I know I'm coming into this a bit late, but I'll try and catch up:
But if God (who says selfishness is wrong) is out of the equation, why are the people doing good "selfishly" worse than the other? Who says it's wrong to be selfish?
Well, definetically (woo new word), you're wrong. We are automatically condemned to hell by doing wrong. But, we have a way out.
Exactly. And love by the way "is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." Thus, we're not doing what we do, just so *we'll* make it to heaven, but because it's right (and not "we think it's right," it is right, because God says so, and because He's God, (and He created the universe) He has the authority to decide what is right and wrong). Obi's question basically stems from that. Christians "hear it straight from the big man" so to speak, but ahtiests have no compass. They wander aimlessly in the way that seems to take them where they want to go. (I'm not saying that we Christians don't sometimes misinterpret the compass at times, just that we have one.)
No. Christians don't kill people because we love our fellow men. We don't love them because God told us to, but because God told us it's right to love them. Basically it's possible to love people even if you don't believe in God. It's just not required.
Where do you get those as being basic rules of structured society? The native americans had *no* concept of ownership of property, and I doubt anyone here would argue that they didn't have a "structured society."
No, he's not saying he would do those things, he's saying that he doesn't understand how athiests decide that those things are wrong. Again, think of the compass. We (Christans) don't do those things because we have a compass that points us away from that. Athiests have no such compass. Sometimes they turn away from it, sometimes not. But how do they decide which way to turn?
Empathy, guilt, fear? What causes those things? You could kill someone and 100 years from now, it won't make any difference. You will cease to exist when you die, so you won't have any guilt of it, and you won't have any *memory* of guilt. (you won't just forget, it'll be like you never existed in the first place). Fear? Fear or what? As soon as you die, you'll have no memory of life. What motivates you? What motivates these responses in you? They are all emotions that are only useful if you believe that there is an eternal life (or eternal set of lives) in which your actions in this life affect the outcome of the next.
Not to be a grammar nazi, but weather refers to rain and wind and sunshine. Whether would be the word you're looking for.
Freelancer, I'm going to officially suggest that you withdraw that remark or I'll take action by bringing it to the attention of an admin. I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt and believe that you just didn't realize what you said or how it sounded (read, whatever).
I know you're answering Obi, but I'd like to answer these questions.
1) Why do you believe in God?
I believe in God mostly because I've seen Him do things in my life that if taken individually would not prove His existance, but when you look at all the events/occurances as a whole, God is the logical (not the only possible answer, but definately the most probably and logical answer) answer. Any other doubt is covered by faith (believing something because you want to, rather than because you have proof, which people don't seem to like these days, but I have no problem with it).
2) Why do you believe that's right?
What's right? Believing in God? or following Him? I believe in God for the reasons mentioned above. I follow and obey Him because I believe he has the right to be followed and obeyed, since he created me. (An (overly simple but basically accurate) analogy would be a computer program. A programmer "creates" a program, and the program does what the programmer wants it to, because he created it. The main fallacy in this example being that 1) computer programs don't have free will (but if they did, would it be right for them to do what their creator wanted them to?)) (I use way to many parenthesis.)
That's frankly not true at all. Religion forces you to think more than you would otherwise. For example, imagine if religion did not exist. There would be no concept of morality. We would basically be animals. If you made me mad, I'd kill you, and have no guilt, no sense of right or wrong. I'd have no reason to ever question my actions or the right or wrongness of them. But, throw religion into the mix, and suddenly I'm thinking. "Is this right or wrong?" "What will the consequences for my actions be?" etc. Religion/morality is what catapults humanity ahead of the other animal life. Further, Christianity (at least) does not encourage people to write things off as "Because God." Instead, we're encouraged to question God (inquizatively, not accusitively), and constantly question ourselves to ensure that we're acting within God's will. We're also encouraged to look at the "why" and "how" behind things. God always tells us why when he asks or commands us to do something. (If you don't believe me, check the bible, and you'll see that whenever God told anyone or tells us to do or not to do something, He tells us why or why not.)
Define "better." Why would it be good for the world to be a "better" place? Would it make life easier for others? Who's to say a hard life is not a good thing?
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.
Lassev: I guess there was something captivating in savagery, because I liked it.