We've been together 2.5 years, but communication and seeing each other has been declining the last couple months, and flat lined the last 30 days. At first it was because of school and finals. Finals have been over for several days now and I haven't gotten so much as a text message (I've sent, but not received). In fact, in the last 6-8 weeks, we've spent approximately 5 minutes together, not once talked on the phone, and sent 2 or 3 text messages back and forth.

I'm trying to decode facebook but I think she might be down in Disneyland with her mom. **** if I knew anything about a trip, and **** if she'd even bother telling me she was done with school and available to hang out.

Oh yeah, she lives a whopping 4 miles away.

It sounds like you realize that you're in a ****ty relationship. If you suspect that the relationship is almost over it probably is. If the communication is as bad as it sounds it's not even worth your time. I would recommend being pre-emptive & dump her before she does it to you. You don't want to be the one feeling like **** because you got dumped. Take matters in to your own hands before someone else does it for you. If you play your cards right you could have a date or two before the new week begins.

she's ****ing your best friend.

I like Dash but I wouldn't call him my best friend.

congrats!

same situation here, its been like 10 months,

to be honest im bored of the relationship in a way


shes a good friend, i just dont think we are meant for eachother


i dont have the balls to break up with her

guys i totally have a crush on this girl but she wont talk to me

oh wait thats not what this thread is for is it?

Sadly I know what you mean. The more I think about this the more I should have recognized the signs 1 or 2 years ago. Breaking up is hard, even if you're the one who wants to break up.

Bold parts. Should be able to figure this one out pretty easily. I get that its hard to end a two and a half year relationship, but this should be fairly easy. Listen to Mentat on this one, it's always better to be delivering the news than to have it imposed on you.

It seems pretty clear that it's over, man. You don't seem too broken up ( ) about it, and if you are, don't sweat it too much! Good luck moving on.

Oh, I've been there before, buddy. The solution is to dedicate a JK MP level to her.
Works every time.

Don't even bother ending it. If she's not going to give you the respect of it, she doesn't deserve any better. Just find someone else, no need to create drama over it. Sucks that it turned out to be a huge waste of time though. I've been there.