Ok this is a different kind of girl story from what you're used to.

I just spent an entire night up having a conversation with my closest friend. My closest friend is a girl that I will refer to as K. K and I stayed up all night basically discussing how great of friends we are, when I brought up to her the fact that it occasionally bothers me that she doesn't tell me certain things. K asked me what she doesn't tell me and I said

"Well for instance you never told me why you broke up with your latest boyfriend."

And then she replied.

"Oh I just really didn't want to talk about it."

And then she said...

"But if you really want to know, I'll tell you."


Ok now it's time for a little back story. My friend K is a relatively "good" girl. She likes to drink and party and whatnot, but she absolutely is against anything sexual. She doesn't want to do any of that jazz until she gets married. It's not that she's super religious or anything, she just doesn't want to go that far with a guy unless she knows she's going to hang onto him forever. I really respect this out of her, because she is one of the only girls I have ever met that has actually KEPT this up... Especially well into our second year at college.

So she then begins to tell me why she broke up with her latest boyfriend.

She threw him a party for his 21st birthday. She paid for absolutely everything, and decided she didn't want to get drunk because she knew he was going to try something. She had previously discussed her values with this guy and all that, so one would think that this wouldn't be a problem. Well as luck would have it, she got a bit drunk. She then proceeded to go up to her room to go to bed. Her boyfriend went with her. This had happened before, no big problem. He had tried stuff before, and she shut him down. She always reminded him why too. She didn't want to do that stuff quite yet. Well, her boyfriend happened to be one of those gents that doesn't drink. He didn't get drunk, even though it was his 21st. So he went up to her room with her, and she began getting tired. You know how it is when you're wasted. You can barely keep your eyes open. Finally she passed out, after shutting him down. She wakes up the next morning and felt kind of strange. She sat and thought for a while, and suddenly two images popped into her mind.

1. His hand going down her pants.
2. Her hand going down his pants.

She said she sat for a few minutes wondering if it was a dream, and then he awoke to tell her that it really happened. She basically told him that she didn't approve of this at all, and he didn't act like it was a big deal.

Well... When she told me this story, I thought it was a big deal. Apparantly this total choad of a ex didn't realise that when she said she didn't want to do anything sexual, that meant she didn't want to do anything sexual even if she was drunk. I told her that I wouldn't do anything to him, or his car... I also told her that I would do my best not to confront him about it, but I wouldn't lie. So next time I go over to her place, and he has decided to make an appearance, I'm not going to say anything, I'm just going to wait on him to ask me why I look so pissed off, and them I'm going to unload on him. And if he takes offense to anything I say, and decided to cast fists, I'm going to ruin his ****.

Not your average Massassi girl story.

NOTE: And just for the record this is one of those situations where the girl really IS my best friend, she and I actually hang out constantly and what-have-you. This isn't geek stalking girl best friend syndrome.

Beat his *****-*** down.

I'm depressed.

Yeah, my bestbest friend is a girl. I know exactly what you mean.

And yes, do lay the smack-down.

Admittedly, I will agree that the guy's an ***. He deserves a severe beatdown. But at the same time, at least he didn't have sex with her.

As much as she's your friend, this isn't really your fight. Your job as a friend is to stand by her, and support her in what she decides to do. If she asks you to beat him down, then by all means, give him one for me too.

I thought it was implied he had sex with her. I may be mistaken.

The ****er wasn't even drunk, he knew perfectly well what he was doing and took perfect advantage of her. He should be staked to the wall by his nuts.

He described mutual masturbation. That does not imply sex. It is a sexual act in itself.

The CoW speaks the truth.

Yeah, I just figured since she was drunk, he was horny, and she was asleep, maybe she 'knew' something more had gone on. Probably wrong, though.

Not that being drunk would have excused what he did, but he can't even say he did it because he was drunk. He was sober and violated his girlfriend. Man I don't even know her but I'd punch the guy if I saw him.

If it does come to fisticuffs, I highly recommend getting at least one good shot in at his groin.

who the hell waits untiil they're married to have sex??

The guy should of known this. If he wanted a gf to have an actual physical relationship with, why was he wasting time being with her? what an IDIOT!

of course I use the word "wasting" rather unfairly perhaps...

if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

It's more like she was wasting her time with him, seeing as he was being persistant, even when knowing her take on issue.

