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My 18 years-old roommate has a 14 years-old girlfriend
2006-01-13, 6:31 PM #1
After telling you guys about the "spiritiual" side of my roommate, I figure I'll tell you guys about his relationship with these girls. I'll explain why I have coined the term "pedophile pimp" for him...

I'll start by talking about his girlfriend. His girlfriend is 14 years-old and she lives in Oklahoma (he attends Penn State). From what I can gather from his phone calls, he met her in a chatroom, when she just came out of a troubled relationship. They have been "girlfriend and boyfriend" for one year and two months now. They have yet to meet each other in real life, but he has seen her picture. I have seen it too unfortunately because he uses it as his wallpaper and he tacks it on to his desk (in my opinion she's not that impressive). So what is wrong with this picture? Well the first fact is that she's underaged. This also leads into another fact that her parents don't want him to be her boyfriend. They do not want her chatting with him on the phone or through the internet.

This is why earlier in the year, she only really calls him when it was really late at night. At first I was mildly okay with it...until I start realizing see it's happening every night. Even worse, I once woke up in the middle of the night to hear them having something akin to phone sex. Pissed me off interminably, I had to tell him 4 times before he stopped with the phone calls. Another annoyance is how when she's tried, he begs her to stay up to talk to him (at like 1:00 AM eastern time). Now, at times he will even skip class (after giving me an excuse) to talk to the phone with her (she better not be skipping either). I was deeply satisfied one day when I overheard her mother saying to my roommate over the cellphone "I told you to stop calling her!" Lastly, their phone conversations never seem all that serious. They seem always be playful with each other.

Next comes his various 14/15 years-old female friends, whom some of them are broken. What do I mean by "broken?" Broken as in one girl was once rape, while others are emotionally unstable from being rejected by their families or through their social life. Normally, I don't see anything wrong with being friends with them. However, my roommate's "friendship" with them his quite different. He sweet talks with them, which annoys me to hell. He tells them "I love you", "So good to hear your voice", "I missed you", "Sweetie, "Hun", "Honey", etc. You simply do not toy with the emotions of emotionally distraught girls. It will only lead to them being more broken then they already once they find out that he does not love them as a lover or that he already has a "girlfriend." One girl in particular started telling him how she was going to attempt suicide (the once raped girl) because she founds out about his girlfriend.

This post has gotten a bit long. Next time I shall post my hypothesis concerning his psychological reasoning for having a preference for these girls.
2006-01-13, 6:38 PM #2
Doesn't supprise me at all. Moron.
2006-01-13, 6:41 PM #3
General Rule of Thumb for under 20, no more then 2 years difference, maybe
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2006-01-13, 6:46 PM #4
Yeah. Two years is okay, three is pushing it. Four is right out.

Not like they are *actually* a couple. Dating over the internet is not dating. At least not yet.
Stuff
2006-01-13, 6:46 PM #5
if he is still doing this when he is 40, he won't last long in prison.
2006-01-13, 6:49 PM #6
my friend (17, going to be 18 soon) has a freshman girlfriend.

we make fun of him all the time.
2006-01-13, 6:56 PM #7
I don't like the sound of this guy.
2006-01-13, 7:00 PM #8
Originally posted by Axis:
I don't like the sound of this guy.


Oh, YOU'VE been talking to him too? Jeez
2006-01-13, 7:01 PM #9
Sounds like a butt-face
2006-01-13, 7:06 PM #10
This guy's a first-rate tool. Several of my friends had bad roommates last year, but nothing like that.
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2006-01-13, 7:07 PM #11
One of my old schoolmates used to seem down all the time and he wouldn't tell any of us why.
He was 19 and he was dating a 15 year old. Her parents had banned them from seeing each other.

