if im at my house I norm. take my shoes off just cuz i wanna be comfy, but if im going to go out soon again then i'll leave them on. If at a friends house I norm. leave them on, unless the friend requests that I take my shoes off at the door. Sometimes u know when people dont like shoes in the house. For example the guy im "talking" with, when I went to his house, I saw a whole bunch of shoes at the front door, so I asked if he'd like me to take off my shoes, to which he replied yes, and I did so.
Doesnt really bother me either way. but norm. my preferences is ... shoes off at my house to be comfy, shoes on at strangers house. meh
Its just not so big of a deal here in the states, I dont really see whats so impolite about leaving your shoes on, when the person doesnt have a white rug, or has tiels or something, I mean unless im wearing heels that could possibly scuff the tile, but honestly im a chick who loves sneakers unless im going out and absolutely have to dress up (im pretty low maintanence) and well now that i've given useless info noone cares about I shall end my rant and call it a night lol