Starting at midnight, I started to have trouble breathing... I had forgotten my inhaler and left at a place an hour away from my house. So I sat up till it got better. It didn't, and it only got worse when I lay down. So I sat there twiddling my thumbs till 5 AM, till I finally woke my mom and she drove me to the hospital, I could barely breathe by then. O_o So they do a bunch of useless blood tests when all I needed was an inhaler, but by the time I GET an inhaler, I'm all better because of the clean hospital air... So I go home, and not having slept all night, I fall asleep in the car and my mom says I can skip school because she doesn't want me sleeping in classes. Sooo, I slept from 6:30 when I got back till just now.

And I missed my free, when I was planning to tell this girl my AIM screen name.

Just ranting about my life...

You could give her your phone number...

but ya, I cant believe you waited that long to wake up your mom. I'm sure she would've understood being woken up at 3am if you're having that much trouble breathing.

Or better yet, get hers.

Sucks that he had all that trouble, though.

Bad Times

At least it all turned out well and you get to miss school. Now the question that needs to be asked here is "Why don' t you have more than one inhaler for such situations"

A few weeks ago a guy spent an evening flirting one with of my lady friends, at the end he gave her his number. He was doing pretty well until then.

That's what I meant. That way you dont have to worry if she'll call you or not. Her number is the better way to go.

Uhhh... No... She wanted to know my SN in the first place, randomly asking her number would be suicide. Plus, her number is in my school directory, I can look it up.

I love the way this quickly turned into a 'girls' thread.

So ask for it anyway, she wont kill you. It doesnt matter if its in the directory or not, its always better to ask for it instead of just randomly calling.

Oh and I hope everything is better with your breathing and stuff.

It is, thanks. And I got a new inhaler, oh boy!

And I won't ask yet. I've only known her a week. Plus, I'm trying to remain faithful to the other girl I really like, who likes me more than this girl. Only because I've known her longer.

I'm really quite confused over which one to go with.

What the f***? Are you exclusive with this other chick, or do you just like her more (and are not seeing her) than the one you met recently? If it's the latter situation, its stupid to stay faithful if you are merely hoping that she will open up to you. If that's the case, its not going to happen, man. I've been there and done that in the past. You are only wasting opportunities if you take that option.





Get all the numbers you can. Date several chicks simultaneously, and then slowly work your way down to the one you want the most and become exclusive with her. There is no real good reason to become exclusive right away,. b/c you have to start over from nothing if it doesn't work out. With my way, you have several immediatre backup options that you can fall back on.

I think your experience was awesome (in a profound poetic way) and I completely sympathize with the pain and the suffering. Now about the girl issue, well, you need to ask yourself several questions. For one, which is the prettier girl? After this, does this really matter to you? It is understandable that you would linger on the girl you knew longer, simply because you are so familiar with her. At the same time, it might be very shallow to abandon something meaningful for something cheap; you might regret this. I think it is really simple to make this decision, if they are absolutely identical in every aspect then you wouldn't even have noticed the new girl. If you only like this new girl 'cause she has a nice *** or whatever and that's it then you will regret it if you end up marrying her that you threw away something that was so much more real. Most chicks get fat when they get married and lazy about looking good to impress a potential mate since they already have one. Honestly man, if you are at a point where you can make a choice, Jesus, just do it. Some of us can't even talk to the girl I love. :p

And heeeere we go!! Pagewizard strikeths!

No, it's just that I am not very good at liking two people at once, and if I go out with one o them, it will make me feel s***ty because of the other one, especially if they're sad about it.

So if I go out with this girl in my school, I'll fell really terrible about the one outside of school that I also like, because it's very very possible that she likes me a good deal.

Girl in school = Pretty damn hot, amazing smile, and I see her every free period I have, pass her in hallways, spent four days with her on a camping trip. Nice girl.

Girl outside of school = Even hotter, nicer, likes me more, easier to get along with (not like wither of them are mean at all, it's just easier to talk to this girl), and I've been on several hiking trips with her, spent nights around her, talked alot, etc. However, I can rarely see her, as her family is usually busy. They usually promise to do something, then cancel at the VERY last moment.

So, yeah. I'm torn up about it. And NO, I will NOT date several people randomly. I don't do it that way. I only want to go out with the girls I like a whole lot, in every possible way. Like these two girls.

-_-

[EDIT: Okay, I just saw Tonberry's post. I already answered most of your questions, I guess.]

