Woah there. Hope I haven't arrived at this thread too late.
Basically I want to warn you to seriously take your time in thinking about this and to do a heck of a lot of reading. Don't buy anything until you really know what you are buying, why you are buying it and what its downsides and niggles will be at the point of use.
If you buy the wrong thing, you will regret it and it may knock back your enthusiasm for astronomy (or kill it outright). You'll also feel like a plonker every time you look at the lemon you bought.
Another, more general, point, is to manage your expectations. You probably have an unrealistic expectation of what can be seen at all, how "good" it looks when you see it, and how easily you will be able to find things to look at them.
ESSENTIAL reading:
http://www.wwnorton.com/college/astronomy/astro21/sandt/startright.html
That site is pretty good in general, actually:
http://www.wwnorton.com/college/astronomy/astro21/sandt/backyard.html
A couple of good astronomy forums:
http://www.cloudynights.com/ubbthreads/ubbthreads.php?Cat=
http://stargazerslounge.com/
For whatever it may be worth, I waffled clumsily about telescopes a couple of years ago in a similar thread:
http://forums.massassi.net/vb3/showthread.php?54121-Telescopes-Advice
Finally, if you insist on a "what do i buy NOW?" question, I would suggest that you either :
- wait and save up more money so that you can buy the largest-aperture Dobsonian-mounted reflecting telescope you can both afford and physically cope with, perhaps something like an 8 inch f/6 (decent manufacturers include Orion, as mentioned, and
Skywatcher)
OR,
- buy
some 10x50 (ish) binoculars. Some prefer
8x40, some prefer 7x50, but that sort of ballpark. They can be hand held, are quick and easy to pick up and start using, and have wide fields of view so it is easy to find things (don't underestimate the importance of this), and might very well always be useful for other purposes. When you upgrade from the binoculars to a decent telescope you will still have a use for the binoculars. The wide fields of view allow you to scout ahead before you try to find something in the telescope's narrow field.
And fundamentally you get a different picture in binoculars. It's nice to look at things with both eyes at once, and an object shown in a larger context (in a wide field of view through, for example, binoculars) looks kind of different from that same object exclusively filling your view (in the narrower, high magnification you get with a telescope).
If/when you get a telescope, as long as you don't choose something with too little aperture, the objects you can spot in the binoculars will become a fair bit more impressive and the objects you
can't see at all in binoculars will look, through the telescope, like some of the objects you
could see in the binoculars. i.e. it'll give you a cheap taster of what much of this hobby is like, and if you are one of those who expects Hubble-on-a-stick and drops the hobby you'll still have a decent pair of binoculars for daytime use.
Another long waffly aside... Personally I find visual observing more fun than looking at photos, even if the photos were ones I had taken. There's something special about looking directly at something, knowing that the photons hitting your eye have travelled non-stop for hundreds or millions of years directly from the object. Plus photos can't portray the vanishing dimness of what it is you're looking at. I am sometimes impressed at the thought of what the human eye can detect - the tiniest difference between darkness and "something". A picture shown on paper or a monitor is not able to convey that tiny contrast.
If you want to look at photos you can google it or buy a magazine. But this is just my opinion and others would likely make a strong case to the contrary