Ok, here's the situation.
I have a really close/intimate relationship with my girlfriend, like you should.
She likes to hang out with people (read: other guys) when I'm at work but she always uses the disclaimer "just as friends." She usually fails to mention that she's doing this until after the fact that she hung out with some guy.
She also plays the game of saying she's hanging out with one of her old friends and then later says "Oh, that fell through and I started talking to some guy that's been e-mailing me and came by my work and we decided to hang out."
Ok, so last night she went over to this guy's apartment (just as friends, right?) and they watched some Family Guy. Guy ends up pinning her down and like rape biting her (no sex/kissing just assault type stuff). She then tells me about it tonight and claims she's the victim.
Problem is, this isn't the first time this has happened. Back before we were dating some guy randomly started making out with her and she let him because she "didn't know what to do" and then when we first started dating she was still hanging out with her ex-boyfriend and he basically raped her because she "didn't know what to do"
Question is, should I acknowledge that she's a victim of unfortunate situations and is just naive believing that she can just be friends with guys who are obviously interested in other things or should I just end it?
Discuss.
I have a really close/intimate relationship with my girlfriend, like you should.
She likes to hang out with people (read: other guys) when I'm at work but she always uses the disclaimer "just as friends." She usually fails to mention that she's doing this until after the fact that she hung out with some guy.
She also plays the game of saying she's hanging out with one of her old friends and then later says "Oh, that fell through and I started talking to some guy that's been e-mailing me and came by my work and we decided to hang out."
Ok, so last night she went over to this guy's apartment (just as friends, right?) and they watched some Family Guy. Guy ends up pinning her down and like rape biting her (no sex/kissing just assault type stuff). She then tells me about it tonight and claims she's the victim.
Problem is, this isn't the first time this has happened. Back before we were dating some guy randomly started making out with her and she let him because she "didn't know what to do" and then when we first started dating she was still hanging out with her ex-boyfriend and he basically raped her because she "didn't know what to do"
Question is, should I acknowledge that she's a victim of unfortunate situations and is just naive believing that she can just be friends with guys who are obviously interested in other things or should I just end it?
Discuss.
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