Thanks for all the previous support guys. It meant a lot to me.

I found out earlier that she cheated on me last night. And was going to again next weekend.

I just ****ing love my life right now.

That sucks.

Heads will roll, I suppose?

That sucks. That sucks something royal.

Désolée mon ami.

You should get a white Ford Bronco and some small leather gloves and just sit out in the driveway looking crazy for a bit.

For real though, I'm sorry, that really does suck.

*condolences*

Post her pic on the internet.

Nothing you probably haven't seen before.


Thanks guys. It's over now, we broke up. I just want her to move out now, and let me try and move on with my life.

Almost three years down the drain.

You know I almost posted a picture of a gun, but then I says to myself:
"Shintock's kind of a nice guy."

That ****ing sucks. Kick her *** to the curb.

I'm thinking of American History X

Cheating *****es deserve worse.

Yeah, me too. That's the first thing I thought about actually.

And, I've been cheated on. And the worst part is when they lie about it to you.

Girls that cheat will either get STDs and die, or be extremely miserable later in their life anyways. Then at least you will have something to smirk about later.

No kidding. My ex came running back after she cheated on me and it didn't work out. MAN, it feels good to tell her "NO, DUMB *****! GO HOME!" and shoo her off.

I knew/know of plenty of girls who have cheated on their boyfriends/spouses. All of them are a bunch of whores who just like to see how much they can get at once, until their entire happiness comes crashing down on them and they realize how much of a screw up they actually are. Then when they feel like absolute ****, they come crying back to the few people who actually cared about them, and the smart ones tell them to **** off. Life is great that way. mmmm, karma.

Agreed. Again.

You were married?

Thats awful...
But look on the bright side... at least you guys weren't married.

No ring, no paperwork!

my sympathies to you man, breaking up sucks

No. And don't even think about starting, Obi.

Lots of people cheat.

People get bored.

That doesn't make it right. (Not that you said it did)

Sorry mate, that sucks bum. I can relate

(Next time I'm in Canadialand I'll buy you a pint)

Don't worry, she's getting the **** outta here.

Thanks guys.

It feels even worse today. I can't stop imagining her with that other guy.

indeed.

Oh mang, Shintock my bro, I really am sad to hear that. It really sucks to see something like that, been through it myself, and you just gotta ask why *****es do that. There is not even an answer to it. *****es are born *****es and that will be forever. Still I'm sure your life well get better, just remember to walk down that road towards the good stuff. It'll come soon enough.

In the meantime, I ought to take you out for a drink.

But, technically, it's not really cheating unless you made some sort of commitment. I mean, I can understand you being disappointed, but the whole reason for not getting married is that you don't want commitment. Perhaps she just took the relationship less seriously than you. You really shouldn't be mad at her. Living in the same house and having sex doesn’t really entitle you to any loyalty. Of course if you were engaged that might have been different; I don't really know the back ground story.

Erm, Obi, I think you don't know the meaning of Girlfriend. A girlfriend/boyfriend should be loyal whether engaged/married or not. A ****friend is what you're describing. And ****friends don't live in the same house and both people know they are just ****friends.

Obi isn't exactly the one people usually - if ever - listen.

No kidding.

Obi, you don't know what the **** you're talking about.

Stay out of my thread. Thanks.

Amen.

<3

Obi...wtf man.

Commitments are possible without marriage, douche.

Anyways, I know how you feel Shintock. I used it as more fuel for my musical outlets. Nothing beats writing an original breakup song in your preferred style of music and driving around belting the lyrics like there's no tomorrow.

Also, alcohol will always be there for you. Drinking and singing that song you're gonna write is even better, but I don't recommend drinking and driving.

Things will look up, for now do whatever you possibly can to keep your mind off of it. Nothing is worse than picturing your ex with the other guy all day till you finally pass out only to have nightmares of the same thing (and it seems that much more real). I recommend music, starting a mmorpg and grinding like a mofo for a couple days, hanging out with friends (single friends, or friends who are willing to ditch their s.o.'s to hang out with you), drinking, sports of any kind (ski season, even sledding will do) etc.

Some people will say depressing music or music on the specific topic will just make things more difficult, but I find that singing along to songs that match my mood help me get over it faster.

Basically, get out and away. Writing may help or make it worse, depending on how you use it. If it's an outlet it will help, but if you just sit and brood over it while writing that's even worse than doing nothing.

Dude, you've never had a serious GF of any kind, have you?

I'm just saying you have to make some sort of a comitment to expect loyality. I mean, you got this whole marrige think right there even with legal benefits, but don't use it. Why? Stigma?


Anywho, like I say, I don't really know the details surrounding the whole event. I still don't really understand why you're mad. Did you just want her to let you know before she left?

Above all else, how can you not fathom why he is mad? You have to be joking, or devoid of human emotion. The connection and trust implied by a relationship were broken, thus causing some degree of pain? Doesn't that sound right to you?

Relationships are built on trust. Cheating completely obliterates that trust.

I'll admit I've been single all 24 years of my life, but even I know the importance of trust in a relationship. Shintock was with his gf for a significant time, and she up and blows it all away by committing infidelity. Even for the most stable person, it is still a crushing blow. Someone you've trusted and cherished for a significant amount of time, basically back-stabs you.

Thanks for all the support again, guys. You're all really wonderful people, except for Obi (stay out of my thread plz).

I got bad news tonight. She's not moving out. Worse yet, her name is the only one on the lease. Just about everything in the apartment belongs to me, and I don't have the time, money or resources to move right now. And good luck finding an apartment in Montreal at this time of year.

I really don't know what to do right now. I want to call the landlord but I don't see that going over very well.

And I don't think I could stand living with her until the lease expires in July. So much for moving on.

That is not healthy for either of you. You need to find a way around that or it may end up with some permanent effects on you...
Friends? Family? What about her situation?

She has plenty of family here in Montreal. That's why I figured, it's easiest for her to leave.

I don't have any family here. I have a friend who's looking for an apartment, but he might have found something already. Him and I are going to talk about it again tomorrow.

Even then, I just don't have the cash to pay for movers, and I don't know anyone with a truck that could give me a hand. Ugh.

Thanks, dude.