Well, it would've been fine if the lad was patient - but being a [fool] like he was, well, he deserves a thourough beating.

EDIT: Sorry MBeggar - didn't notice the filter not pick that up!

*Remembers for next time*

true dat...

you really do not know though, i mean seriously when i start thinking with my other 'head'... things get entirely blurred so much that i don't care sometimes about consequences... call me naive but that is just me. Being horny and taking advantage is two different things. This is her bf not some date rape best friend story, so lets not get to rushed to burn him at the steak. Secondly when girls are drunk and horny, if she started it... which she most likely did, what can you say to that, and she was only a bit drunk not trashed/sloshed/tanked.... I do see the harm that was done but I do not believe dumping him was the best idea, especially since I take it he was being faithful and a good enough bf for her to pay for a 21st party where he dosn't even drink... **** finding a guy who has that kind of morale must have something going right? Either way it is not your fight and I am sure she still has feelings for him so I doubt beating him up would make you anything more the a 'tool' for her and not help your friendship in any way, thus assuming you probaly would date this girl.

Here's a little trick I heard about in residence. If you can find a way to get some Rub-A535 heat cream on his "private area," you'll have yourself an effective, non-damaging method of torture.
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He will be extremely remorseful:mad:



Why do you assume she most likely started it? If she was only "a bit drunk," don't you think she would still hold to the values she's held so strongly?

that would involve touching another mans underwear or worse.............. and are you referring to 'icy hot'

it buuuuuuuurrrrrrnnnnnnns!!!!!!

Sometimes veangance carries a price. Yeah, icy hot. A truly unpleasant sensation, I'm sure

...and we weren't condoning stake burnination: just a sound beating! :p

Ok people, bring out the chib

gilgamesh obviously you have not been around girls long enough to understand what im talking about... when your horny things don't matter as much, im sorry but its true, and i was going off her description of things... she put her hand in his pants... i doubt he placed it in there.... girls are different when there horny or even drunk, its true...

You're talkin' to the recovering drunk of Gzowski College, Trent University here. I've been in two relationships, and around MANY drunk girls. Agreed, a lot of them do get 'friendlier' with drink, but many also still have a clear idea of where the line is.

Perhaps she did start it, but it's far from the most likely scenario. Judging from the description of this guy's past behaviour towards her, I'd be more inclined to think that he moved in on her again.

true but either way she knew her line and crossed it herself it would be different if it was all geared towards her, even if he did and she gave one of those 'fine if you must, but i hate you for it' faces which makes you stop and feel guilty, but she reinforced whatever he did if he did start even start it....

lolz u phat pempen i ned ur mad skylz

In other news, the average IQ of America dropped ten points today, bringing it to ~25. Hundredths. Of a point.

hey ******* post your picture in the picture threads and then we can discuss any experience you have with girls besides your close pregnant friend.... tool your an *** i didn't say anything to you in this thread but whatever have fun being an ******* i hope you feel good about yourself seriously, go crack open a beer and revel in your supremacy on a fricking sw forum.... god man ****ing lay off

WOAH kiddies! Let's all cool down shall we?

Everybody count to ten.

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Right. Happy thoughts.

Somebody post a kitten or something....

Peace, all

i have 2!!!!!

the girl (black) is roxie and the other the boy is flea

Roxie looks ready to start somethin':)

Agreed. I really hate this type of thing. Not many, but I wish guys would learn to respect what their girlfriends want, and stop thinking with their penis.

I like kitty!

lol they fight constantly.... its never ending, the boy is fatter and usually tackles her but she always comes back for more

Much Better!

Ok... back on topic.

Cheaptrick, it doesn't matter whether she "in the mood" or not. She was drunk, her boyfriend knew that, he knew how she felt, and even if she was coming on to him, he should have had to decency to say, "No, you're drunk, I know how you feel about this, let's wait until tomorrow and we'll talk about it."

That is all.

Tuxedo cats > All other cats

mad cow... you have balls my friend to actually say that, i have said 'your drunk' but never tried to imply anything by it.....

are you saying my girl is wearing a tuxedo!

I've never been in the situation, but it's not having balls, it's being respectful.

its just the whole respectful thing that gets blurred is what i was talking about, but i guess if you really are super conscious of what your doing you could say no but man it would be hard