The real kicker was that her parents also happened to be his aunt and uncle :eek:

Eugh it was so wrong. He'd walk back with me from school because I lived near his cousin/girlfriend's school and he'd wait round the corner for her to turn up. She wasn't one of those 15 year old girls who looked and acted years older, she' wear pigtails and had that skinny almost pre-teen kinda look.
2006-01-13, 7:12 PM #12
so he was shagging his 15 year old cousin... lovely.
2006-01-13, 7:13 PM #13
My mom was a student in college when she met my dad....my dad was teaching >.<
Think while it's still legal.
2006-01-13, 7:18 PM #14
Your roomamte is sick. He has problems.
Pissed Off?
2006-01-13, 7:21 PM #15
He sounds like a very spiritual guy.
2006-01-13, 7:47 PM #16
Leave'em alone. If the girl wants to ruin her life with your roommate, let her. There is no reasoning with morons in that situation, my exgirlfriend got into a relationship with a 21 year old "lonewolf" when she was 15 and neither of them had any sense left. According to them, I was in the wrong for trying to break them up. So, if people like that want to be in "love" like that and ruin their lives, let'em.
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2006-01-13, 8:04 PM #17
i think you're mixing him up.

people with feelings vs manipulative freaks who prey on underaged girls
2006-01-13, 8:07 PM #18
My ex's sister was 16 last year when she got pregnant with a 25 year old guy.
2006-01-13, 8:11 PM #19
To paraphrase AKPiggott; Kill the roommate and dump his body in a river.


...But seriously, guys like him should be dragged out into the streets and shot like rabid dogs.
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2006-01-13, 8:29 PM #20
Most of my friends are female, and of about ages 14-17.

The youngest one I dated was about 14 at the time and I was 17 at the time. Making her almost 18 now. You don't get to decide how mature a person is, and you don't get to decide how they feel, or how deep their feelings for someone is. Or for that matter, what type of feelings they have. "I love you" DOES NOT mean "I want your cooch." It never had, it never will.

Most of my similiar age friends I don't talk to anymore because they never grew out of things I despise. Racism, shallowness, stupidity, etc.

Big, ****ing, deal.

I've got mad love for anyone close to me, albeit mostly platonic.




I don't know, it could be because, as you've said I'm damaged goods, and damaged goods roll with damaged goods in my experience.

Its the kids that complain and have no real reason to that I don't associate with.



To sum things up. Quit being a judgemental prick (HA, irony), and if you don't like the guy find somewhere else to live.
2006-01-13, 8:30 PM #21
Based on these two threads, your room mate is a self-indulgent attention whore, plain and simple.

RUN AWAY!






I'm serious...
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2006-01-13, 8:33 PM #22
Rob is a pedophile.
>>untie shoes
2006-01-13, 8:33 PM #23
Meh, the excorcism thing is atleast funny.

Roll with it.
2006-01-13, 8:35 PM #24
Originally posted by Bill:
Rob is a pedophile.



Depends.

Are we talking the western view, or the normal view?

I've never done someone underage, I think.

Alcohol abuse makes you do or attempt to do things you don't always remember.
2006-01-13, 8:36 PM #25
Wow, I agree with Rob totally. In fact, he just described me as well.

I tell anyone I'm close to that I love them, it means nothing in THAT sense, but it is actual love. Furthermore, a mature fourteen year old and an immature 18 year old is fine by my standards, 4 years. I personally wouldn't do it, but if it's a mature relatonship, who cares? Now this roomate, I might question, but I really don't think age should be half the factor you people make it out to be.

I'm 17 and dating a 15 year old girl. She turns 16 next month, and I turn 18 july 6th. If that's wrong, I don't much care. I do, however, care about her. That's all that really matters.

Stop judging people [albiet, it sounds like your roommate is a bit... odd].

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2006-01-13, 8:36 PM #26
Hehe... I know... so does the department of health.

Haha. Kirb is a pedophile too.
>>untie shoes
2006-01-13, 8:51 PM #27
Pfft, my father is 11 years older than my mother and they are alright.

...however, I'm sure its highly illegal for a 14 year old to have any sort of "relations" with and 18 year old. If that girl seriously wants to be with that 18 year old, she should wait 4 years.
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2006-01-13, 9:01 PM #28
Wait, so Rob is Cloud's roommate?
Stuff
2006-01-13, 9:10 PM #29
Originally posted by kyle90:
Wait, so Rob is Cloud's roommate?

lawl
>>untie shoes
2006-01-13, 9:16 PM #30
4 years isnt so bad, once the girl hits about 17 or 18. But yeah, 18 and 14 isn't right at all. My friend James though is 21 and hangs out with a bunch of 15 year olds. Really creepy. Dude got a $500 fine though cause he gave a cigerette to a 15 year old, and can even face kidnapping charges since he picked one of them up without telling the parents. And also can't go to the mall for the next year.

