Okay, I have two problems right now, on different topics. One of them you massassians may be good at, and the other problem, massassians suck at. I'll leave it up to you to figure out which is which. :p

Problem #1: I am a lazy *** fool! I currently have to rewrite a term paper, get more sources for it, take notes on those sources, and finish reading a book AND make a book report on it, AND finish a french worksheet. All of these are due tomorrow. I have done none of those, nay, I haven't even started these, and it's 9:00 PM! In fact, I am browsing the web, editing my level, and playing games, all while I should be working! I am scroooowed! How can I possibly help this, like permanently become not lazy? I know I'm not helping my situation by posting on a forum.

Problem #2: A love life problem. Okay. Let's start three years ago, when I had a mad crush on this girl, and over the course of those three years, I did a great many idiotic things which made me completely lose any chance with her. Enter girl #2. This girl lives somewhat far away and has a busy schedule most of the time, so I couldn't see her much, but I got to really like her over time. This time, I didn't do anything bad because I learned what not to do from girl #1. So, she actually got to like me too, and recently we expressed our liking for each other (Not love yet, we're just young'uns (I'm 14, she's 13)), and we decided to 'go out'. Well, that didn't last long. A week later, she decided that she actually wasn't ready for a boyfriend, because she had a habit of breaking up with her former boyfriends a lot. She said she wanted to be friends (she wasn't pulling the normal 'lets be friends' bs this time, she's actually quite honest, and we remained good friends.) Over time, it's gotten to be more than friends again, as we went to many movies, and places. I even gave her a rose for valentine's day, which she liked (I actually did it rather clumsily, but apparently it's the thought that counts, because she didn't notice me being lame when giving it to her). I haven't seen her since then, because she's been too busy.
Now, I have a big problem on the inside here. Rather than 'Absence makes the heart grow fonder', for me it's 'absence makes the heart forget and notice other girls'. So, I realized that ever since I had stopped liking girl #1 after the three years of torment, and started to go out with girl #2, I realized with a bang a few weeks ago that I STILL REALLY LIKE GIRL #1, DAMMIT. This is a terrible thing. It sucks. First, I am supposed to like girl #2 (I still do, of course, I just think girl #1 is infinitely prettier) because she's a better choice, some reasons being that she's more forgiving, understanding ,etc. Of course, I've been ignoring this girl all year because I was told to for my own health, and because she hates me after 'THE THREE YEARS', and everyone thought it would be good if I left her the hell alone for once. So I have been all year. Now, since I realized I liked her still, I've still been leaving her alone (if she found out, it would be hell all over again), and just seeing if there are ways to talk to her and be friendly and try to get things from the negative side to a neutral side. I don't want to rush things and screw up again.

So, I leave it up to you. I am making a poll for problem #2 as to what I should do. Just so you know, you're the first people aside from me ever to know my liking for girl #1 again... I'm spilling my guts here. You guys (and girls) had better give me good advice. :p

Do whatever gets you laid.

See, this is exactly the kind of 'advice' that I don't want.

You mention that she lives quite far away... long distance relationships rarely work...
You have time, you're only 14...
Dump both of them, find a new girl that lives near you

Forget girl#1. that was then. this is now.

Long distance relationship = We live about an hour apart. Not TOO far apart.

I see I have summoned the Pagewizard, Unfortunately, he is right this time. I know #1 is bad news, but I really want her to like me. I dunno why, but she's irresistable.

just remember that no chick is perfect. Sometimes, the best looking ones are the ones that are the most messed up.

The thing is, that I'm the only one who says she's pretty. Everyone else I know thinks that #1 is not very pretty. It must be a preference thing, because I happen to think she's the most attractive in the school, in some subtle way.

And she does have faults that I know of. She's not very forgiving. Make a mistake, and psheeww, up goes the whole thing. As I learned, the hard way. This is why I intend to not make any more.

Fixed. :p

Well then that depends - Do you like her because she's hot, or do you think she's hot because you like her?

Where do you live? I'll stop by your place and give you a sense of humour.

And, girl #2.

Aggh, that's too deep for me! I'd have to say.... I think she's hot because I like her. If I didn't like her, I probably wouldn't notice her.

<3

Well okay, I just talked to girl #2, we're going to see a movie next weekend. Hopefully, when I see her again, I'll forget all about #1 and do things properly. Time will tell...

Step 1: x
Step 2: Get laid.

Great advice, jackass.

over the course of 3 years you have only gotten involved with 2 girls... i think you are limiting yourself or something because meeting girls is not 'that' hard. I would try forgetting both of them and finding a girl that does not have as many obstacles involved in terms of whooing her. An hour away is a ****ing long *** away and even if you had a license and a car... driving an hour is ridiculous at your age. My advice... throw a party and get alcohol and get chicks drunk and your set.

hell no...

I don't touch a chick if she's drunk. If you have sex w/ her when she's wasted, she could wake up later and say that you raped her and you could be in REAL DEEP S*** then, b/c its impossible to prove that its consentual unless someone else was there.

Taking advice for girls, from massassi? We all do it once but really, it's insanity.

Well it's not like I wanted to tell enyone I knew in real life what I felt about her... it would be disastrous.

Oh, and apparently I'm not that bad off as I thought with girl #1. Today, we had a short talk, when someone mentioned that I had been in a car crash earlier in the year, she seemed concerned and asked how I was... and she didn't scowl or avoid my gaze, so I must not be that bad off. :/