I have a gf of 7 months, tori, very pretty and I care for her very much.
Dare I say, I even "love" her.

Now I start working at a place in Guildford, a clothes store, and this girl, who shall be called, Xen, seems very nice to me.
She's a goth, very thin, nice body, quite pretty etc.

She gave me her msn name and we started talking, and she sends me her modelling work. She's a goth model, pretty cool.

When I'm at work she ALWAYS comes up to me to talk to me but also acts weird around me. My gf's mates also worked as temps at the clothes store and warned her that Xen and other girls were hitting on me.

1 week later, she was upset with me that i didnt talk to her online, she was sorta rude to me at work and handed me a note....
with her number, !!!??

now online she sends me near naked photos of her and constant innuendoes and flirting.

I'm scared, cos I would never cheat on my gf, but i dont wanna hurt the feelings of Xen. Last time I turned someone down she went mental and self harmed and dont want it to happen again, tho I';m sure Xen is more stable

Thoughts?

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

zomg impossible!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111

[EDIT:] It might be best to let her down and give her the reason that you have a girlfriend that you care about.

Weather or not you should tell your girlfriend about this, I don't know. I think it might be best though. (That is, if she dosn't know already).

Oh, and we need pics.

Pictures are good, ya know. As for advice... Well, I think you should let Xen know that you have a girlfriend that you care a lot about.

Tell you are happily involved with your GF, and the longer you don't tell her such, the harder she will likely take it when you do.

You're probably going to hurt the feelings of Xen. But it is best for you to let her know that you have a gf and care for her greatly as you point out.

This thread is useless without pictures.

Always have open and honest communication. Anything else gets you screwed.

EDIT: images removed

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

Start talking to her about your gf and how wonderful she is

Too straightforward. Girls always manage to misunderstand stuff like that.

I think you should try to show that you have far more differences than similarities in taste and qualities than she does. Maybe, be the opposite than what she wants (like things a Goth would never like?).

...but probably that wouldn't work.

give her my msn address.

Stick with the gf. The goth girl has too sharp of a nose, you could cut yourself getting close to that. :p She's also kinda creepy...maybe it's the beetlejuice colors.

Of course, some goth chicks are just really open like that so she may not even be interested in you.

Drop hints about how much you love God. That'll scare her off.

she isn't that good looking to cheat with

I would never cheat on my gf... wow I'm growing up it seems

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

oh and those images will stay open for only 2 hrs

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

I hate her just by how she looks and dresses... call me shallow and a terrible man, but I really distrust her... look at that expression in the first pic...

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YES!! Instand problem solver!

forget about Xen. to me, it sounds like she is desperate for attention.

definitely tell Xen that you have a girlfriend somehow, and you are not responsible for how she reacts to it. (and if she doesn't care that you have a girlfriend, stress the fact that you care about her (your gf) very much and then run away as fast as you can)

As for telling your girlfriend about Xen, it's up to you, but it's posisble that if you don't, it could come back and bite you in the butt. You've done nothing wrong, so it shouldn't be a big issue, especially if you've taken care of it.

Whoa, quoted for agreement.