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A Personal Poll
2011-01-20, 9:33 AM #81
I would be happy to see it made illegal, but I think this is one that needs to be handled by society. The damage circumcision causes is small next to the potential for abuse illegal circumcisions could have. It's also done for religious reasons, and while I don't think that's an excuse, it'd almost guarantee it'd still happen illegally.

I'd much rather people stopped wanting to cut their kids' penis' off.
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2011-01-20, 9:37 AM #82
The plural form of penis is penises, Kirbs.
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2011-01-20, 9:39 AM #83
Originally posted by JediKirby:
Your logic here is hurting my brain.

"Get your kid circumcised as an infant because it's too horrifying to imagine doing as an adult when pain and trauma can be understood. Besides, it protects against AIDs and infections and cancer which are all things that need to be dealt with immediately since babies have sex and get penis cancer all the time."
Not at all what I'm saying. I only posted the benefits at all because ORJ kept saying he didn't think there were any. And I wanted to point out that there is evidence to suggest there is. My argument is much more along the lines of what you say below:

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The only thing we agree on is that people have the right to do whatever they believe is good for their kid.

There. That's all I'm saying.

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That said, I still think it's immoral, offensive, and sexually repressive for anyone to inflict on their child, and I would much rather let my kid decide if he wants to wear a condom instead of cutting the end of his wiener off. I don't think any of your arguments validate doing it as an infant over letting a kid decide.
That's good. If or when you have children, you can make that call, and I won't judge you at all. But, after doing the research (which I did before Elliot was born, btw), I don't see it as immoral; I don't see it as offensive; and I don't see it as sexually repressive. I see it as a common medical practice that causes some temporary discomfort (that the kid won't remember anyway), but can potentially make life a lot easier later on, which is in my mind, no different than any kind of vaccine.
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.

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2011-01-20, 9:41 AM #84
Also, Echoman.. don't you think it'd be cooler if it were penii?
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.

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2011-01-20, 10:03 AM #85
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
which is in my mind, no different than any kind of vaccine.

You're kidding, right? Vaccines stop kids from getting DEADLY diseases. At best, circumcision reduces the odds of a kid getting an STD like HIV if they're already in a really bad situation (unprotected sex). But vaccines prevent diseases that are in the wild that anyone can get. That kids WILL get without vaccines.
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2011-01-20, 10:10 AM #86
Originally posted by Jon`C:
It also goes without saying that M.D.s are all really bad at statistics....

I think it's all math in general. There was a paper submitted by some diabetes researchers about a method for "finding the area under a curve." :carl:
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2011-01-20, 10:12 AM #87
Originally posted by Emon:
I think it's all math in general. There was a paper submitted by some diabetes researchers about a method for "finding the area under a curve." :carl:


Hey, don't you be talking bad about Tai's Model! It's totally better than the Trapezoidal Rule!
2011-01-20, 10:14 AM #88
Originally posted by Emon:
You're kidding, right? Vaccines stop kids from getting DEADLY diseases. At best, circumcision reduces the odds of a kid getting an STD like HIV if they're already in a really bad situation (unprotected sex). But vaccines prevent diseases that are in the wild that anyone can get. That kids WILL get without vaccines.

ok.. circumcision reduces the odds that a man will get an STD. the flu vaccine reduces the odds that a person will get the flu... what's the difference again?

(Redefine your definition of vaccine. They don't always 100% prevent diseases or infections. And you're not guaranteed to get a disease or infection just because you didn't get the vaccine.)
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.

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2011-01-20, 10:23 AM #89
Can't we just leave this at Sarn thinks that circumcision is a good idea whilst some others don't? :P

Oh and Detty, just what problems arise exactly from having too-large bollocks? Besides ones that involve a tailor. :P
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2011-01-20, 11:25 AM #90
It was one of these, completely harmless but I was getting fairly self-conscious about it, so I got it treated.
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2011-01-20, 11:27 AM #91
If it occurs on one side does it throw your balance off? :P
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2011-01-20, 11:53 AM #92
Originally posted by Emon:
I think it's all math in general. There was a paper submitted by some diabetes researchers about a method for "finding the area under a curve." :carl:


I think it's all anything they learned in high school or undergrad, because they won't need it when they're a doctor. :downs:

Edit: and Tai's Model didn't just get submitted, it was accepted, published in a serious peer-reviewed journal (ADA Diabetes Care) and it's been cited over 100 times.
2011-01-20, 12:37 PM #93
i am and honestly, it does not bother me at all. not one whit. i literally could not be bothered any less that i have no forskin. personally i think it should be left up to the parents.
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2011-01-20, 1:19 PM #94
I answered religious/cultural because I live in the US. I was infant though.

