If you're 15 and considering sexual activity to be a serious considerable action, slam your head in a door.

Not really. Just be safe and use contraception.

--^ agree


Rofl, I saw this as "latest thread" on the index page and it was cut off as "I GOT A GIRL ..." and I thought we had another Massassian baby

Not yet...let's see how this goes...j/k man

WOW! Today we were talking and she is nothing like the other girl... she's totally different... I didn't want to come home from school.

"I have a bad feeling about this..."

I think I'm going to leave gaming and computers for good for this girl... man I'm crazy about her!

Wow, she whipped you quick.

That's not really something to be happy about.

Going a bit extreame aren't we my friend?

/me slaps Gold back to his senses...if there's still any left.

Haha, you got ripped off if you have to give up gaming for your girlfriend.

We haven't talked at all about games... she doesn't even know I'm a gamer... I only wish to do this from my own free will... so I can be with her.

Damn right. That's not negotiable.

Unless you've been dating forever and went exclusive or married (or about to be).



Drop "about her" part. You are just crazy.

Consider this. If a girl does not support you in what you are passionate about it's very likely she doesn't care about you. Rather she cares about herself and making you into her appendage.

If you are considering staying with a girl like that you are crazy. Period.

You think that now, but you'll end up being yourself. Besides, if she really is so awesome, she won't care that you play video games.

You should read more... she hasn't ask me to do anything... or even mentioned... I wish to do it from my own free will... the only reason I'm posting now is because I'm not with her at this very moment...

EDIT: Hmmm... so right avenger.... maybe she is a gamer... who knows?...

Then you are crazy

Talk to her and see how she reacts. Maybe she's a gamer too.

I really hope that the majority of teenagers and young adults in...North America?...don't handle relationships like this, but I worry a bit. Hopefully they mature after a while, but why go through such heartache and torment for what, in the end, will amount to nothing but bad memories and, likely, regrets (although if there is a lack of self-control, it could result in much worse)? Attitudes like this, when extended to adulthood, are part of what lead to such high divorce rates in recent years.

GoldG, I don't guess I have any right to tell you this, except for the fact that you posted here asking for help. I think you should stop and reevaluate the purpose of your relationship(s). What are you seeking from a relationship? Why? What are you looking for in the opposite sex? Why? Are those leading to something long-term, or a fling? Do you want something long-term, or a fling? Why? Which would be better for you, and which would be better for her?

Think about those things. Take a timeout and use your head. You could save yourself a lot of trouble. It's great that you like her and are getting along, but you need to know what your purpose is in the relationship and where you want it to go. When the time is right, you may want to communicate those to her as well. But don't do something stupid because of hormones and worldly desires.

Please don't take this the wrong way. I don't mean to insult you in any way. I just hope that you do the right thing.

Some games every once and again will keep you from smothering her. You can't be with her all of the time.

Holy cow.

Thanks Blujay. I really needed that. I'll tell you what I want , I want some one to be with, to share things with, to be there, some one I can trust, and of course, love... I'm not the kind of kid that gets close to girls just for a well umm... a f*ck... (excuse my language, but I don't know how to say it any other way) I've proved that once before.

A shag

snoo-snoo
a spoinky doinky
raising the flag pole (any rvb peeps?)
hiding some trees (drew carry show anyone?)
swinging a home run
it

want some more?

[QUOTE=fallen shadow]snoo-snoo
a spoinky doinky
raising the flag pole (any rvb peeps?)
hiding some trees (drew carry show anyone?)
swinging a home run
it

want some more?[/QUOTE]

Wrong topic?

Those are euphemisms for "sexual intercourse".

Can we now forget that... I've already stated those are not my intentions...

I know, those were just for future enstences of saying what you don't want without all the language.

Something about this thread doesn't feel right......

Stop feeling up other people's threads, Kieran.

What don't feel right?

Pure gold. hahaha

Irony, wit, and truth mixed in one post.

You win.

Dude, you need your own life, whether its on your own free will. If you're with her too much, then you'll learn that, "We see each other too much" is a common excuse for break ups!!!! Just watch it. Its important to be independant to a degree. Just be there for her when she wants it, not every minute of the day.

Even a girl that give the world for you right now could grow tired of you, even you only mean good and to give her the world back.

Let me clarify that - a girl WILL get tired of you if you don't have enough of a life of your own.

Besides, you're setting her up by "giving up things for her". Because it's going to screw you up and on some level you'll consider it her doing, even if only in part. And she wouldn't even know since she didn't do anything or even know about it.

Not to mention you unfairly pre-judge her by assuming your gamer habits are unwelcome with her.

Is that a nice thing to do to someone you like?

So, snap out of it. Treat her like a person, not a fictional character. If you are to do something "for her" see if she'd like it first.

Ok... sweet... so today, we were like hugging each other and talking... and maybe you're right... we probably will get tired of each other... thats why we don't exactly date... cause I see her every day... for like 10 mins in the morning, then 40 mins in recess then 20 on the bus...

A sure sign of starting too early...

Now you go swinging back and forth like a pendulum

There's a place for this activity in a relationship but it shouldn't be in you head!

I'm totally confuzled by the post, as it amounts to no sense at all from my point of view.

He's right...you lost me on that second line Bender...

I'm with shadow here, on the starting too early part.