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dealing with death (oh how cheery)
2004-10-04, 11:26 AM #1
yeh well, guys... my grampa died earlier (this morning 6am ish) and I'm not really sure how to deal with it. So far i've simply delayed my feelings and tried to forget it. What have you lot done when loved ones have died? I feel like i've not been all i could've to my grampa and that i was an awful grand-son.... :(
Sneaky sneaks. I'm actually a werewolf. Woof.
2004-10-04, 11:36 AM #2
Bad Times :(

Trying to forget yuor feelings probably isn;t the best way to deal with the situation. Take some time to reflect and see what happens
Pissed Off?
2004-10-04, 11:39 AM #3
I've decided to go to the funeral, my first one too, and try and let it all out so i can try to live reasonably happily afterwards. thanks Avenger. :)
Sneaky sneaks. I'm actually a werewolf. Woof.
2004-10-04, 11:53 AM #4
My grandfather died almost a month ago. I still don't really think anything about it. I was shocked at first, now I just don't know.
Looks like we're not going down after all, so nevermind.
2004-10-04, 12:54 PM #5
Bad times oxy... i was wondering why you were missing from msn for once... sry...:(
nope.
2004-10-04, 1:07 PM #6
When it's someone who's old I always comfort myself in knowing they've had a chance to live a full life, and this was just their time. All people die eventually, that's just something we have to accept.
The music industry is a cruel and shallow money trench where thieves and pimps run free, and good men die like dogs. There's also a negative side.
2004-10-04, 1:09 PM #7
Quote:
Originally posted by Flexor
All people die eventually


I won't.... thank you carbon freezing!
nope.
2004-10-04, 1:43 PM #8
uhh.. I won't die cos I don't want to yet
Sneaky sneaks. I'm actually a werewolf. Woof.
2004-10-04, 2:08 PM #9
Death is just a part of life. Maybe he's in a better place or something.
2004-10-04, 2:30 PM #10
Talk about it with people who were close to him, they'll tell you all his good sides. Take those those things into your memory.


Also, just cry. You've lost someone, there's no reason not to.
2004-10-04, 2:34 PM #11
there is no shame in crying for a loved one
free(jin);
tofu sucks
2004-10-04, 2:49 PM #12
thanks guys! those comments helped me a lot :)
Sneaky sneaks. I'm actually a werewolf. Woof.
2004-10-04, 2:56 PM #13
I think it will probably be even worse when our parents die. :(
2004-10-04, 4:09 PM #14
Oh good god, man, you're depressing us all...:eek:
2004-10-04, 7:50 PM #15
Hey, Oxy, don't worry about not having been a good grandson. The fact that you care shows that you couldn't have been all that bad.

Maybe you could share some happy memories of him with us. That might help.
It's not the side effects of cocaine, so then I'm thinking that it must be love

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