Ooh, the drama. I think sugarless might be right (I think other people made the same point too, but she said it the simplest, and she's the one that got me to notice this thread anyway). I still say we should randomly make fun of Kirby with references to Ashley. Uh... go vent by posting on NeS. Yes... <_< (I'm so not helpful here.)

Also:



As unfortunate as it may or may not be, Massassi is meant to be a G-rated place, PG at most. So yeah.

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Jon'C beat you to that.

YEA WELL YOURE A DAMN HIPPY

What was the purpose of posting this here? Were you looking for us all to tell you you were right? I mean, really, wtf? This is really kinda random and we all could have done without that. And I don't think you're right.

My take on this is...

To start, she opened the conversation poorly -- but Kirby, you didn't respect her; so I don't see how you deserve her respect. I find that word offensive, and I see quite well where she's coming from -- if you had said that stuff to me in person, wheelchair or not, I would have decked you. Seriously.

I'm not saying what she did after was justified, but... You deserved it, man.

Kirby, you are a jackass.

Kirby, you are a jackass.

Jirby, you are a kackass.


(but so is she :))

("Big Scary Guy?")

You people all need to relaaaxxxx..... What's done is done and is in the past. Nothin can be done to change it, but everythin can be done to forget it...

You both are at fault.



hehe

<3 genk

And kirbs, what she did wasn't right, but if I would have been her, instead of making you look like an ***, I would've ****ing punched you in the throat. Whether or not you think **** is offensive or not, she obviously didn't want to discuss it, you should just said "sorry for bothering you with this, we'll talk about it another time." Instead, you were a real jerk to her.

arguments about stupid things are retarded

i really dont get why was it necessary to post this chat log, i mean i dont think anyone cares, and besides that, it makes you look bad, very bad... i mean, the 1st part was ok, but then when you "tried" to apologise. Seriously, it makes the kittens cry.

i agree, she needs an ol'fashioned *****slaping, and so do you.


grow up.

i disagree! [gibberish-seizure-death-funeral]

Is that a challenge? >: )

Also, I agree with sugarless's assessment.

what nitropenguin said - no offense, but at the same time, offense intended.

Look at how she started talking to him. I mean, seriously, what the hell? I'd be offended if some chick randomly came up to me and started talking about her bleeding vagina. But kirb didn't get offended, and instead just made a joke back to her. Then she decides to get all pissy about it? That's somewhat stupid. Then she goes and tells a bunch of people that will have an effect in Kirbs and his girlfriends' lives. That's outright wrong.

On kirby's side of it, I don't see anything wrong with him using the word in the first place, due to the context of the conversation up to that point. However, during the second conversation, I do think he should have let it drop when she said she didn't want to debate it. A good line would have been something like, "Well whatever. I'm sorry you were offended. I don't appreciate you telling all those people and making me look like an ***, and I'd appreciate if you'd not do that in the future."

Then just let it drop. The fact that he continued is where he stepped over the line, I think.

And as far as Kirb's posting this here, I think it's not such a big deal. He warned in the subject that it wasn't the friendliest of situations, so people who would be offended could stay away.

As far is it being unimportant or no one caring; get over it. People make pointless threads here all the time. For example, who cares about the fact that I found a box with sticky crap all over it? That's just a stupid story with no bearing on anyone here, but no one complained about that. Why is this any different?

OK, after cooling off, I REALLY have to make some changes to my argument:

After stepping away from the situation, and reading my reactions and comments, I was pretty much looking for a fight. I REALLY should have laid off about 1/3rd of the way through the second discussion [The first discussion was a logical reaction from me based on my relationship with her, and the fact that I was half joking.] after she obviously apologized.

I initially IMed her simply to fix the fact that a handful of people dislike me because of the first convorsation. I lost that cause when I started debating the subject further. Granted, some of that is simply because of timing [Hiting enter at the same time, etc] and the fact that I was angry.

I'm going to apologize to her for pressing the situation, and ever using the word in the first place. I'm not going to bother with the girl any longer, simply because of the stupidity in her initial *****ing to begin with, but I definetly acted poorly.

Oh, and there's going to be people who don't read this post, so I'll put a message in the first post so I don't get people's "I only red 3 lines from the initial post, and..." arguments.

JediKirby

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Kirby, you're a jackass

Signature.

Mine's bigger.

That was my point. It's annoying.

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Change that signature in five minutes or you're banned.

As in much smaller text and no obnoxious colors.

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/me kicks Nesseight in the ****

Congrats on your probable banination. We'll all enjoy life without you.(I hope)

ROFL

In commemoration of Nesseight, before his custom title was BANNED in red letters, is was "Catch you on the flip side".

Oh, and <3 Roach.

Wanna play chicken with me? You're gonna lose every time.

Actually, I changed my mind on this part. The condition of your release is that you change your signature to follow the rules.

All has been resolved.