BobTheMasher
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I agree that they don't really DESERVE respect, but I also think that you do what you need to do to get the job done.
Not that I'm comparing these situations, haha, but I work as a parking enforcement officer at my university. From either end of the interaction, I find that respect, or at least FAKE respect, goes a long way. If someone comes running out of a building screaming "You son of a ***** I was only in there 5 minutes! You guys are all such *******s, are you giving me a ****ing ticket?! **** you! I'm going to talk to your goddamn manager and I'll have your ****ing job!" Guess what? Yeah I'm giving him a ticket. I'm probably going to do worse than that, in fact. But I'll still be respectful to him. Usually being respectful even when they're screaming bloody murder at you will calm the whole situation. On the other side of that, someone who comes out and is respectful to ME will come out of the interaction much better off.
So, I can see how that might be based on simple human nature and might translate up into more serious situations. I don't see why it couldn't.