Thanks everyone.

I'm starting to feel a little better, but she still calls me and wants to know how I'm feeling. I mean, I told her how I felt, I felt hurt, and it would just take time for me to get over this..but she keeps pushing the "I want to be really really good friends with you" thing on me...That just makes me think about her even more, so what should I do now?

Tell her next time she calls that you're just not ready to be talking to her. She should understand and if she respects you she'll do it.

Or once you've heard her voice and know it's her, pretend to be an answering machine :p

Yeah, you definitely need some time. My ex and I got on really well and both still want to be friends, but we knew the only way for either of us to move on was to spend time apart. It's been a good 4 months or so now, and we've just re-established contact. You can't go straight from dating someone to just hanging out with them, as both of you will end up with confused feelings.

God, there is someone who actually has the melancholy feeling when it comes to meeting the girl that you think is exactly the type of girl you like to be with. I met this girl one (if anyone remembers 'therealcja') who was this and she had fell out with current boyfriend and got with me on New Years Eve a few years ago. However the following day she left the party without saying a word. Despite the fact I had phoned her several times, her best mate told me it was best to leave her. However she got me into liking Smashing Pumpkins that was the only good thing that came out of it. However I have not felt the same person since then and well... i've been a wreck ever since. Its painful (I know cause i've been there).

Anyway just try to be happy


~Backburner~