My half sister, whom I've only ever met once or twice, just PMed me tonight and we've been talking for like 2 hours. See, we didn't know if my dad was her dad until she was 14, and well, they never got to know each other, and it wasn't a big deal. However, I've always wanted to have an older sister, and well, I just didn't know how to approach her. I thought maybe she wouldn't want to start up being my sister, on the same mentality that my dad wasn't her dad for 14 years, so why start now? Why start being my brother after 14 years? Well, now she's 22, and I'm 17.
She wasn't sure if she should contact me or not, on the EXACT same premise I wasn't sure if I should contact her. Now after 2 hours, we're talking like we've known each other forever and... it's amazing. I've always had this void... and she fills it completely, even if I'm just talking to her online with text and whatnot. It's amazing how similar our mannerisms are... I don't know, it's just this amazingly happy feeling to know someone out there is like you, even if they aren't exactly like you.
I don't know why, but it's just amazing that I can feel so close to someone after not knowing them for so long. I don't know if blood is just that strong, or because we WANT it to be, that we're getting along so well, and having an amazing conversation almost immediately. We have the same interests, and even when we differ, it's only because we took the same ideas and looked at them from different angles.
It's just amazing, and I figured I'd share that with you. We plan to try and make some of the memories we never had growing up, and possibly be there for each other for the trust and comfort that you can't get with anyone but a sibling. I am an only child, so maybe that explains to some of you who think I'm crazy for wanting a sister :-P
Um... post your... siblings?
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She wasn't sure if she should contact me or not, on the EXACT same premise I wasn't sure if I should contact her. Now after 2 hours, we're talking like we've known each other forever and... it's amazing. I've always had this void... and she fills it completely, even if I'm just talking to her online with text and whatnot. It's amazing how similar our mannerisms are... I don't know, it's just this amazingly happy feeling to know someone out there is like you, even if they aren't exactly like you.
I don't know why, but it's just amazing that I can feel so close to someone after not knowing them for so long. I don't know if blood is just that strong, or because we WANT it to be, that we're getting along so well, and having an amazing conversation almost immediately. We have the same interests, and even when we differ, it's only because we took the same ideas and looked at them from different angles.
It's just amazing, and I figured I'd share that with you. We plan to try and make some of the memories we never had growing up, and possibly be there for each other for the trust and comfort that you can't get with anyone but a sibling. I am an only child, so maybe that explains to some of you who think I'm crazy for wanting a sister :-P
Um... post your... siblings?
[Third thread... I spelled the topic incorrectly 3 times...]
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