I think of a ballad as something that tells a story and has powerful music behind it. Like for instance...
Metallica's Unforgiven 2 is a power ballad thing. It's a story (sorta), it's sentimental (or at least I think it's very meaningful, the lyrics relate exactly to what's happened in the lives of my closest friend and I.). Listen to the music behind it. It's... powerful. that's the best way to describe it. especially the intro. it can even be moving to some people. THAT is a ballad.
Flogging Molly's Black Friday Rule is a song that tells a story. It's a good story, and a sad one. but it's put in a happy way. Not sure if this can be considered a ballad though, the music is really upity irish stuff, except for the begining.
Flogging Molly's Salty Dog tells a story. this is not a ballad. it's a bar-song. listen, and you can tell the difference.
Just telling a story doesn't really make it a ballad. Telling a meaningful story with the right music makes it a ballad.(or at least I think so, but my oppinion is higher than anything else, so it's a safe bet that I'm right
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"Father to your hands I commend my spirirt. Father to your hands-Why have you forsaken me?"
It took a while for you to find me; I was hiding in the lime tree.