I'm not saying that you should kill the kid or torture, neither that discrimination is right. I was disciplined with a belt when ever I got out of hand, I still get the belt once in a while... if it had not been for my dad, I'd never turn out to be what I'am, I'd be a worse thing. When a kid does something wrong, says, he don't do home work, and that goes unpunished, or just a simple "no tv for you" the kid will get acostumed to this and it will grow to be repeatively... how ever, a kid will not like getting spanked, and will make sure to not do the same thing again, for it would mean another spanking, this is all in simple terms. HOW EVER, a kid should be rewarded for his/hers good efforts now and then. When ever I got good grades in the past my dad would get me a game, thus this is how I got Jedi Knight. In the future, I will discipline my children like my father did with me, that is, if I have children. Also, all these things of aggresion build ups and all, are because of many reason, which some of them are:
Over beating or beating for no reason at all, usually happens with drunk parents or with people who can't control their temper.
Unfair beating, in a case where the child is beat in some sort of misunderstanding while not being involved or the cause of it.
In all the beating my dad gave me, there was only one that was kinda unfair, when I explained it to him, he asked me to forgive him, and I did, for he forgives me for my errors. I've lived like this, and I got no aggresion build ups or anything of the sort. My problems are of another area totally different.
Nothing to see here, move along.