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how do YOU make it up to your girlfriend?

2006-01-01, 8:52 PM #1

Delphian

It's crystal-clear to him.T

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I'm clueless, this is my first [real] relationship. :gbk:

2006-01-01, 8:57 PM #2

Gebohq

ISB Kingpin

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Not that I got any experience, but would it hurt to try all of the above? I chose "other" in place of "all the above."

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2006-01-01, 8:58 PM #3

JLee

Murdered

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What'd you miss, and why'd you miss it?

woot!

2006-01-01, 8:59 PM #4

Emon

Imon, umon...everymon!

Posts: 19,022

Explain yourself and why you are sorry, be genuine but not pathetic, then maybe top it off with one of the above.

Edit: Whoops, I missed the event-missing thing. So yeah, what did you miss and why?

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2006-01-01, 9:23 PM #5

RingMaster481

Leet Dancert

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What Emon said and #2 & #3. Flowers are good.

2006-01-01, 9:24 PM #6

Cool Matty

Usuyami no Sekai

Posts: 15,246

Do what I do: Don't miss the event. :p

Seriously though, I don't think I've missed any big event my girlfriend wanted me to go to. That might be because she never asks me to go somewhere important with her (just small stuff), but still :p

2006-01-01, 9:27 PM #7

Temperamental

Sarcastic, too.

Posts: 3,246

I bang her.

2006-01-01, 9:33 PM #8

Delphian

It's crystal-clear to him.T

Posts: 2,647

I missed a party we were both supposed to go to. why? because I'm a complete lazy bum ***-wipe, that's why. And I forgot to call her. I'm furious at myself. :mad:

u know, we need a smiley for self-loathing.

2006-01-01, 9:35 PM #9

Shintock

Balls of steel.

Posts: 7,146

Originally posted by Temperamental:

I bang her.

+1 for sex.

2006-01-01, 9:47 PM #10

Temperamental

Sarcastic, too.

Posts: 3,246

+ 1000000 for sex with me

2006-01-01, 9:48 PM #11

zanardi

Dictator for Life

Posts: 6,408

Originally posted by Delphian:

I missed a party we were both supposed to go to. why? because I'm a complete lazy bum ***-wipe, that's why. And I forgot to call her. I'm furious at myself. :mad:

u know, we need a smiley for self-loathing.

wow insulting yourself over a women?

Don't buy her anything, a nice apology and make-up sex is in order here.

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2006-01-01, 9:52 PM #12

Axis

Of Evil!!

Posts: 3,164

Chocolate.

2006-01-01, 9:55 PM #13

Avenger

Positive!

Posts: 19,146

Be genuine when you apologize and make sure you don;t mess up again.

Pissed Off?

2006-01-01, 10:03 PM #14

Darth Evad

Not Really a Genius

Posts: 2,966

dump her.

2006-01-01, 10:16 PM #15

Mith

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Personally, I'm an excellent cook. I create a highly romantic night and work from there.

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2006-01-01, 10:34 PM #16

JediKirby

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Just tell her the truth and that you're going to make an effort to be there for her in the future. You shouldn't have to suck teet just because you missed some event. Ask her if you'd like to make it up to her and take her to a similar event, whatever. Don't use that to cover up an honest apology, though. You'd take her out as a favor, NOT as a "payment." The payment is an apology, and should always be such.

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2006-01-01, 10:41 PM #17

-Monoxide-

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Originally posted by JediKirby:

Why wouldn't you want to suck teet? That would make for a nice make-up foray.

2006-01-01, 11:06 PM #18

NoESC

CAPTAIN RAINBOWS. lol

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the first one, but worded differently <.<

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2006-01-01, 11:48 PM #19

Vin

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Slap her around and tell her to get over it.

2006-01-02, 12:17 AM #20

Delphian

It's crystal-clear to him.T

Posts: 2,647

You want me to slap her? And what happens when her 270 lb dad pounces on my skinny arse, eh? No, slapping is complete disrespect. If anyone needs it though, it's me.
I guess z@nardi makes a point, I am beating myself up too much over this. But the fact remains that I'm never there for her, like...I'm always busy; being lazy. What kind of boyfriend does that? A bad, inexperienced one.

I like Mith's idea, it sounds romantic....and I'm not that bad of ca cook. Now just suggest some romantic meals to go along!

2006-01-02, 12:22 AM #21

Ruthven

Not The Man He Once Was

Posts: 7,638

if you're talented in the bedroom area, make it up to her by giving her some wine, giving her a massage, and lead on to other things.

If she was dissapointed, she'll soon forget.

If not, flake out on something money orientated, take her out for something.

To be honest i have no idea what, cos I've only ever taken out my girl on one night out, to be honest it sucks, it feels like one big show one must put on.

