Ok, so let me get this straight. Every single vegetarian in the world has it out for you? They want to either convert you, or kill you? Quite interesting.
You also mention the fact that you have never met a vegetarian or vegan that hasn't tried to convert you.
I am a vegetarian. I have many friends that are. You know what? We don't go around flaunting it. We don't go up to people and say "GUESS WHAT, MAGGOT?? I'M A VEGE-FRELLING-TARIAN, AND YOU AREN'T! BURRRRN!" No. If people invite me over for dinner, then I tell them that I don't eat meat. But otherwise.. I don't make it known. Granted, a main reason for this is so I don't have to explain to every single person why I'm a vegetarian, then go on to defend my reasons, and then prove to them that it actually can be healthy, and yes I get my protein.
Now, some vegetarians and vegans will go around flaunting it, and in my mind they're no better than Jehovah's Witness. If people ask me, and genuinely want to know why I'm a vegatarian, I'll tell them. And you know what? On several occasions, I've converted people. Not by accosting them on the street, shoving facts down their throat, and saying "EAT MEAT AND DIE," but by explaining my thoughts and reasons when they ask.
I would not be at all surprised if you knew several vegetarians, who you didn't know were. Then you fundamental theory on us is flawed! You knew vegetarians who didn't try to push it on you! OH NOS!
Oh, and one more thing. Your last sentance is just plain dumb. That's like saying "Communism doesn't bother me, but communists do." ^_-
Rob: "Ever seen what rabbits look like after they've gone through a combine harvester?
Guess what, thats on the vegitables you buy at the store."
Yeah.. I guess. If for some reason, you have been brought up to believe that vegetables == animals. You know, it's completely irrelevant that they're in completely different Kingdoms(?)... One of these can think, move, breathe, and have emotions. The other just kind of sits there and.. well.. exists.
I always hated this argument. "How many tomatos did you kill to make that salad, vege-freak??"
The argument itself is fundamentally flawed. It's like comparing apples to bicycles. Vegetables can't feel pain, you can't be cruel to a vegetable.
Some people say "Well, if you're a vegetarian, why do you eat Tofu/Otherfakemeat?? Trying to make up for it?"
No... A lot of great meals are made with meat. These same meals can be made using fake meat, allowing vegetarians and vegans to eat them as well. Eating a bocaburger doesn't say "Damn.. I wish I could eat a real burger." It can mean "Well.. the people I'm at dinner with chose this place, so instead of making a huge fuss and forcing all x number of people to go to a different resteraunt, I'll eat this vegetarian substitute" or "I'm hungry. This is in the fridge. *nuke* *masticate* *swallow*"
On the 'hardcore punk straightedge vegan' thing:
You can be whatever the hell you want to be. A lot of straighedge people enjoy the same hardcore punk or rock or whatever as others do, they just prefer to do it without drugs and alcohol, etc. I know a lot of people who are heavily into the punk scene who are vegan and vegetarian. Don't make huge, sweeping generalizations about the punk community like "They're all druggies who like loud music and screaming." That's not entirely true. Sure, some of it is.
Some punk is people with more metal content in their body than flesh, listening to a guitar, a bass, drums, and a guy screaming "F%*&" over and over again into the mic, complete with dyed hair and mohawks, who go around stealing and smashing and causing general anarchy. But there are a lot of others who try to get people to go out and vote, or at least pay attention to the political situation. There are people who are genuinely concerned about /something/, be it animal cruelty, politics, the economy, technology, racial issues, etc, and who all come together with their love of a type of music. These people don't have to be the straightedge type, but more often than not are. They're just trying to get people to not be content with their lives, not be content with that they're told, not just exist. (like the vegetable..)
Often, this message is incorporated into the music. They live by their lifestyle, and their lifestyle influences their music, and they live by their music. Music == lifestyle.
People joke about eating vegetarians and all and you know, it's all fine and dandy. I can take a joke about my lifestyle, and laugh about it. PETA == People Who Eat Tasty Animals. That got a laugh out of me the first time I saw it.
I'm not defending myself, and trying to convert you all with this speech. I'm just sick of people going around, making large and sweeping generalizations about people, communities, lifestyles that they don't really know anything about.
So, in summary: Think before you post. Do you really hate vegetarians that much? What did they do to you? Have they (as a group) murdered your parents, and burned your siblings?
Bah.
[edit- Oh, and the R/A/SPCA and PETA are completely different types of organizations... SPCA is an animal rescue thing, and PETA is animal rights. Again, like comparing apples to bicycles.