EVE is the Fisherman's Friends of MMO's; if its too strong you are too weak. Veger did three classic mistakes; putting all his eggs in one basket, thinking any space in EVE is safe (it's not), and flying something he could not afford to replace.
I am a year old in June, 11,1 million SP and I don't touch ships larger than cruisers. I have a lot of fun in my corp where we roam 0.0 ganking stupid people like Veger in small, fast guerilla gangs.
This game is as fun as you make it. Put out some goals, specialise in something and kick ***. Look for people who have specialised in similar things and make a kickass corp. Make some friends and lots of enemies and you'll have heaps of fun.
Trust no-one but yourself unless you can reach out and touch them IRL. It's a cutthroat game of deceit, theft, character assassination and tinfoilhattery and totally