If you can be a compasionate individual. Remember philosiphy or physcology? Just who are you as a person honestly. Forget logic. Forget all that is and was. Me? I am someone struggleing. Like everyone else. Yup thats right! You heard me. All guys are but none more different then what we share. Meaning we only think of the same things. Being a sterotype, amoung other things. Is what guys can be at times right? One person can see this as, well. If you see a chick, forget knowing her. Just brace for the fast ride and move on after the roadkill. Another person, being me. Would see knowing someone. More so as being something serious. Everyone should know me to be me. Thats all I am, and what I can do. Give it my all. Everyone has their own flaws. So if you were to ask yourself this.. Who are you? What would you tell yourself?

How would you feel? Nothing we all cant do now to change who we are, is something you should never neglect. If you are one to be in a slump holding onto your past. Dont. Let go, stand fast. Its what that matters now, on who you will become. Time is a valuable thing for sure. I have had weeks to think. This is a result of heavy thinking. Well, right now. Its day number three for my stupid insomnia forcing on me. I hate it when I cant sleep. Just way too much damn stress you know. Even I checked my pulse and heart rate. Which is high even for my age. I eat right. But I supposibly need a blood test to see where my blood pressure is at.

I could fill in my past stress. When I lived in pefferlaw. It was simple for me then. I was happy. I love the country and thats where I grew up as a kid. Then when I was going into my pre-teen years. I grew up in barrie. Did my life ever take a change around. Only worst part about my past childhood in pefferlaw was. When my oldest sister had given birth to my nephuew. The person she had slept with. Was. A complete jerk. For example, my mom went over to try and have things work out. So in desperation of trying to run away from all problems. He pulled a gun on my mothers head. But it wasnt loaded.

My secound stressful part of my life was when I started living in barrie. Lets see. My family got to be social with another family. That family tried manipulating my family because thats the kind of people they were. My parents said no more, At that time my oldest sister was seeing their son. Which in result she had chosen to stay with. So I lost contact with my sister and nephuew for a good five years. Not knowing where they were and how they are doing. Only real reason why my family is back to contact with my oldest sister is because of some very personal reasons. Five years had gotten stolen from me.

At work, I breifly served the head member of that family. I wanted to kill him, But couldnt because I needed to maintain a professional courtesy. While in the due process of my growing up in barrie. My older sister a lose cannon. Always making me to blame, always fighting and not seeing eye to eye. Well, seeing how I was growing up to all of this. I was skipping school alot. Seeking refuge either at friends homes or trying to find somewhere I belong. Not that my parents were not supportive. I just was facing alot of difficulty as to what was happening in my families life. I found it hard to be honest and upfront about anything. Then around. 15 I got into the dating phase of my life. When you say I love you to someone, You never can face yourself to truly get over them. Because apart of them have shared something special. And changed apart of you for the better. 22 dates I went through, Only 7 relationships I came out of. 3 people I have slept with.

This is my stress, Physco analyize me if you wish to. Who I am, as what I see in the mirror. One of the kindest people you will ever meet. Yet taken advantage of. Not all it would seem I know. But who I have become. As a person. Is someone not afraid of what tomorrow will bring. I will give it my all for as long as I can for myself. There will be hard and great times. Somehow you could make a topic out of this, me either being a crazy person being open or share your story and let others know out there that your not the only one alone. Well. I said a mouthfull. So please, either reply with what you honestly wish to make the topic of. Or just understand where I am coming from at my time in life. Thanks for taking the delicate time to read what I have had to say.

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Hmm if I were to say who I am, I'd say that I'm a person who is always struggling to become a better person.

Having always had a rocky relationship with my father I've been trying to learn to turn the other cheek when people start arguments. Being completely honest many people have not seen that awful side of me. The side that always fights back, the side that even physically fought with my father. Am I asking for sympathy NO. It's a part of my life, I deal.

But it is for that same reason that I have been learning to let go of past grudges, learning to try to understand people. That same side that has been learning to try to live my life without complications. One moment at a time. I'd rather learn to love people with all of myself then to hate people with that same amount of effort.

