - BV

Wow. I'm glad there's a censor, Em Playa. I hope you at least were the one to replace all those swears with asterisks...

And for the first time on a relationship thread, I agree with Pagewizard. 'Course, not that it matters, since he already said it and you already did it, so... best of luck with the rest of your life!

Yeah I hope I don't have too... too... many more relationships like this.

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Don't be unwise judge me not by my size. You wont believe your eyes watch the xwing rise!

Em Play, just... just shut up. Serious.

Yeah you spend the time avoiding rap to puttin crude potty jokes in your sig...

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I agree with pagewizard except for the sueing for libel thing. That just gives her attention. I would just ignore her and everything she says. She is beneath your notice at this point. One quick prayer of her getting syphilus and having her uterus destroyed wouldn't hurt though.

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Checksum: I thought about it, I guess I'm striving for my own personal ideals. I'll just project those ideals onto Jesus and say "I'm trying to be like Jesus" so that I won't have to listen to you banter endlessly about me worshipping a false god or some such.

The Last True Evil: Ironically, that's very Christian of you.

[This message has been edited by Kieran Horn (edited February 20, 2004).]

Hitler was quite the promiscuous fellow.

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"LC Tusken: the idiot is the person who follows the idiot and your not following me your insulting me your following the path of a idiot so that makes you the idiot"
NMGOH || Jack Chick preaches it

hahaha well she isn't Hitler but she's getting there.

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Don't be unwise judge me not by my size. You wont believe your eyes watch the xwing rise!

Oddly enough, burning the things she gave you would make you feel mildy better.

wow, my first love answer without the mention of fish

Except for when I did it just now

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Dont press the red button. Whatever you do, DO NOT press the red button......you just pressed the red button didnt you?

I want to suggest a song for you to listen to. "**** it (I don't want you back)" by Eamon.

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Checksum: I thought about it, I guess I'm striving for my own personal ideals. I'll just project those ideals onto Jesus and say "I'm trying to be like Jesus" so that I won't have to listen to you banter endlessly about me worshipping a false god or some such.

The Last True Evil: Ironically, that's very Christian of you.