Clean hospital air?

No dust, which is what set my asthma off in the first place.

It's amazing how you refuse to do the one thing that will help you. You have to stop feeling sorry for the other chick and just take the plunge. strike while the iron is hot.


Don't worry about being nice, or anything like that. Be a man, and listen to your testosterone. Your purpose on this earth as a man is to score with beautiful women. I'm simply asking you to do what it is in your nature to do.

[Edit- Do I really have to explain why I removed it?]
I'm merely encouraging you to date both simultaneously and spend time with each one on different occasions. At least do that much. Then, you can choose which one you like the most after some time has passed. And don't worry about it-- she will stop feeling sad about it once she ends up with some other guy, i guarantee it..

You must realize that I'm trying to help you. If I had it in for you, I wouldn't say anything, and i would make some popcorn and watch these chicks end up with someone else.

Sorry Page, but no. You just simply have no idea what my way of dealing with girls is, and I am going to do it my way. Which is not asking them out right away. I'll wait till the next dance, ask her to dance (maybe, if I can get the guts to do it ). Either way, there's a good chance of me winning. If I go out with this new girl, I can still be good freinds with the other one, and when/if we break up, I can then go after the other one. And if this new girl turns me down, then great! Now I only have one girl to go after!

Why not now?

Why wait? Your plan makes no sense. Her high interest will only fall. you must move NOW, or later it will be too late. She will find someone else. Women won't wait for you.
I could let you learn this the hard way like i should, but i'm trying to save you some trouble by going the extra mile.

If you wait, YOU WILL FAIL. Do you really want to piss away 2 good opportunities for no good reason other than to await your convenience?






It doesn't work like that. Once a chick designates you as a friend, its very hard to develop that into something else. Been there, tried that.

Omg. Really, this girl outside of school is my best friend's cousin. He will tell me when to ask her out. He KNOWS. She's his COUSIN. Must this turn into a big fight? I know what I'm doing, really. If it fails, so what. I'll move on.

Also, she's apparently had 'high interest', or at least interest of some kind since she met me, half a year ago. It only went up, not down.

fine, do what you want. I don't care anymore.

is sad

nm.

Great.

Thanks, elana.

dude, I just saw that other thread, I didn't know you were 14. I thought you were at least 16 or 17, b/c thats the typical age of people on here. Shagging chicks is a little advanced for you at this point, I'll agree on that.

Hell, i'm afraid to ask how old the chicks are.

To be honest i'm more terrified of Zell following his current course rather than following Pagewizard's advice, talk about machinations.

I don't see a problem with going on a few dates with different girls. Assuming you don't plan to get laid on any first date any time soon, then the purpose of a first date is to find out how compatible you are. You can go on a few first dates with different girls and just draw the line there, only calling the one who seems most right for the second date.

I would go for the hotter girl that I get along with better if I were you. But again, please ignore everything I say.

Well, Detty, went through the samething that Zell is going through at the moment. No problems there. I didn't start dating till I was 16. Heck, my fiancee is probably my 3rd girlfriend. I dated around a lot for 2 years though. But I always feel that I'm a weird exception.

Zell seems to be following the exact thought process that I would normally have gone through and (at the risk of sounding like Pagewizard) it held me back for all of my teenage years and i'm only now realising that misplaced is not the same as being a good guy.

I always had some misplaced loyalty towards girls I liked before I even asked them out, whereby I felt guilty if I was attracted to more than one girl at the same time. I've always waited for some perfect moment to do some magical display of my character that would sweep the girl off her feet. Doesn't happen.

Make your own opportunities, don't wait around for something that may never happen to happen.

I think I will. The only problem is, the more I see the other girl (every day at school) and we actaully talk (almost every day), I get along better with her.

Same thing applies for the other girl, except I get along with her way better (we talk more), etc.

And yeah, "shagging chicks" isn't on my to-do list for at least 4 years. :p

Zell...you are my hero.

and I'm glad you're breathing again

Yeah, not mine either, really. In fact, I don't see what the big deal about it is. It's not like if you don't have sex in high school you'll never get any for the rest of your life. But hey, I'm sorta weird like that.

Good lord....I guess it's girl thread week.

It can't be, I need a few weeks before I can start mine.

Tar-nation, get to studying you whippersnapper!

None of this funny buisness! Hit those books!

Thank you... but why am I your hero? O_o