I will say that while uncut dicks are fun to handle, I don't like having them in my mouth. Maybe it's because I need more practice though.

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TMI?
2011-01-20, 3:18 PM #95
In this thread there's really no such thing as TMI.
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2011-01-20, 3:31 PM #96
If there were, though, that would be right there on the line, tottering precariously from one side to the other.
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2011-01-20, 8:54 PM #97
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
I called you lazy, cause it would have taken you 2 seconds to google "benefits/risks of circumcision"


Last night when I was posting at like 5 AM, I was trying to get work finished and I shouldn't have even bothered procrastinating on massassi to begin with, so excuse me for not extensively researching the subject at hand at that time.

Besides, I'm not all that active on massassi, so you may not have noticed, but I usually do my research and tend to provide sources and statistics when I can.

Today I googled on risks and benefits, but it provided no conclusive results either way. You'll end up with a whole list of hits that either link to pro- or anti-circumcision sites.

Looking for scientific papers, I learned there is a scientific consensus of sorts:

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"Existing scientific evidence demonstrates potential medical benefits of newborn male circumcision; however, these data are not sufficient to recommend routine neonatal circumcision."


Source

There's a LOT of talk about scientific consensus on the discussion pages of the Wikipedia article on circumcision, but it's kind of a pain to find all the proper sources, I'll give you that.

Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
you instead kept using statements like "it would seem to me..." or "I would think that..." without bothering to see if you were even right.


But it was crystal clear that those weren't arguments. I was only wondering these things out loud, in hopes that anyone could provide some facts, because I didn't have the time to search for anything.

Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
I said you were arguing from a state of ignorance, meaning a lack of knowledge, which you have already admitted to.


Up until that point I was just speaking from personal experience. I didn't make any hard statements whatsoever. The truth is that everyone was speaking from personal experience, including yourself. You can say you researched this stuff before your son was born, but I didn't exactly see you throwing around evidence or citing sources earlier. Instead, you decided that comparing circumcision to abortion was a valid argument.

Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
...your half-baked arguments


Big words from the guy who posted a straw man that resembled the Titanic both in size and seaworthiness.

So, you decided to google something before someone beat you to it, and with laughable results. Because one of the things I learned is that circinfo.net (which you cited) is a well-known pro-circumcision site.

Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
But anyway, can we just agree that there is evidence to suggest benefits to circumcision


Yes, there is, but routine neonatal circumcision isn't recommended.

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and that the parents of a child have a right to decide if they think those benefits are valid and are enough to warrant circumcision?


I personally do not believe parents should have that right, unless medical necessity warrants it. Consider:

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A majority of boys born in the United States still undergo non-ritual circumcisions. This occurs in large measure because parental decision-making is based on social or cultural expectations, rather than medical concerns.

Studies from the 1980s suggested that the presentation of medical information on the potential advantages and disadvantages of circumcision had little influence on parents' decisions. This finding was recently confirmed.

In another contemporary study, nearly half of those physicians performing circumcisions did not discuss the potential medical risks and benefits of elective circumcision prior to delivery of the infant son. Deferral of discussion until after birth, combined with the fact that many parents' decisions about circumcision are preconceived, contribute to the high rate of elective circumcision.

Major factors in parental decision-making are the father's circumcision status, opinions of family members and friends, a desire for conformity in their son's appearance, and the belief that the circumcised penis is easier to care for with respect to local hygiene.
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2011-01-20, 9:04 PM #98
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
ok.. circumcision reduces the odds that a man will get an STD. the flu vaccine reduces the odds that a person will get the flu... what's the difference again?

Circumcision reduces the odds of getting an STD if he puts himself in danger, willingly. The probability that you'll get tetanus as a child is WAY higher than the probability that you'll end up in a bad situation (no condom) AND contract the STD.

