ok i will give u a list of things a girl has said to me, mainly in text messages, but also what her mate has told me and also the girls behavior.

- we text each other between 15 and 30 times a day.
she's always asking me what i'm doing.

- she says I'm the funniest guy she ever met

- recently she's been dropping loads of hints that she wants to come round, or that i should go round hers.

- texted me that she was scared that vandals were trying to break into a house near here. Seemed to be very emotional and expected comfort from me.

- seems quite sensitive if she thinks she's upset me

- always asking me about the cheerleader girl, asking me if I loved her even though i tell her loads I never did ( i really didnt love that slapper)

- her best friend says she thinks we both like each other, but Shiva is too shy and i'm too scared to be with anyone cos of my mental problems and scarring from the other women.

- she bought me amazing presents when she was away, something she only did for closest friends. (necklaces and clothes really nice)


So basically, either Shiva wants to be my friend, or she hopes for something more. I'm not fusses either way

What do u think?

I can give more details

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

She likes you, now decide if you want something to happen.

My advice: friends with benefits, fling, or be her ge ge (asian thing).

She loves you, yeah, yeah, yeah

Oh, you prolly know this, but be careful .. seems like she likes you a bit too much.

BINGO! YOU HAVE BINGO!!!! GO UP AND GET YOUR PRIZE!!!!


This chick is definitely into you.



Forget about your past, none of that matters now. The only things that matter are the present and the future. Take the opportunity while you can.

......Am I the only one irritated that he even had to ask?

And in a surprise turn of events, she'll just want to be your friend, nothing more. She could even suddenly stop talking to you if you go for more...

Here comes Pagewizard to save the day.



What the hell? Why would you want to cut down on talking to a girl you like? There's no such thing as talking to someone too much... well, maybe there is, but that isn't it.

Her name is Shiva? That's awesome, I didn't know people other than the goddess were named that!

haha! I was just listening to that!

anywho, she's really into you, so good luck

PW is right -- to an extent. Don't be TOO available, but don't ignore her .. best way is to show you have interest in her, but make her respect things you do, so you're not CONSTANTLY around her. Because if you are, and she's fickle, it'll go down the drain.

Abscence makes the font grow fonder [sic] ..

Given your troubles with women, I urge extreme caution when going about this.

my point is, why waste all the dialogue on IM? Save it for the date. Keep yourself mysterious at first-- make her wonder about you. Once that mysterious element is established, you can gradually open up and show her that theres more to oyu than what meets the eye. It WILL drive her wild to know that she sees a side of you that no one else sees. I'll guarantee that.


I'm not too much about talk. I'm more about action. Sitting around talking with a chick for very long gets boring for me really fast. That's why I like to balance it with fun stuff klike miniture golf, or an amusement park, bowling, etc. Action dates are fun, and that's what really matters the most. Fun is good. if you're fun and you are showing that oyu are having a good time, women will be attracted to you like ants to a sugar spill. They come to soak up the positive emotions you are giving off, for lack of a better term.

Ever hear women talk? From a man's point of view, they say what they feel. Its a chaotic mess of feelings. They are basically sharing their emotions with the group and swapping them around. Likewise, they will try to read your emotions. Its in your best interest to give them something good to read, so let the happiness radiate.

Ok, since you put it that way, I understand. I personally never get bored talking to girls. Unless they're ones I don't like at all. THe ones I like I could listen to allll day.... [/dripping sap]

Am I the only one tired of Massassi's self-appointed relationship "experts" constantly spouting drivel based on stereotypes, cliches and gross assumptions about how and what women think?

Ruthervain: I second wolfy's comment. Given your comments (something about swords)on another thread and recent events, I think there are more important things to be concerned with at the moment.

I hit that wall around six months ago, then I discovered recently these new forums have a wonderful 'ignore user' feature. If only they also ignored others quoting said people too, then I'd be a happy man.

Wait. Ignore user? Do you mean that it filters out posts or just PMs?

[edit] Sweet fancy moses! It filters the posts! I thought the ignore feature was just for PMs. Gordon, I love you. Many levels. Great intensity.

He asked for an opinion. I gave him a short, concise, one. Never did I stereotype, nor make an assumption.

Nor do I consider myself a "self appointed expert".

Don't make gross generalizations.
:p

fixed

For what it's worth Pommy, I wasn't referring to you.

God forbid someone tries to help another person out who wants help.

To be honest, Run, I think we've gotten to the point where, if Page's advice is not wanted by the person asking the question, they say so when they propose the question.

It has. Notice how in my thread I specifically asked Page not to reply?

yeh but how much u wanna bet page has never gone into manic depression cos of a girl?

personally I respect his advice on getting women and keep in it mind and value his advice for getting over them and try to follow it to the letter. Still, i'm a wimp.

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

Good man. At least you try.



I never ask for more than that in the beginning.

Am I the only one who realises how that when asked for an advice in an internet environment without any real first-hand knowledge of the situation, using majority stereotypes is the only way to give a decent answer?

Of course there are always exceptions, probably quite a lot of exceptions, but we don't know if the girl is one of the exceptions so it's more reasonable to assume she's not (at this stage).

Poor ruthy.

Conspiracy everywhere.

she wants to **** you!!!

i didnt swear

**** ***** ***

Actually (dare I say) Pagewizard is right.

In the beginning of a relationship, it's easy to spend too much time with each other, and you get tired of each other. It's not that you don't like each other, but gradually start spending more time with the girl. That way, neither of you will be smothering the other. And for the love of God, communicate, and encourage communication from her. If one of you feels smothered, that person needs to tell the other. Smothering causes a relationship to die pretty quickly, and you both have to communicate that smothered feeling. Just do it nicely. Probably not. But at least you get women. Try having social anxiety disorder. Regardless what you know about women, it's like... bleh... I don't know; you just can't think straight, and can't even force yourself into conversation. Fun.

i probably do

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

yes:D

the general response is one of 100% YES OMG HAVE YOU BABIES

But i am not convinced.
She doesnt talk to me like she fancies me a lot of the time.
I like to take the mik out of myself a lot, and she's eager to join in, like she called me a "blonde girlie" the other day.
Is that the name for a guy a girl wants to be with?


need more info.

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

Pommy is trying to relive his problems through someone elses but even still good advice. And absense is not always good Pommy, if you remember.

You find it difficult to even say a few words to people even though you want to? It's like shyness^99999999999999999999999. Hmm. That could go either way. She could be flirting with you, but it's hard to tell without tons more detail... detail that only you know. I have a friend like that, and she's not interested in me. So you can't really go on that.

Errr, wtf? That's kind of messed up.

Havent you grown up yet? :p

I think you should show everyone that advice book you made ages ago, it was hilarious!

No kidding. The way to get a girl to like you is not to falsify your personality. At the most, she'll only like what she thinks is you.

I'm like that, it's taken many years of effort but I can almost make polite conversation.

He speaks the truth. I find that girls are interested in me when I'm just being me, as in not activly pursuing anyone.