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Dating Problem
2003-12-17, 4:56 AM #1
I need some help guys [http://forums.massassi.net/html/frown.gif]

I have talking to this girl now for about 2 months. I met her at some bar, and she was looking over at me and I decided to approach her. She happened to be a friend of a friend of a friend, so I figured she was a decent chick, not trashy, whatever. SO for 2 months or so we have been messing around and stuff, getting pretty close. Yesterday she decides to tell me something that is really pissing me off. I am about to break a wall...meh I dont know. Anyway, she told me she was a transvistite. Should I confront her, and tell her how I feel about it? I feel like I have been fooled and dooped. Thank god I didnt, loose my virginity to her...then I would have found out the hard way.

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2003-12-17, 4:56 AM #2
Give her money.

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2003-12-17, 4:57 AM #3
i'd say go for it... This is once in a lifetime chance to try a transvestite... i mean.. boobs! and penis! wow?

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2003-12-17, 5:01 AM #4
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Ubuu:
....then I would have found out the hard way.

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hehehe, i can be so immature at times.



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2003-12-17, 5:01 AM #5
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Ubuu:
Thank god I didnt, loose my viriginity to her...then I would have found out the hard way.

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You mean after she had stripped you would still have done it?

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Looks like we're not going down after all, so nevermind.
2003-12-17, 5:02 AM #6
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Septic Yogurt:
hehehe, i can be so immature at times.

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You are sick. I didnt even mean that.

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2003-12-17, 5:03 AM #7
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Krokodile:
You mean after she had stripped you would still have done it?

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I sure would.

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2003-12-17, 5:17 AM #8
Can ya'll be serious please. I think I need to see a shrink. I am really disturbed by this, and I feel like I need to share it with the whole fourm and continue to polute the forums with my dating woos.

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2003-12-17, 5:21 AM #9
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Ubuu:
Can ya'll be serious please. I think I need to see a shrink. I am really disturbed by this, and I feel like I need to share it with the whole fourm and continue to polute the forums with my dating woos.

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You do realize that you're living the ultimate cliché nightmare of all men, right? Just when you thought it only happens on TV and in urban legends...it happens to you! Can you imagine how big this is?!

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2003-12-17, 5:28 AM #10
On a serious note, I do think you should confront her (I guess I say "her"?), and tell her how you feel. I mean, if she has decided to be honest with you, you should do the same. if I were in your shoes, I would be freaked out also. Just tell her how you feel and that your not interested in dating her anymore...

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2003-12-17, 5:42 AM #11
That's weird.. I mean that you couldn't tell earlier. Can they really pretend *that* well?

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2003-12-17, 5:42 AM #12
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by PennyO_NBK:
On a serious note, I do think you should confront her (I guess I say "her"?), and tell her how you feel. I mean, if she has decided to be honest with you, you should do the same. if I were in your shoes, I would be freaked out also. Just tell her how you feel and that your not interested in dating her anymore...

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2003-12-17, 5:49 AM #13
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Freelancer:
That's weird.. I mean that you couldn't tell earlier. Can they really pretend *that* well?

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Plastic surgery, some estrogen pills...

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2003-12-17, 6:04 AM #14
Wow, that really really stinks. I would have to break it off.

I heard that there was a british reality TV show just like that. I hope it doesn't come to the US.

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2003-12-17, 6:07 AM #15
Kick her (her, him, it - whatever) to the curb.

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2003-12-17, 6:13 AM #16
Man, all those trips to the mall, Victoria Secret, the Zoo. All of it means NOTHING now. I am depressed.

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2003-12-17, 6:22 AM #17
UBUU'S PLAYING A GAG

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2003-12-17, 6:43 AM #18
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Anyway, she told me she was a transvestite.
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OWNED!

I think it justifies indefinite hatred too.

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2003-12-17, 7:01 AM #19
Just tell her/him/whatever ya don't go that way.

That's just cold though, that's something that should've been said first hand.. Yea. That's painful just thinking about the possibility.

See this is why Playboy and such are bad, they make us think all that we gotta look out for are the breasts and then stuff like this happens!

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2003-12-17, 7:14 AM #20
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by MikeC:
Kick her (her, him, it - whatever) to the curb.

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I believe "shim" is appropriate in this case. [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]

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2003-12-17, 7:38 AM #21
Actually the proper androgynous pronoun is "ze" [http://forums.massassi.net/html/rolleyes.gif]

I donno, it's a hard situation... sounds to me like she kind of led you to approach her, and imo that was kindof wrong to do if she wasn't prepared to let you know entirely who she was.

