So I was sitting with some of my friends at lunch the other day and the conversation really bothered me. I mean, these are people that I love and respect, they're definitely intelligent and funny and nice and all that. But they were saying some stuff on religious basis that was kind of upsetting to me. As in, they don't believe in evolution, and they don't think it should be emphasized as correct in school? these are very intelligent people, and I kind of thought evolution was less of a theory and more of a fact. Obviously, it wasn't just that, if it were, I would just raise and euebrow and not really care all that much, but there were a lot of things that they were saying that really caused me to do a double take. for the purposes of not creating a debate, I won't go into the subjects and all that but it just really kind of bothered me to hear such close-minded, not-so-very intelligent and even at times cruel things from people I respect so much. and I do like the fact that while I tihnk some of their views are close-minded, they were willing to hear other points of view (they wanted me to speak up, but I can get worked up about some of the stuff and I knew I wan't going to change anyone's thought process, particularly if it was rooted in religious beliefs, and even if I had the power I wouldn't want to change other people's religious beliefs).
Please understand me, I respect other people's beliefs very highly, but being religious doesn't always have to mean being close-minded and unwilling to look at facts and reason, and i hate it that in thier case, it did mean exactly that (obviously, only in some respects). Don't get me wrong, I still love and respect these people, but it was kind of bothering me. especially when the person that I'm the closest to started making comments on what I believe (I don't tihnk intentionally meant to be derogatory, or at least not entirely intentionally). Again, I'm not one to judge, my opinion of them hasn't changed, but it was kind of upsetting for me. maybe it was more my closest friend's comments (both about me and not) than anyone else's but there were still some times when I was really biting my tongue. especially when they asked me to say what I was tihnking.
I don't know, is it just me? has anyone else experienced this. I know this isn't my personal place to rant and such; I would have written about it in my Xanga, but they kind of visit it on a regular basis and I don't want to hurt their feelings or anything, but I need to get it out somewhere.
Please understand me, I respect other people's beliefs very highly, but being religious doesn't always have to mean being close-minded and unwilling to look at facts and reason, and i hate it that in thier case, it did mean exactly that (obviously, only in some respects). Don't get me wrong, I still love and respect these people, but it was kind of bothering me. especially when the person that I'm the closest to started making comments on what I believe (I don't tihnk intentionally meant to be derogatory, or at least not entirely intentionally). Again, I'm not one to judge, my opinion of them hasn't changed, but it was kind of upsetting for me. maybe it was more my closest friend's comments (both about me and not) than anyone else's but there were still some times when I was really biting my tongue. especially when they asked me to say what I was tihnking.
I don't know, is it just me? has anyone else experienced this. I know this isn't my personal place to rant and such; I would have written about it in my Xanga, but they kind of visit it on a regular basis and I don't want to hurt their feelings or anything, but I need to get it out somewhere.
Fincham: Where are you going?
Me: I have no idea
Fincham: I meant where are you sitting. This wasn't an existential question.
Me: I have no idea
Fincham: I meant where are you sitting. This wasn't an existential question.