Yoink.

You could just say that you odn't want to date... You're in High School right? Just say that you don't want to date. There's nothing to be worried about. And if she gets mad it's her own fault.

Yoink.

Wow. That's a great way to do it

Again, like I said before, just say no.

Girls can see right through lies like that. Mainly because they use them frequently themselves.

Wow, is being a mean prick in fashion all of a sudden around here for some people or is it just poor sense of humour?

*quirks eyebrow*

Amazing, all the disparate replies you get.

I'd say listen to the older, more mature guys, Delphian.

Take me, for instance. I'm nearly 22, and well out of high school. You always think things mean SO MUCH in high school, until you get out of high school.

Trust me, you won't even remember this event in a couple of years.

Anywhos, to address several points.

Kirbs, that's rather insulting and shallow of you, to say that plump people are that way due to their own laziness or whatnot. Most people who are obese or even merely plump have a genetic predisposition to that.

Delphian, if you're not interested, you're not interested. Period. But if it's because she's quote, unquote "fat", I'd reexamine your motives. Yes, go ahead and turn her down, nicely, and just say you've thought about it and would just like to get to know her as a friend.

THEN get to know her as a friend.

Don't lead her on. Don't do anything out of so-called "pity". Do the right thing, simply because it's right.

That is all.

Yeah. Theres no need to be rude to her... How would you like it if the girl you liked turned you down in such a way?

Delphian better get the **** out of their, i was stuck in a crappy relationship for three months because i made the decision to go out with the ugly chick.

I wonder...has effective is Massassi when it comes to solving come problems? What's the percentage for solving, and for not solving?
The answer is simple, don't go out with her. Life is tough, you'll teaching her how to handle disappointments.

Quick someone call a poll!

i say you dont go out with her, if youre not intrested.


you have to be truthful, dont force yourself to go out with her.

like selling stuff at a garage sale, you want $10 for something and the person says ill give you $5, dont say well okay, well i reallly wanted to sell it for 10. they say no ill give you 5. you dont say okay ill sell it to you for 5. you SHOULD say actually its worth 10 so i will sell 10 used and not any cheaper. dont feel sorry for someone because they didnt get want they wanted.

YOU ALWAYS ALWAYS HAVE MORE CHANCES, DONT THINK THIS IS THE ONLY GIRL THAT WILL COME YOUR WAY. shes one girl.
shes not even your friend!!!!!

Jaiph speaketh true. Just say you're not interested. Why is everyone being such jerks? OMG FAT PEOPLE DO NOT DESERVE RESPECT.

Yoink.

Okay this thread is beyond awful... someone close this.

Dudes, I get yo ****ing point. :p I asked Amber to politely tell Robynn no.

And on another note, yes, Amber is quite beautiful, and I like her a lot...her eyes...that cute way she talks..the way she brushes her beautiful jet black hair back.....but, we're just friends. :/


Oh feel free to close this miserable thread anytime, bros.

TOLD YOU, that he liked amber.... dude go for her if u got the game...

Dude, you used an intermediary? No no no...

Never, ever, EVER use someone else as a go-between in any sort of situation like this. You should have just done it yourself. You see, by doing it the way you did, it made it look as if you don't care at all about her. If you had told her yourself, that could be a good chance to start becoming friends with her (assuming that you want to get to know her). Bah, I'm rambling.

But anyways, I hope everything works out.

Right, bashing of fat people ends here. Continue to do it and expect your posts to go bye bye.

Dude....I've never ever been on a date before, and now your telling me to go for this beautiful girl I could never hope to date? Sure, I really like her, but...we're just friends, and I think it should stay that way. Oh and, you wanna know what else? I've only known her for like, what, a week? :p


Understood, Jaiph.

You've only known Amber for a week and you're already settling for the friends zone? Well, not like you have a choice. If she's setting you up with a friend, she clearly doesn't have the hots for you.

This man speaks truth.

