Heres some really good advice. NEVER "try" too hard to get a girl. if she didnt like you from the start, odds are that you will try to change so she does like you and then you wont be yourself anymore and when you let that piece of yourself slip out, its overrr. the girl gave you her number so she wants your balls. congrats. but take it slow. dont jump the gun on her. and make sure shes on birth control, assuming your in high school i dont think you need a kid right now. also, if she ever tries to lie to you and she wont tell you the truth, cut off her pinky finger, and tell her that her thumb is next, and she will tell you what kind of panties she wearing. That last part was taken from Reservoir Dogs. that was a cool movie. i totally rambling on at this point. oh yea. dont get mixed up in the wrong crowd. that will lead to just more bad things. stay in pep band. hahaha. pep band. what were you thinking.

Or I could just, you know, not have sex.

And about pep band, to be in concert band(which is what I want) a requirement is to be in pep band at my school. I'm only going through it to get to concert band.

or you could be a man about it dump pep band, join your hs hockey team and have a lot of sex...

on a serious note i am the only massassian to have an aborted child.. i think... (girls choice i waged war for her to keep it) and pulling out is not an effective strategy...

I'll confess that I was in pep band a couple years ago. Believe it or not, because a girl talked me into it. I quit though.

Ok by me! I've got plenty of space in my loft!

Why does everyone think he's going to have sex? He doesn't even know what to DO yet. And when he does figure it out, he'll be fine.

Like I said, Corner Garden is a great restaraunt for the first date--if it's still open. The outside tables are very nice.

If nothing else you could have a picnic in Secret Park, or even just Massey, someplace where it's nice and quiet, and you two could be together. Heh.

gas station bathrooms... they even come with a key like a hotel and there free and noone will bother you

Thats sick... back alleys of bars are much more clean.

hahaha, thats a good one.

take her out to lunch. go to the dance. have fun, and get laid.

Ban girls? **** that. I like girls

sure u do avenger... pretty quick to point out u like girls eh? ::suspicion::

we...like...girls...


there i wasnt quick and i said it

:shifts eyes:

Nah, have sex in high school, its fun.

its fun really??? tell me about it!!!1!!!one!!

Naw... ya think?

Supposedly, that's how my ex got pregnant. But I've heard several stories, so whoTF knows.

put it this way...

"never thought it oculd happen to me"

but it did its that easy

Don't go out with a girl without good looks!

Yeah. She's sure to be pleasant.

just let me clear this up. The three day rule sucks. Every girl I know appreciates it when a guy calls her back. For a friend of mine, the 3 day rule starts the 3 strike rule. It's dumb, and then I hear a lot of "Well he hasn't called yet, so I don't even know. either he's just trying to be dumb, or doesn't like me; either way, it's looking like nothing's going to happen." Girls tend to like feeling respected and not calling them doesn't help them feel that way. There are some exceptions, but for hge most part, girls know about the 3 day rule and hate it/ think it's stupid. Just felt I had to put that out there on behalf of all people of the XX persuasion.

Anyway, I would say go for it. She definitley likes you, there are no signs to misread, more like billboards with flashing lights. And Congrats! seems like you guys like each other a lot, awesome!

It's a play on the Chris Rock bit about gun control

3 days? Hell, my average is 7 days. I don't wait by the phone, either. I put it off or 7 days b/c I'm so busy I don't have time to call. Being busy is pretty much the story of my life. sometimes I plan on caling after 7 days, and I out and out forget b/c there's so much stuff happening around me.

Once, I forgot to call a chick. Two weeks later, I found the number under the pile of stuff on my dryer. I called her up, and she was still glad to hear from me.

Well if you're busy, that's one thing and it makes sense, but if you're just not calling because you want to portray an image, it doesn't work. but you've been pretty good on this thread, page. I'm proud, i don't want to kill you :p

Likewise.

Forgot to comment on that comment. It's obvious you like her as well and that rush you get is just your reaction to being glad to see her because you like her. It always happens with both males and females. I know when I see a guy I like I'll get that feeling, butterflies in the stomach, really giddy. (not that guys get giddy) but I mean you all have it to another degree. But yeah, and you arent misreading signals, she's into you

Ok, tacking onto what Sugarless said.. The 'Three Day Rule' is DUMB. There's a difference between acting desperate, calling as soon as you get home, and calling every thirty five point nine seven six seconds (and leaving a message each time), and waiting until maybe 7 or 8 in the evening (THAT EVENING) after dinner to call.

This shows several things.

1. It shows you are interested. Yes. This is important.
2. It shows that you care about them. How would you feel if this girl you liked got your phone number, and then waited three days to call you? Especially if it was three school days.. where you see her..
3. It's just common courtesy. It shows you're not an @&%hat and will string her on, dangling yourself in front of her. Believe it or not, waiting three days won't 'drive her crazy.' It'll just show that she's not really that important to you.
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   Believe it or not, people, Girls are people too. Granted, maybe the 'three day rule' will work on some girls.. but put yourself in their shoes. Would YOU want to wait three days? Nuh-uh.
   
   There are no 'rules' for this kind of thing. If you want to call it a game, it's one where there is a goal, but no defined path. You could wait three days, you could wait three hours, you could wait three seconds. Who knows? Maybe one, two, or all three will make the girl happy. Or maybe she'll get P.O'ed at you because you're drowning her, or she feels you're ignoring her.
   
   One of my female friends is currently kind of aggrivated with her boyfriend because he never calls her. It's kind of nice to hear from your boy/girlfriend from time to time.. There's a balance, but I think in the begining, especially the first time you call, you don't want her to ge the impression that she's just kind of there.. a pick out of a barrel type thing.
   
   Anyway. My rant. Summary: Rules are dumb. The Three Day rule is dumber. Girls are people too, and be nice to people.
   
   Also, give happydud money, because he needs a new video card.
   That is all.
   
   [edit- Yeah, I'll agree with the general concensus that she digs you.]

I hate when people steal my thoughts. Dr.Luuve is right as always kids. There are no methods, rules or guidelines for relationship success and anyone who tells you otherwise, regardless of how often they cite their "experience", is full of it.

That may have been my fatal mistake with the last girl. Only I didn't call her because I was afraid I'd come off as cling-ish. So I wait a week for her to get back to me (I had gotten her phone number, but we sit at lunch EVERY DAY together.)

Next thing I know, someone else is taking her out. Bleh.

Oh and Luke, GET ON AIM!

way to go yoshi! is she still dating that kid?

waiting to call is good only if you don't see her every day. Otherwise, its hard to explain. I should have mentioned that sooner.

Have you checked the glove box?

Pfft. Since when do men read manuals anyway?

This is so true. Just treat her nicely, and go for it. It sounds like she likes you from what you've said.

I call a girl the day after I get her number(two if I met her late at night). Not too soon that it seems creepy, but not to late that she doesn't remember me.

When trying to relate to women, you shouldn't think like a man.