Alright... listen here.
In a perfect world, the OS is user-friendly and powerful. However, this perfect situation does not seem to exist. I considered leaving Gentoo because it has problems, primarily being long compile times. I thought that there would be something that struck a balance between power and ease of use.
So, I thought that something Debian based would be the solution. I haven't mentioned it yet, but I have tried the Debian installer. Basically, it bombarded me with question after question after question. I find this approach to be relentless and tiring, and the questions sometimes did not have an obvious answer. Gentoo, on the other hand, allows you to do anything, in any order, granted you know what you are doing. Yes, the typical Gentoo newbie is just going through the motions.
However, I feel insulted that you take me for that. I have been using Gentoo since last February, and in that time I have done about 10 installs, set up an unstable ~x86 box, nptl, udev, reiser4, various kernel patchsets all compiled manually, manual frame-buffer and gensplash configuration, Xorg 6.8 with render and composite with shadows and transparencies, and a whole lot more stuff with ebuild overlays and portage. I know what the **** I am doing. I'm not just an idiot following the manual verbosely. When I install Gentoo these days, I barley look at the manual, because i know exactly what I want and how to do it. And I do it in considerably less steps because I actually know what I am doing.
So why did I even consider switching from Gentoo? Simply put, I don't have time to dedicate my life to my operating system. I need to get good grades in school. I thought there was an OS that I could trust to make decisions for me, but I guess I was wrong. Each one has at least one irreversible flaw that prevents me from using it. As for Debian, lets just say that some of those flaws are lack of polish, a scattered community, a cryptic installer (yes, even the new one), conservative decisions, and a lagging package tree. As for freeBSD, I have a large collection of music on my hard-drive, all in lossless FLAC format. I bought a whole disk just for music. I love music, and if my music won't play out of all my speakers (which I spent good money on), then I simply won't even consider it.