I just talked to my girl, she's moving away from here (Tennessee) to New York. Her parents just sprung this whole thing one her, she's as torn up about it as I am. She doesn't want to try the whole long distance thing, and she's leaving in a week. Words just don't describe how I feel right now. Just last week, we were talking about how great it's going to be to spend our lives together... and now this. We've been together about 8 months now, best 8 months of my live. I just don't know what to do...

Thanks for reading this, I know I can always come here and find a listening ear. Anyone got any advice to make this easier?

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[This message has been edited by NoESC (edited April 28, 2004).]

I can't offer much in the way of advice, but... keep in touch with her. You'll like hearing about her life, despite the fact that (temporarily at least) you don't get to share it with her the same way. Share by communicating.

My condolences. If you'll miss her as much as you claim, you must have loved her much, and she you.

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I keep going back and forth between wanting to talk to her and not. Don't know which would be easier...

Thanks man.

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Advice: don't come to massassi for advice.

...jk Relax and take your mind off it. Grab a drink, lie down and take a nap.

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Give it time and things will feel better. Also, this could be a great test of how she feels for you. Give her about a week or two of being up there without you, and then ask if maybe she thinks it could work. Tell her that you're willing to do whatever it takes to keep things strong between you.

How old are you?

I can tell you from my experiences (right now actually) that long distance relationships are very hard. My fiancee lives 3.5 hours south of me right now, and it's extremely difficult. I can only imagine the distance between Tenn. and NY. There isn't any room for "I'll just drive up for a weekend." with that one. Which is why I ask your age, because if you're not old enough to drive across state borders on your own (ie: your parents caring that you do so), then I wouldn't suggest attempting to keep things on. In such a situation, you're too young to be claiming lifelong devotion, and it's best to move on. It's hard, but it's for the best.

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going with not an option then?

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18, and I would drive up there, but she just thinks it'll be too hard and that we'll eventually just drift apart anyway.

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You should try and keep and touch... but I'm not sure what you should do.

I'm sorry, man. That's really sad.

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It's doable. Like I said, give her a couple weeks to get used to not having you. Right now, as odd as this sounds, it's easy for her to say that she wants to break it off because she's hurt and she's taking you for granted. You never know just what you've got until it's gone.

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1337Yectiwan
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That's true, thanks Yecti, and everyone else too.

I'm willing to drive up there as often as I can, just have to see what she is willing to do.

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