OK, so what if love does not a guarantee on having a "return." the way I see it love should be unconditional. Love isn't, "I love you so you have to love me." No it's "I love you regardless of what you say or do, or even if you hurt me." And I've been trying to do that with everything in my life.

I'm saying I am a person who currently feels extremely lost and is looking for direction in her life. I'm a person who constantly Gets put down, yet gets back up again.

I'm a person who when someone says that they hate me, I say, "well i'm sorry that you have not taken the opportunity to get to know me. " I'm a loyal friend if you are loyal to me. I give respect when it is given. And I tend to give those people in my life many chances if they've hurt me, even when others say I should give up upon that person(s). And that's because once I've seen something good in a person I dont like bending to believe that that person is 100% awful.

I'm a girl who is striving to find independence in her life. I'm looking to deal with "me" before I can deal with me. What I mean is, I'm trying to figure myself out, before I can really get focused on my future. I'm finding myself as a person, and i'm also trying to find what I truly want. Then I plan on focusing myself to that (whatever I may chose) whole heartedly.

I'm not perfect, I've never claimed to be. I'm just a person who is constantly wanting to grow, to learn new things from friends. I take lessons and things from all my friends.

Be it a new found interest in something I did not know about before, or a new outlook on things. Or it may even be learning that I dont want to go about things in a way that they may have, because I dont agree with their way of treating people.

I'm a person who tries to take everything in my life that may be negative and try to find a positive. Does that ever mean I dont feel hopeless? Of course I do. There are times I feel lost and as if I'm drowning, but it's no good just dwelling there. (and granted sometimes I dwell in those moments toooo long) but then I remember it could be worse, and just suck it up and keep going.

I'm a person who has a lot more to learn. I'm a person who's always striving for change. I'm a person that once you give love I'll return it 100 fold. I'm a person that once I get hurt it's hard to get my trust back,and that's because I value trust as an extremely high thing.

And i'm a person that if given respect I'll give you respect, if you dont give me respect then dont expect it from me. Simple as that. I'm pushing myself to find change, to never be perfect, and to grow mentally, and spirtually.

Simply put, it's as if I'm a baby still looking at the world with new eyes. I dont claim to have any answers, but I'm seeking the knowledge. I am me. no more, no less, and I like that. [/end rant]


Laura

I am mustering every inch of compassion I can when I say this.. but did that post make sense to anyone else? Because I'm honestly lost.

This thread lacks wang.

I fixed it a little. I have horrible sentence structure

Not yours. I meant to say thread. There's some pretty whacked out stuff up there.

I don't know, personally I think a relationship SHOULD have conditions at least in the sense of how you treat each other. Love should have a return, and that's respect.

Oh, I think this is what he was asking:

" Everyone has their own flaws. So if you were to ask yourself this.. Who are you? What would you tell yourself?"

At least that's what I understood, so that's what I tried to answer

True, but there are also times when people do nothing but hate. I've had many instances (and not in relationships, but in life in general) where someone will be rude to me for no reason. Could I turn around and throw back anger at the person/people. Sure I could. Would it make me feel better, probably. Would I have grown from that? No. So the way I see it, it's like that philosophy goes "kill them with kindness"

When someone goes and puts me down, I'll turn around and try to say something good about them. and this is something i've been working on as of reallyyyyy recently. The past 2-3 months.

In a relationship, yes, it's mutual, both should love etc. but when it comes to relationships with people. If they try and hate me from the get go, there has to be some reason behind that. And i'm not going to return anger and hatred with anger and hatred. I'll return love and understanding instead. Sometimes angred is displaced, and it's just a matter of trying to understand that person.

I've done it, I've been mean to people who did nothing wrong. When I turned around and apologized and got to know that girl I saw that she was a nice person. That she seems as if she needs love because people tend to treat her wrongly. Sometimes it just takes getting to know someone and getting past that initial wall that has been built.

That's what I was trying to say

"I'm just this guy... You know?"

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