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My friend died. I'd like to talk about him.
2004-09-05, 9:35 PM #1
My friend died last night in a car accident involving a drunk driver.

He was 19 years old, and a student at Texas A&M University.

He wasn't my best friend, but he was someone I'd had had classes with in High School and someone I knew from other friends we both shared.

At first, I was surprised and thought it wasn't true, but, through the many distraught phone calls I've received today, It's become more and more real.

This really isn't a thread to try to talk about some spiritual beliefs about how he just went to Heaven and is happy. This isn't the place to joke with anyone's feelings. This is rather a slight memorial on a site no one connected with him will ever read.

It's tragic that he's gone, and that my class has lost so many of our own so soon. His death makes a total of 5 from our class alone that have died in the past 3 years.

Combine that with other serious losses in my life, including Adam, whom most of you knew, and I've grow to realize that we've all got a very limited time here.

I just wanted to leave a tiny memorial and a lesson I feel needs to be shared.

"We've got to remember, that for the rest of our lives, we've got to hold on to our own awesomeness and continue to live life to the fullest, everyday. So that when we leave this world, we leave it in peace with what we've done, what we've failed to do, and what we could have done had we just tried."

R.I.P Greg Jackson
May the angels guide you to the Light.
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2004-09-05, 9:38 PM #2
People with friends never really die.


RIP.
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2004-09-05, 9:38 PM #3
"Goodnight sweet prince, and flights of angels sing thee to thy rest."
2004-09-05, 9:43 PM #4
Drunk drivers need to be shot. That would teach em.

Sorry for you and your friend...

"All we have learned this time, is carried beyond this life."
2004-09-05, 9:44 PM #5
Man that sucks.


5 people dead from the same class. That must be depressing.
2004-09-05, 9:45 PM #6
When we are at the end of life, to die means to go away; when we are at the beginning, to go away means to die.
2004-09-05, 9:45 PM #7
RIP
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2004-09-05, 9:47 PM #8
:/ I'm sorry about your loss.

RIP
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2004-09-05, 9:54 PM #9
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2004-09-05, 9:56 PM #10
Your friend, as well as you and his family and friends are all in my prayers

May he RIP
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2004-09-05, 9:58 PM #11
Thank you all for the response and sympathy.

I just hope we can all learn that life is precious and that it's only as good as we make it.
"If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?"
2004-09-05, 9:59 PM #12
I am really sorry :(

Our class lost... I think 6 or 7 last year. A few suicides, drunk driving, and an ATV accident. A few more have passed away over the summer and turned up in the local papaer :(
2004-09-05, 10:04 PM #13
He's dead. He's gone and no amout of sympathy will bring him back. Go ahead, say he's in a better place, I dare you. That does nothing for me. Did he go there on his free will? Can you be absolutley sure he wants to be there? No. He's gone, that's where he is. Gone forever.
I'm sorry you see it that way
Why?
Because when you say that, he really is. He may have taken a part of you to the grave, but you live on with a part of him, so do all who loved him or were touched by him. To deny that is to deny his memory.
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2004-09-05, 10:32 PM #14
I'm sorry.

RIP.
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2004-09-05, 10:34 PM #15
May the drunk driver rot and burn in hell. Seriously. I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. It may have not been your best friend but it was still someone you can call a friend and was wrongly taken from this world.
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2004-09-05, 10:36 PM #16
They say every secound, a person dies. Yet a new life comes into the world. In all essence, he is not gone nor forgotten. My deepest and upmost sincere sympathies.

This world is a insane place to live. Takes a special understanding how to live in the soecity we call earth. For every action is a conseqence. For every death is a new understanding to life. We may have limited time to live, breath, love, and laugh. But Its what time we have as people. Time is life itself. Cherish it.

If you are afraid to make any slightest change inlife. Afraid to speak your mind to that hot chick or stick up for yourself. You only but not living what can be done. Dont miss out on life. Live it.

Sorry I would be alittle more insightfull but right now. Sleep is getting the best of me!
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2004-09-05, 10:36 PM #17
I feel sorry for you, him and his family . . . I really don't know if I would be able to deal with something like that.
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2004-09-05, 10:39 PM #18
:(

I hate when people die...
2004-09-05, 10:45 PM #19
S***, that sucks. I've been where you are now. My best friend was hit and killed by a motorcycle when we were both in first grade.
2004-09-06, 12:06 AM #20
:(


He will always be with you.

RIP
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2004-09-06, 12:55 AM #21
Bad Times :(

One of my friends here at my house just lost a friend a couple of weeks ago. Life is precious.
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2004-09-06, 2:44 AM #22
Sorry to hear matey!
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2004-09-06, 3:16 AM #23
Sorry man. RIP. Makes you think twice about drunk driving..but that should be a give me anyways.

RIP
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2004-09-06, 3:35 AM #24
Quote:
Originally posted by Pommy
People with friends never really die.


People without never really live.
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2004-09-06, 3:50 AM #25
As long as he is remembered, he isn't truly dead.
2004-09-06, 4:43 AM #26
Just as Adam lives on through our memories of him, your friend will live on through your memories.

As long as you don't forget him, he'll never truly die.

I hope he's in a better place.
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2004-09-06, 6:40 AM #27
I'm sorry man. I hope you and his family especially will be ok.
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2004-09-06, 6:58 AM #28
I think drunk driving should really be life in jail. If you drive drunk it's saying that you are endangering the lives of others and don't care. Stupid jerks. :mad:
2004-09-06, 7:15 AM #29
Sorry to hear about your friend :(. Drunk drivers suck.
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2004-09-06, 7:18 AM #30
im really sorry for your loss. :(

you and your friends family are in my thoughts and prayers.

RIP.
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2004-09-06, 7:21 AM #31
Life is so fragile and valuable.
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2004-09-06, 8:00 AM #32
:(


RIP.
2004-09-06, 8:17 AM #33
Bad times. :(
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2004-09-06, 8:34 AM #34
MaxisReed, I can feel your pain. In the past two years, 6 students have died at my school. Your loss reminded of a friend I had, who I talked to a lot. He was killed in a dirtbike accident, and it hasn't been the same around here.

R.I.P.
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2004-09-06, 10:10 AM #35
The tough thing is not just the amount of people that have passed away, but who they were in life.

He was a smart, really funny engineering student and really had a lot of possibilities for his life, but unfortunately, it was cut so short.

Others like Adam and my other friends had that same boundless possibility, and all of their lives were taken at too early of a time.

It's hard, but that's what life is. We've just got to remember all our friends and neighbors that have passed away, so in our hearts, they never pass on.
"If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?"
2004-09-06, 10:40 AM #36
I'm sorry, man. Almost the exact same thing happened to me. You just have to hang on, and eventually, you learn to deal with it.

Bad times. :(
2004-09-06, 11:23 AM #37
:(
Laughing at my spelling herts my feelings. Well laughing is fine actully, but posting about it is not.
2004-09-06, 1:44 PM #38
Dude....I am so sorry to hear that. :(

RIP :(
2004-09-06, 1:58 PM #39
:( RIP
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2004-09-06, 2:15 PM #40
Oh my god, I'm so sorry. :(
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