...(or how) can I find musicians in my area who might be looking to join a band? I seem to recall there being some kind of website(s) that have some way of looking this, but I have no idea how to find any of them. I'm trying to find a new drummer because our current one doesn't really want to play drums.

Music periodicals in your area, bulletin boards at your local music stores and venues.

Well, I mean like online things, since there's nothing useful in my own town.

I found a few obscure sights on the internet, but would like some more.

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