I have a specific problem that I cannot answer:

I have a friend who is repetitively asked out by this girl but he does not want to go out with her. He has said no but this only seems to make her more persistent how can he stop her?



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The Darkside? I've Been there. Do your Worst

Tell her he's gay.

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tell her to **** off and die? that usually does it for me.

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He doesn't want to hurt her feelings.

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[This message has been edited by DMC87 (edited February 24, 2004).]

He's being a challenge. Women love challenge.

Unfortunately there's no way to avoid hurting her feelings. If she doesn't get the clue, she probably thinks he's not serious about it. They aren't, weren't, and never will be friends - the sex thing is already out there, and it'll always screw up their relationship.

I'll offer a prediction of why she might think he's insincere. Is he the kind of person who (jokingly) hits on his female friends? This kind of thing is surprisingly (and disturbingly) common in groups involving both genders, and leads to nothing except mixed messages - like what this girl may be experiencing.

Barring that, maybe she holds the pathetic and flat-out wrong view that men will sleep with anybody. In which case she's crazy and there's no hope for her.

In either case, my advice would be for your friend to talk to and hang out with this girl more. Make himself available to her as a friend and open up about his every thought and feeling. Chances are this guy really doesn't like her, and this aloofness is giving him a quality that she doesn't see in 99% of guys. Time to kill that.

Good luck.

A quick decisive blow to the larynx with a sharp blade should do the trick. Make sure you sneak up behind her, and take advantage of the element of surprise.

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When bread becomes toast, it can never go back to being bread again.

Remind me to never break up with you, Flexor.

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Geeze, Flexor, I hope to kak your not speaking out of personal experiance!

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When bread becomes toast, it can never go back to being bread again.

Yikes, that's a conversation not to walk in on half way through!

I find a large stick often does a world of good!

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Restraining order.

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I think he should have a sincere talk with her on the phone.

Or he should get his own girl.

Also, murder is illegal in all 49 states.

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Someone did that to my best friend, and that didn't put him off....


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But theres 50 states.

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But.. but.. you said the exact same thing to me last night..

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Yes but that one doesn't count!

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GhostOfYoda - General doer of stuff.

Just sayng no isn't geting the message across. He needs to go a little further.

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Maybe. I'm almost positive Montana doesn't exist, and I'm pretty sure Wyoming doesn't either.

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MadQuack on Military school: Pro's: I get to shoot a gun. Con's: Everything else.
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i dont knwo how girls can be so self degrading. tell her with that 'ill take any kind of crap from you coz i like you', she'll never get a bf. isnt confidence what you people like? coz its sure as hell what we women like.

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Men like boobies.


Seriousely though, confidence is much less of an attraction factor for men.

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When bread becomes toast, it can never go back to being bread again.

women dont like confidence, they like money

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Drugs & Stupidity, Tons of it.

I wouldn't say money.. I'd say power in general.

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When bread becomes toast, it can never go back to being bread again.

Ok, here's what you do. Foolproof plan.

Take her aside one day, and whisper that you/he already has a girlfriend. Infact, you/he has six. You're cheating on six or seven different poeple, and you don't to make it any more complicated.

Or.. you know.. maybe not.

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MadQuack on Military school: Pro's: I get to shoot a gun. Con's: Everything else.
"I'm going to beat you until the laws of physics are violated!!" ! Maeve's Warcry

RIP -MaDaVentor-. You will be missed.

Then she'll say, 'what difference will one more make?'

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When bread becomes toast, it can never go back to being bread again.

Give her my email, I'll turn her off men forever!

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Then you open up a trans-dimensional vortex, misalign the return coordinates, and then shove her in. With the misaligned coordinates, she'll return a burned lump of ash.

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MadQuack on Military school: Pro's: I get to shoot a gun. Con's: Everything else.
"I'm going to beat you until the laws of physics are violated!!" ! Maeve's Warcry

RIP -MaDaVentor-. You will be missed.

Next time:

"Yes"
"REALLY!!!??"
"No."

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I thought you said men have boobies...

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Get alot of your good mates to consistently ask her out on dates, and then stiff her.

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The Darkside? I've Been there. Do your Worst

get a restraining order.

Or, if he's like me, he would shag her a few times and then send her on her way.

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[This message has been edited by Pagewizard_YKS (edited February 25, 2004).]

... No.. there are several PHRASES for it. "A Sliding accident" "misaligned return coordinates" and uh.. well.. those are the only two.

<3's Sliders and Flexor

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MadQuack on Military school: Pro's: I get to shoot a gun. Con's: Everything else.
"I'm going to beat you until the laws of physics are violated!!" ! Maeve's Warcry

RIP -MaDaVentor-. You will be missed.

Oh yeah. There's an idea.

"I don't love you, but I'll shag you a few times. *shag* Now go away."
"But.. but.. you shagged me, baby. You love me!"

That would only intensify your problems five fold. I HIGHLY reccomend my trans-dimensional vortex solution.

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MadQuack on Military school: Pro's: I get to shoot a gun. Con's: Everything else.
"I'm going to beat you until the laws of physics are violated!!" ! Maeve's Warcry

RIP -MaDaVentor-. You will be missed.

Acully that trans-dimensional vortex solution is looking pretty good. Cookie for happydud!

Ya know, eventully she will loose intrest in him on her own, but i take it he cant take it any more, most difinatally not 1-2 months...

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Kill her.*

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RIP -MaDaVentor-. You will be missed.