Someone might say "Ask her out anyway" or "She's not worth the time, stop hanging out with her". Ignore that person. Yes, you should stop oogling over this girl and place your pursuits on someone(or something like a hobby) else and just remain friends with this girl. No reason to **** up a perfectly good friendship.

Thank you, I know that.

...damn it, no you don't! Take that back and call me a genius! *cracks a whip on Delphian's back*

What in the heck is wrong with you!? OMFG~!!!11112@zorz

NOTE: Ignore me. Nonetheless, OMFG!!

This thread gimme the jibblies.

you've known amber for a week and already she asked you to go to on a date with another girl.... and your setting yourself up to be just a friend (aka the nice guy) don't be cocky or arrogant but start acting like you dont need her as just a friend and open yourself up to where you show interest but not to much by flirting. Flirt. its the only way. and where clothes that would impress her (if shes like VERY girl in michigan) (abercrombie, AE, hollister) and be trendy and cool about it... im not saying don't be yourself but girls these days are all about looks, which itself is shallow but we have to adapt to them...

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You brought this thread back up top... to post that?

The Ultimate, Powerful, Mighty, Unholy Lord of Darkness, Emperor Jonathan "Jon`C" Clark III issues the following statement:

Ignore the situation entirely. Pretend to be completely and totally oblivious to everything. Obviously this girl's idea of making a move toward a relationship is to get one of her friends to do it for her which leads me to believe that, as long as you pretend nothing is happening, nothing ever will. Essentially she issued an invitation for you to initiate something which is something loathsome and despicable that all girls do and this infuritates me continually. Grr.

Anyway, I stand by it: Pretend there's no problem and the problem will go away.

My solution (with the plasma gun) is still the best.

not quite true. Chicks are looking for guys with extreme masculinity. looks help, but if you know how to be a MAN (not nice guy) then that will get you quite far.

brand-name clothes are not that important from my experience. Just wear sometrhing in good condition that doesn't make you look like a homeless bum or an unemployed loser (no yellowing white t-shirts with buffalo wing sauce stains on it, for instance) .

yep. :p

Guess who started it? not me....

*makes man-love to kyle90*

It's hard to say, remember that emo boy article posted on Massassi some time ago?

emo boys suck. being angsty and whining about how no one loves you all the time does not appeal to most women.
Being a stong confident man is being masculine in the primal sense, which works wonders for attracting women. let me explain why.

Culture and civilization is just a mask-- once you take it off, it is apparent that we are the same primal-minded creatures that we have always been.

Think of a man as a hunter. The more masculine hunters caught the most prey on average b/c their higher levels of testosterone gave them the courage and confidence to pursue the prey and take more risks than the man that had less testosterone.

Now, translate this to more modern times. Women are the prey most men seek (In a non stalker-ish fashion, of course). Think about it-- why do attractive women usually go for jerks, tough guys, criminals, politicians, and general alpha male figures, for lack of a better word? Why don't they go after the nice guy who is sweet, insecure, clingy, and acts like a doormat, or go for joe schlump that drives an old chevy pacer and still lives with his parents at age 30?

The answer is testosterone and the traits it produces in men. Confidence, boldness, dominance-- in neolithic times, these are the trits that made a good hunter.

Women evolved the desire for good hunters (men with high testosterone!!!!) because they were good providers,
they were able to protect the women and the children from the angry saber tooth tiger or some other dangerous scenario.

Flash back to modern times. Nice guys do not have these traits because they do not have as much testosterone. Think about it--- how many attractive women do you see with the stereotypical nerd?
Unless he's rich and has people leeching off of him, the usual answer is either no women at all or the occasional nerd-girl. Likewise, you see average women with average guys, and you see the blonde bombshells with the most masculine men. It only makes sense-- the extreme female woman is looking for the extreme masculine man. it's natures way of balancing everything out.

Ohh, that's right, who's your daddy? I SAID WHO'S YOUR DADDY B***H!!!

thats dirty!

I'm scared to say that oddly made sense in some weird way! lol:p


And i'm right there with ewok all this man love is a little ermm:eek: ... slowly leaves thread... hmmm... jk:p