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if(getThingFlags(source) & 0x8){
  do her}
elseif(getThingFlags(source) & 0x4){
  do other babe}
else{
  do a dude}

2006-01-02, 3:44 AM #22

Chaz Ghostle

The Man with the PlanT

Posts: 2,865

You dumb as hell, boy. Get your lazy *** up, and do more with your woman. If you continue to be lazy, you probably won't have to worry about disappointing her too much longer.

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... I thought I had won."

2006-01-02, 4:49 AM #23

Acharjay

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I make it up with nights of absolutely wild, Earth-shattering, will-bending, Endorphin-pumping sexual encounters.

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2006-01-02, 6:00 AM #24

fishstickz

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Originally posted by Acharjay:

I make it up with nights of absolutely wild, Earth-shattering, will-bending, Endorphin-pumping sexual encounters.

No you don't

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2006-01-02, 6:05 AM #25

DEFINOTELY NOT SPE

Banned

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[QUOTE=Darth Evad]dump her.[/QUOTE]

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2006-01-02, 6:14 AM #26

Spork

Junior Vice-President

Posts: 6,279

1) Be honest
2) Kiss her and tell you're really sorry
3) ???
4) Profit

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2006-01-02, 6:26 AM #27

landfish

'splodes

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*realizes he has no girlfriend*

:gbk:

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2006-01-02, 6:43 AM #28

DogSRoOL

wtf is a catloaf?a

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If she loves you, you need do nothing more than apologize and go on with life.

Cat loaf, meet mouseloaf.
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2006-01-02, 7:20 AM #29

gbk

Posts: 10,562

I would post, but it just occured to me that Im a pathetically lonely *******.

Originally posted by Delphian:

...u know, we need a smiley for self-loathing.

We have one: :gbk:

And when the moment is right, I'm gonna fly a kite.

2006-01-02, 7:27 AM #30

DrkJedi82

0x666

Posts: 12,303

you look at her, drop your pants, then say "ok you win... i'll let you have sex with me"

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2006-01-02, 7:40 AM #31

The_Lost_One

Lost No More

Posts: 749

buy her a cute little kitty.

Peace is a lie
There is only passion
Through passion I gain strength
Through strength I gain power
Through power I gain victory
Through victory my chains are broken
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2006-01-02, 7:40 AM #32

DogSRoOL

wtf is a catloaf?a

Posts: 6,227

Originally posted by gbk:

I would post, but it just occured to me that Im a pathetically lonely *******.

I found that if you quit worrying about dating and women, life is better. I'm not joking. It works.

Cat loaf, meet mouseloaf.
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2006-01-02, 7:55 AM #33

SAJN

SAJN_Master

Posts: 11,157

I voted for 'Take her out to eat', only because I thought it said something way different.

Think while it's still legal.

2006-01-02, 8:02 AM #34

I am the Stig

Posts: 10,922

I vote for "Ask an internet forum what to do"

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2006-01-02, 8:29 AM #35

MentatMM

Honk honk. Beep beep.

Posts: 2,470

I try to do right by her in the first place so I don't have to make it up to her. When I do make the occasional mistake, I apologize and treat her like an angel as usual.

2006-01-02, 8:32 AM #36

Martyn

The Daddy

Posts: 9,001

Originally posted by Mith:

Personally, I'm an excellent cook. I create a highly romantic night and work from there.

Me too. Food = sexy whilst also saying you're sorry and willing to put in the effort.

Flowers are good all the time (if anyone's interested) - as in, just because you feel like it. Does wonders

2006-01-02, 8:44 AM #37

SavageX378

Lizard-Makin' Man

Posts: 3,619

Originally posted by Z@NARDI:

wow insulting yourself over a women?

Don't buy her anything, a nice apology and make-up sex is in order here.

I prefer fugitive sex.

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2006-01-02, 8:57 AM #38

Daft_Vader

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Originally posted by Martyn:

Me too. Food = sexy whilst also saying you're sorry and willing to put in the effort.

Flowers are good all the time (if anyone's interested) - as in, just because you feel like it. Does wonders

How does the man-train cook? Share your secrets oh wise one..... >_>

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2006-01-02, 12:56 PM #39

Sats

Is going to continue to take it.

Posts: 1,628

Oral sex, lots of it.

/fluffle

2006-01-02, 1:02 PM #40

Martyn

The Daddy

Posts: 9,001

Originally posted by Daft_Vader:

How does the man-train cook? Share your secrets oh wise one..... >_>

Depends - my speciality is a full-on sunday roast - Yorkshire puddings, joint of meat, the whole shebang. Beyond that, just go to a recipe website for anything appropriate - Italian is particularly sexy, so long as you avoid the basics (lasagne and spag bol). Go for something like mediterranian veg with a piece of really good steak.