Nah, some men look good with long hair, just depending on the man, and his facial structure etc.
The way a person's face is shaped often determines what hairstyles would compliment them best. I know most of you already know that.
OK here are some Grooming Tips I googled up. Read up and take notes fellas, some useful stuff on here!
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Styling 101
When using hair styling products, work them in from the back to the front. Warm them up in your hands, that's going to emulsify them a little bit. And if you play with the small bits in the back, you can often see it in the front, creating a nice, framing effect.
Styling 101, Part 2
Styling paste adds texture without stiffness. When you get out of the shower simply towel dry your hair and start scrunching it to accentuate the curls. Warm a small amount of styling paste in your hand to emulsify it, then flip your hair over and start applying it.
Styling Products
Rub It In
Friction activates product. For best results, emulsify your hair product in your hands first, then apply evenly to your hair.
Hair Care 101
Good grooming means washing your hair every day, right? Wrong. Sometimes your hair can look its best on the second or third day after shampooing. Speaking of shampoo, I'm not a big fan of the shampoo-conditioner all-in-one scenario. Call me old fashioned, but I like my conditioner to be conditioner and my shampoo to be shampoo.
Texture, Texture, Texture
The key word for bland hair is texture. Rather than taking a section of hair and cutting it just straight across, have your stylist cut into it. It creates different lengths within the interior of the hair.
Short Cut = Sure Bet
Chris' hair was thinning up at the top of his head; all of his super thick hair along on the sides, it really drew the attention to the fact that he was losing his hair. Even when he put it back into a ponytail. So what I suggested is a shorter cut.
Curly Hair
Have Curls, Get Weight
If your hair is curly like Josh's, you need a proper haircut for shape, and you need the right product to keep the curl intact and give your hair some weight — otherwise, it's going to be all over the place.
Do Curls, Lose Weight
Weight training is really important because the more lean muscle mass you have, the more your metabolism rate will increase. With a high metabolism, even when you're resting you're burning fat
Men Who Are Bald
Cropped = Commanding
Guys that are bald and look good being bald are guys that have their hair tight and short. It's a commanding look.
Or Wear A Hat
Athletes are hot, but sometimes they burn. So if you're going to be out in the sun, apply an SPF 15 minutes before you go. If you're bald, apply sunblock first on top of your head. Basically, the skin on top of your head is like the skin on your face. You have to take care of it.
Stimulate To Circulate
There's a genetic reason why people lose their hair, but it's certainly exacerbated by poor circulation of the scalp. Using oils that are stimulating can help.
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Shaving
Shaving is one of the simple things you can do to make it look like you've given some thought to your look. The best time to do so is the morning, after your shower so the warm water will help soften your beard. Pre-shave oil will help soften it even more.
Razor burn can be a real drag, but it's easy to avoid no matter how rough your beard is. Always use a sharp razor with at least two blades and a moveable head.
Start with the sides of your face, and save your lip and neck for last. Those are problem areas for a lot of guys; if we do them last, we give the oil and the shaving cream more time to do their work.
When you shave, you're actually creating your sideburns. You want to make sure they are even, and a great way to check is to take your index finger and put it at the very bottom of your sideburn on both sides, step back and have a look.
Shadow For Shape
Clean-shaven is not your only acceptable option. If you leave a five o'clock shadow, it's going to actually accentuate your jaw line.
Manscaping: The Jaw Line
There's no rule that says a guy has to be clean shaven all the time. A good alternative is to create a shape to your beard. To do this, follow your jaw line all the way from one side of your jaw to your chin, and then all the way back up the other side of your jaw. Everything below this line, you'll want to shave.
Manscaping: The Jaw Line — Revisited
Like sporting that five o'clock shadow? Just be sure to shave from your jaw line down for a clean but rugged look.
Aye Eye
If you've got great eyes, simplify the facial hair and draw more attention to them. You'll look more attractive, have more sex appeal, and look a little more professional.
The Right Shadow
If your face needs a little extra definition (especially if it's a little rounder than you'd like) leave a little stubble to give it shape. For some guys, a well-groomed five o'clock shadow — the rough look — is very sexy.
Clipper Before Razor
If you have a thick beard like Jeff had and want to shave it off, remember: electric clippers first, razor second.
(More Shaving Tips)
After you get out of the shower and after you've washed your face, you put on the pre-shave oil, put it in the palm of your hand, and put it all over the place on your face. Wet your shaving brush, dabbing it around and working it around on your face with the shaving cream. Always shave with the grain and since most of the hair on your throat grows up, you need to shave up.
Exfoliate, Don't Irritate
It's really great to exfoliate before you shave because it'll prevent ingrown hairs and razor bumps.
Keep It Neat
There's nothing wrong with facial hair, just don't let it go wild. Wear it groomed.
Smooth Moves
Preventing razor bumps from a very curly hair is easy.
*Exfoliate regularly
*Never double stroke
*Use a single bladed razor
Make this your shaving mantra and everything will come out smooth.
This Order, Not Disorder
Guys get confused with this a lot but it's very logical. You only want to shave after you have a shower, when your beard is exposed to the water so that it's soft. The way it all fits together is shower, cleanse, shave, moisturize.
Shaving First Aid
Cut yourself shaving? Freeze. Put down the razor and do not reach for the toilet paper. Arm yourself with an alum block or styptic pen. They disinfect and stop bleeding immediately.
