I'm not trying to start anything or anything... but was that absolutely necessary?
Sometimes these things leave people with little to say beyond R.I.P or something... which I would simply guess is because he or she may not have known the person.
I know, for me, that it's hard for me to say much about the death of someone I didn't know (famous or not) because I didn't know the person. I won't say it's not sad or anything, but I sometimes just can't say anything beyond R.I.P. especially if I haven't seen something the person may have been in or heard songs by the person, or something along those lines.
But at least it shows some interest to say "R.I.P." Being a message board, it's fairly simple to just simply read the thread and article, and not reply at all... so to say something at all at least shows a certain level of compassion... not to say not posting is disrespectful, because sometimes you may not want to say something simply because it's been said a million times or something.
Anyway, I apologise for ranting; and, as I said when I began, I did not intend to start anything... and I apologize if I upset anyone... and if so, please feel free to P.M. me, and tell me, so I at least know, or can explain something, and keep the thread on-track by not starting a side-conversation.
ANYWAY, onto the topic at hand...
I do not remember having ever heard any of Vandross' songs, but many people have, and I'm sure he had a number of friends and family.
He will be missed by many.
May he rest in peace.