The people in the video, for one. Whoever wrote "men can't complain about the consequences of the patriarchy" believes, full stop, no debate, that everything wrong with society is caused by men, so therefore men have no right to talk about it. That one woman, who - screaming to the point of hoarseness - believes that anybody who even tolerates the existence of the message is a rape apologist, if not a rapist. If you asked any of these people, they would self-identify as feminists.
Gender feminism is inherently sexist, based on the unproven belief that all cultural institutions exist to reinforce male dominance over women, and thus the only intellectual work left is to find the "smoking gun" (i.e. all men are guilty until proven innocent). For example, this is the basis of the theory that the gender wage gap is caused by direct extrinsic sexism, rather than intrinsic economic factors. To the list of bad feminists I would therefore add Hillary Clinton, and most other politicians who have weighed in on this topic. (A rigorous gender feminist would at least concede in part, but still consider the economic decisions of women which lead to weaker outcomes as shaped by the patriarchy. I'm sure there are feminist academics out there who have done this work, but radical feminists start and stop any discussion on this topic with a straight-up accusation of sexism.)
The cross-breeding of social justice and feminist theory (intersectionality) has given us an entire movement of people who are incredibly difficult to coexist with, people who claim they are protecting classes of people from 'hidden discriminations' but have really just mastered the art of discrimination on the entire matrix of personal attributes. What, you were born white, male, and straight? **** you, you aren't allowed to talk. You have 515 social capital points too many. Go check your privilege.
Active discrimination is always in the minority.
You and I know what feminism means. I'm certainly one, in the literal sense (in tyool 2012 it's morally indefensible to not be one). Absent a prepared definition of feminism, though, only 24% of women and 14% of men consider themselves feminists. That doesn't mean 81% of people support gender inequality; what it means is that the word "feminist" has been skewed into something vile through the influence of pseudo-intellectuals. I certainly try to differentiate mainstream feminism from radical feminism when I talk about it, although I don't always succeed.