Check Your Razor
Every once in a while you need to check your razor to see if it's is dull or if it's just getting tired and you need a new one
Shave at a safe Pace
Please, straight guys, if you thought about your shaving half as much as you thought about getting laid, you wouldn't slice your face open. Slow down, take it easy.
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Nose and Body Hair
(Not For Anyone's Viewing Pleasure: Nose Hair)
It's good to have a little cilia in your nostrils because they filter out impurities. When they start coming out of your nose, that's when they're not useful anymore.
(Nose Hair Continued)
Better Than Plucking
No nose hair ever! If you've got a nose hair situation, get an electric nose hair trimmer. They're quick, painless and effective.
(Body Hair)
If your body hair is freakishly long, try trimming it with an electric hair trimmer. Manscaping done well can make a midsection look thinner and just about anything else look
bigger.
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Extra Tips Randomn Things
Prime Cut
If you don't want a "typical" haircut (like Michael was so afraid of), find someone who really knows how to cut hair. It takes training and an artistic eye to give you a different look and keep it extraordinary — something your wife or girlfriend can't do.
High & Low
Put some highlights and lowlights into your hair to create depth and dimension.
Hair Appraisal
Lift your dark hair with highlights. A different color can take years off your appearance. It also adds texture, movement, and depth to your hair.
No More Plastic Razors
Let me just tell you about disposable razors — they're illegal as far as I'm concerned.
Plastic + Blue = Not For You
If it's in a plastic tube and it's blue, it probably doesn't need to go on your face.
Clean As A Bristle
Anything you stick in your mouth should be clean. Make sure your toothbrush is sanitary: soak it in an antiseptic mouthwash for about a minute to kill the harmful bacteria.
How To Wash A Face
Facial clenser is gentler and less drying than soap. Simply put some warm water on your face, put a little bit of the cleanser in the palm of your hand. Don't emulsify it too much in your hands, because then you're just washing your hands. After that, just rub it into your face.
First Things First
Remember to shave
before you put on your moisturizer.
You Knew That, Right?
Everyone should know that conditioner keeps your hair from getting dry.
Two Taps A Day Will Keep The Bags Away
To apply eye cream, you start with a tapping motion, don't drag. The skin directly under the eyes is very delicate, so tapping rather than dragging — and starting from the outside working inward — is the answer. If you use it twice a day, in six weeks you'll see a really big difference.
The Declaration of Epidermis
Unlike men, all moisturizers are not created equal. So as you age, pick ones with anti-oxidants and SPF. They'll keep you from looking too old, too soon.
Be Prepared...For Kisses
Because inside's heated and outside's cold, your lips will get chapped. If you always keep a really good lip balm with you, your lips will always be perfect. You never know when you'll be standing underneath the mistletoe.
Deodorants
Pick Your Sticks
Deodorant doesn't stop perpiration, but it does eliminate odor. If you're going to be running around when it's warm and you know you're going to be sweating, go ahead and use an anti-perspirant. But if you're not going to be sweating, just use the deodorant.
Don't Take A Powder
Powdery deodorants stain fabrics and look terrible. Roll up your shirt before slipping it on because powdery shirts are the pits.
Wash This Way
Everyday you need to cleanse your skin in this order: cleanse, tone, moisturize.
Mouth Care: Bad Breath vs. Good Breath
Lingual Hygine
There's nothing worse than bad breath. While you're keeping your face clean, you might as well keep the inside of your mouth clean so that's where the tongue scraper comes in.
A Breath Of Fresh Air
Bad breath is usually caused by bacteria ,and bacteria lives in between your teeth, on your gums, and also on your tongue in the back of your throat. A tongue scraper takes all that odor-causing bacteria off your tongue. Just go the mirror, stick out your tongue and scrape. Doing this every time you brush your teeth is a good idea.
Halitosis Hallucination
At the very least, white teeth gives the illusion of fresh breath, so brightening your teeth a few shades is a good idea.
Scent Succession
When it comes to fragrance, spray, delay and walk away.
Scalp Help
Scalp conditions are hard to control because there's so many factors that go into them. It's great to use dandruff shampoo, but a treatment at a spa is another good way to help a dry, flaky problem. A botanical treatment for your hair will exfoliate the dead skin off the scalp, since plant oils penetrate and exfoliate. The proper shampoo will moisturize the fresh skin. Finish with a leave-in treatment
Workout Buddy
One of the easiest ways to get out of an exercise slump is to have somebody that you care about or who cares about you to take your hand and say, "C'mon, we're going to work out." Taking care of yourself is the first step towards taking care of somebody else.
Water Rules
Working out with water is a great way for people with injuries to rebuild strength, but before you go in the water, a little pool etiquette: don't pee in the pool and, before you go in, shower.
Water Rules!
The pool is a great way to exercise when you're recovering from an injury because the water provides constant resistance for the muscles and will strengthen your ligaments. And also, the water is buoyant so you don't have a hard-impact workout.
Hot Water Rules!
Breaking out? Don't get mad. Get steamed. Steaming opens up pores and releases toxins while helping to clear up a problematic complexion.
Foul Foot Defense
So basically the same conditions that cause odor are the same conditions that cause fungus and athletes' foot. My recommendation: wash your feet with an antibacterial soap and dry very well (get in between your toes with a towel). Get some medicated powder (available at any drugstore) and dump a little bit of the powder into your socks. That way, when you put your socks on you have powder in between your toes, which keeps them dry.
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