Ok, first of all I will say this, Pagewizard don't bother giving your two cents, I've read what you've had to say in the past, and frankly I don't give a ****.

Now here's the story. There was a girl. I fell in love. We went out for a while. I broke up with her, for no reason at all other than the fact that I was frightened by the depth of my feelings for her. 2 days after, she had a new boyfriend. This was about 2 months ago, and eventually she realized that he was a disgusting piece of crap [I'd met him before at a local band concert, where he was trying to pick up 13 year old girls]. Anyways, the girl who will forever remain nameless, is/was bi-sexual. Not a problem.

During the time she was trying to break off he relationship with disgusto she called me up, basically asking me for moral support. I confessed my undying love for her and she through it back in my face, but in a way so that she could hold the possibility of us getting back together over my head. She did this for a month, even after she'd finally broken it off with disgusto.

Anywho, I talked to her last night, and at complete random she says "I'm a lesbian."

Mother ****er. I'm reminded of an old Weezer line "I'm dumb she's a lesbian, I thought I had found the one".

Now I just want to crawl into a hole and die.


[This message has been edited by Insipid (edited July 31, 2004).]

So you broke up with her, and then told her you love her? I think she's using a line. She probably just lost interest with you. I mean, you break up with her, and she's with someone else just two days later? I don't think she was too bothered by the breakup.

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It sounds like she is just uninterested and by saying that shes a lesbian... well then nothing could really work between you two anyway. meh.

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Be more feminine?

I dunno, it happens. I know a couple bisexual girls but they tend to lean more towards lesbianism. Probably because they've had hard times with guys and your breaking up probably didn't help her. Might talk with her some more to see if you can reconcile anything.

Don't constantly pester'em though..noooo no trust me, they just get further away.

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Good point Chaz. It's actually what I've been thinking, but what I just don't understand is why she would make me basically jump through emotional hoops for the last while, just in general ****ing my head right up. Goddamn I sure know how to pick 'em.

Ah well. I'll go out and get ****-faced tonight and forget my worries for a while.

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I'd say that this in-between boyfriend she had 2 days after breaking up with you was an attempt at a rebound relationship - one that's supposed to help you forget about someone you just broke up with.
As for the lesbian thing, it's possible she's using a line on you. You need to learn to read her body language. This is quite a useful thing to learn. When she told you, did she look right at you when she said it (or a little before saying it)? If so, it seems she was saying it to get your reaction. Just pay attention to how she acts when she says stuff. Hopefully, you can see her intent.

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At this point I could care less what her intentions were. I don't want to have anything to do with her.

I just felt like sharing my misery.

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To be honest, I've had the old "I'm a lesbian response" thrown at me before, and for the first week or so I believed it, but I knew a while later that the girl had just said it to brush me off - if I'm honest, if someone can't even just say 'It's not to be with us' instead of lying their way out of it... meh I don't see them as being worth it...

That's my two pennies anyway...

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For someone who doesn't want any more to do with her, you're making quite a big deal out of it.

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