And he still refuses to ID anyone he meets for age.
I can't think of anything to put here right now.
2006-01-13, 9:20 PM #31
Originally posted by Recusant:
He was 19 and he was dating a 15 year old. Her parents had banned them from seeing each other.

The real kicker was that her parents also happened to be his aunt and uncle

Reminds me of Jerry Lewis. But he was, like, 40. And she was 13.

Well, I've always been into the whole may-december thing (frankly, at this point, I'd settle for even some february-may, which sounds like it could be fun). I just like older women. If you knew the quality of younger women in my region, you'd be eye-ing the senior center too.
Just kidding!
They're really stuck up there.
And, to mangle up two quotes from the greatest movie ever, plus include a word I just learned earlier today:
Quote:
"And dude, pederast is not the prefered nomenclature. Ephebophile, please."

Seriously, 14+ is ephebophilia. <13 is pedophilia. Lolicon, Shotacon, etc.
*gets banned*

Moreover, cousin/cousin stuff is not, for the most part, considered incest. I think it's legal in most of the states in America for cousins to marry. In fact, I believe first cousins are considered the "cutoff point" for incest.
I know for a fact that the English Monarchy would collapse if it was illegal.
Of course, they only marry their cousins, they actually have all their kids and heirs with consorts nowadays.

It's hypocrital of me to enjoy older women and yet denounce older men banging preteens (sorry for that). But, I just can't really ingest it as a loving relationship. Probably some Oedipus stuff going on here, plus I think I'm just free-associating by now.
The whole sugar daddy thing always makes me morally sick. But then again, in fourty or fifty years I'm gonna be driving around in my shiny new red car with dye in my hair and a new leather jacket, bleach on my teeth and a bottle of viagra, and I'm gonna see some hot 20 year old and get my mid-life-crisis on shagadelic style, baby, yeah.
Not really.
Genetically speaking, I'm gonna have the same hair I have now in 80+ years.

So, in conclusion, I kinda hate your roomate. He's a predator. Now, I really don't know the whole set of circumstances, just your (posibly biased, nothing against you, it's just a law of science that you're gonna have bias) interpretation of the situation. But, I think I can readily state that he's in the wrong here. And, as she's 14, any intercourse would be illegal. If he can keep it in his pants 2 (or three, depending on the state) it might be okay, but then again that could very easily (and rightly) be construed as transporting a minor across state lines for sex or marriage, a federal offense. They nailed a lot of black people back in the 60's for this.

-Of course, I've been trolling sex-chat rooms since I was 13. Ignore anything you feel you must.
2006-01-13, 9:34 PM #32
14 years old is f***ing middle school, for crying out loud. This guy has serious problems.
2006-01-13, 9:43 PM #33
I guess I'm safe if I go with someone 4 years older or younger than me. Yay. Preferably older, though. I really hate dating immature women. They're infinitely annoying.
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2006-01-13, 10:16 PM #34
Originally posted by Jedigreedo:
There is no reasoning with morons in that situation

I read that as "There is no reasoning with mormons in that situation."
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2006-01-14, 7:17 AM #35
Originally posted by Emon:
I read that as "There is no reasoning with mormons in that situation."

I think that, yes, this would also be true. ;)
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2006-01-14, 9:37 AM #36
Originally posted by gbk:
To paraphrase AKPiggott; Kill the roommate and dump his body in a river.


Did I say that? Good advice.
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2006-01-14, 9:58 AM #37
is she virgin?
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2006-01-14, 10:41 AM #38
Not if she keeps dating Cloud's roommate.
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2006-01-14, 12:49 PM #39
Originally posted by Pagewizard_YKS:
14 years old is f***ing middle school, for crying out loud. This guy has serious problems.


I think 14 is Freshman in high school. But still.

I sure don't want to wake to someone giving phone sex at night.
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2006-01-14, 12:55 PM #40
Originally posted by money•bie:
Sounds like a butt-face


Hahaha
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