Ok heres the list
http://www.mediafamily.org/research/report_vgrc_2004.shtml
Ok heres what bothers me about how contradictory this list is.
The Sims2 is on there yet in the Sims2 you can kill people that come over your house, torture them, and even have sex (whoopee) with the maid. Yeah i see how thats perfectly accetable for children.
Sands of Time, yeah you don't run around killing people with a scimitar or anything and Simcity 3... oh yeah you can create a natural disaster killing thousands.... its all super family fun.
So the message is:
Its ok to represent Sex in a video game as long as you don't show anything or any cleavage.
Its ok to torture and kill people as long as its not depicted in a real fashion with blood and painful moaning. Because lets face it, we don't want our kids getting upset when they are killing people on screen. We need to have more humor about mass genecide
In my opinion those things would probably screw kids up more.