Just give her the "lets just be friends" speech [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]
If she plans of having it um... operated later, though, that might alter your decision... if it's all alright with you, she could be female enough [http://forums.massassi.net/html/tongue.gif]

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2003-12-17, 7:51 AM #22
Ub, you said you wouldn't tell anyone ! [http://forums.massassi.net/html/mad.gif]

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2003-12-17, 8:04 AM #23
Some people seem to have mistaken "transvestite" for "transsexual." Transvestites simply wear the opposite sex's clothing - it's typically easier to spot a male transvestite than a female, mainly because many male transvestites wear make-up.

Transsexuals generally go through a surgical procedure to have their genitalia changed, and, if they are originally man, breast implants.

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2003-12-17, 8:09 AM #24
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Wolfy:
it's typically easier to spot a male transvestite than a female, mainly because many male transvestites wear make-up.

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We'll I couldnt notice.

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2003-12-17, 8:27 AM #25
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Zuljin:
UBUU'S PLAYING A GAG

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2003-12-17, 8:33 AM #26
HAHAHA... I'm laughing, but I feel for you at the same time. That hasn't happened to me [yet]

*knocks on wood frantically* [http://forums.massassi.net/html/biggrin.gif]

The general rule is, if the chick is unusually tall, start looking for an adam's apple.

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2003-12-17, 8:52 AM #27
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Wolfy:
Some people seem to have mistaken "transvestite" for "transsexual." Transvestites simply wear the opposite sex's clothing - it's typically easier to spot a male transvestite than a female, mainly because many male transvestites wear make-up.

Transsexuals generally go through a surgical procedure to have their genitalia changed, and, if they are originally man, breast implants.

</font>


Well, that's how I understood it, but last time there was a debate on the topic most Massassians argued that technically you are a transvestite before you become a transsexual [http://forums.massassi.net/html/rolleyes.gif]
I'm just trying to speak the same language as everybody else here... [http://forums.massassi.net/html/tongue.gif]

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2003-12-17, 9:14 AM #28
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2003-12-17, 11:12 AM #29
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2003-12-17, 12:27 PM #30
Ubuu, the answer is obvious.

Dump him/her/it on their arse. Hold a grudge.

And for the record, it's not very smart to stand up in front of a group and say "Hi everyone, I've been dating a MAN for months!"

You won't get much sympathy that way. Really, think about it.

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2003-12-17, 2:08 PM #31
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Pagewizard_YKS:
The general rule is, if the chick is unusually tall, start looking for an adam's apple.</font>


Adam's apple, hair on the knuckles. Sure signs that your date is packing wedding tackle.

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2003-12-17, 2:39 PM #32
You wouldn't be speaking from experience now would you Spork? [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]
2003-12-17, 2:43 PM #33
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Run:
You wouldn't be speaking from experience now would you Spork? [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]</font>


Well your knuckles get so damn itchy after you sha-err... No. Err, no, Run, course not [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]

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2003-12-17, 2:48 PM #34
So, are you *sure* ?? Maybe she's just playing a gag on you to see if you really love her... Is that a gun in her pocket or is she just happy to see you?
2003-12-17, 2:54 PM #35
Tell him/her that you are also a transvestite, maybe s/he will also be greatly disturbed for the rest of their life. OWNED!

On a more serious note, if it were me, I would seriously beat that fool down and gladly plead quilty to it in court. I could care less if he wants to wear womens clothes, but what the **** does he expect will happen when the guy finds out, just as you did?

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2003-12-17, 2:57 PM #36
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Spork:
Well your knuckles get so damn itchy after you sha-err... No. Err, no, Run, course not [http://forums.massassi.net/html/wink.gif]

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Suuuuuuuuuuure, I believe you, really I do.
2003-12-17, 3:03 PM #37
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Zuljin:
UBUU'S PLAYING A GAG

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Ubuu would have to be blind not to notice a transvestite. Especially after "messing around".
2003-12-17, 3:18 PM #38
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Brian:
So, are you *sure* ?? Maybe she's just playing a gag on you to see if you really love her... Is that a gun in her pocket or is she just happy to see you?</font>


That's one sucky way to see if someone loves you...
Maybe she's just trying to get rid of him [http://forums.massassi.net/html/tongue.gif]

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2003-12-17, 3:24 PM #39
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Jedi Legend:
Ubuu would have to be blind not to notice a transvestite. Especially after "messing around".</font>


Ubuu is blind, you jackass! How DARE you make such a prejudicial remark!

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2003-12-17, 3:30 PM #40
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Jedi Legend:
Ubuu would have to be blind not to notice a transvestite. Especially after "messing around".</font>


I was wondering about that too. Plus, you went to Victoria's Secret, but never saw any of it on the thing? That would erk me.

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