Not only that, but not vaccinating your kids puts other kids at risk. See herd immunity.
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2011-01-20, 9:17 PM #99
Emon, not circumcising your sons puts their future sexual partner or partners at risk for infections. (see the info I posted earlier)

ORJ, I don't mind you (or anyone else) having an opinion about the matter, but I do mind you wanting to interfere with the choices I make in raising my children.
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.

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2011-01-20, 9:19 PM #100
... If your kid is having unprotected sex, whether or not they have dickskin is probably the least of their worry.

It sounds to me like you're just justifying your decision instead of arguing in favor of circumcision. Is there such thing as circumcisor's remorse?
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2011-01-20, 9:20 PM #101
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
Emon, not circumcising your sons puts their future sexual partner or partners at risk for infections. (see the info I posted earlier)

During UNPROTECTED SEX. It's a non-issue while wearing a condom, which they should absolutely be doing anyway. Also you cannot say "read it on webMD, argument over!" as if it's some canonical fact. Here's a hint: a lot of medical research is very bad and outright flawed. Just because it's on webMD does not immediately make it accurate or reliable. That's not how science works.


Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
ORJ, I don't mind you (or anyone else) having an opinion about the matter, but I do mind you wanting to interfere with the choices I make in raising my children.

They are not your property and you are not allowed to decide everything for them.
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2011-01-20, 9:58 PM #102
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
Allow me to draw a brief comparison. You believe it's unfair to not give the child a chance to choose circumcision, right? On the other hand, most of you are pro-choice when it comes to abortion, yes? So why then is it ok to not give the child a choice then? Shouldn't we let the kid grow to an appropriate age and THEN let HIM decide if he wants to be killed? (I'm not trying to troll here or turn this into an abortion debate, but I'm just pointing out the double standard that says that in an issue as insignificant as circumcision you believe it's terrible to not let the child have a choice, but at the same time you see nothing wrong with ending a child's life because you don't feel like dealing with raising him/her.)

I doubt that anyone here is in favor of terminating the life of a child. You appear to be confusing the word "fetus" with the word "child". There's only a contradiction in the mind of those individuals that mistakenly define "life" as beginning at conception. There's a rather large difference between aborting a fetus that hasn't yet developed consciousness & performing unnecessary surgery on a conscious human baby that is unable to decide whether or not said procedure is in their best interest. I understand the fact that parents must often make decisions for their children but I also understand that many decisions (e.g: circumcision) that are being made needn't be. Parents don't own their children. Slavery was abolished quite some time ago.
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2011-01-20, 10:08 PM #103
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
I'll reiterate. Parents have a right to make decisions for their children. Circumcision is not necessarily detrimental or beneficial, so why take away the parents' rights?

Why take away the child's right to decide? I would understand your point of view if the presence of foreskin posed a serious health risk. However, there's currently no evidence to support this.
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2011-01-20, 10:17 PM #104
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
But anyway, can we just agree that there is evidence to suggest benefits to circumcision, and that the parents of a child have a right to decide if they think those benefits are valid and are enough to warrant circumcision?

I think that your point of view would only be valid if circumcisions couldn't be performed on adults. Most of the "benefits" of circumcision don't come in to play until the individual is old enough to make their own decision on the matter.
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2011-01-20, 11:42 PM #105
I'm not circumcised. :)

Which is a relief to at least two people. :P
2011-01-21, 5:27 AM #106
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
ORJ, I don't mind you (or anyone else) having an opinion about the matter, but I do mind you wanting to interfere with the choices I make in raising my children.


I think when it comes to un-necessarily removing parts of a child's body interference is acceptable.
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2011-01-21, 6:39 AM #107
Originally posted by Emon:
Here's a hint: a lot of medical research is very bad and outright flawed. Just because it's on webMD does not immediately make it accurate or reliable. That's not how science works.


See, I think this is a really interesting subject of discussion. It's too bad nobody else does.
2011-01-21, 7:05 AM #108
Originally posted by Jon`C:
See, I think this is a really interesting subject of discussion. It's too bad nobody else does.


As I posted in the recommended reading thread, this book is incredibly insightful on this exact subject.
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2011-01-22, 10:32 PM #109
God damnit, Vin.
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2011-01-23, 9:01 AM #110
Originally posted by Vin:
I answered religious/cultural because I live in the US. I was infant though.

I will say that while uncut dicks are fun to handle, I don't like having them in my mouth. Maybe it's because I need more practice though.

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TMI?


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