For what it's worth, here is a cult checklist. There are many similar versions to it all over the web. Just google "cult checklist" and you'll find them. I think the list does a pretty good job outlining the characteristics of a cult.
1. The group displays excessively zealous and unquestioning commitment to its leader and (whether he is alive or dead) regards his belief system, ideology, and practices as the Truth, as law.
I would say this applies to Mormonism. Mormons are encouraged to follow their prophet, even if there is a discrepancy between his counsel and other sources of doctrine, such as scriptures. In other words, it's pretty widely accepted among Mormons that the prophet overrides all other beliefs and his commands must be carried out above all else.
2. Questioning, doubt, and dissent are discouraged or even punished.
This certainly applies to Mormonism. Questioning, dissent, and doubt are all healthy and should be encouraged. If no one questioned what they were told, we'd never get any closer to the truth. And the Mormon church certainly punishes its dissenters, even if they're fairly harmless, by excommunicating them. The Mormon church also expends inordinate amounts of energy attempting to whitewash its history. Many members don't know some of the most basic tidbits of their own history as a result.
3. Mind-altering practices (such as meditation, chanting, speaking in tongues, denunciation sessions, and debilitating work routines) are used in excess and serve to suppress doubts about the group and its leader(s).
This applies to Mormonism. Members are encouraged to get up in front of the entire congregation and affirm that they believe, even if they don't. Leaders tell their followers that if they get up and say that they believe, that they will actually start believing. But somehow, this comes across as a good thing to members, even though it is blatant brainwashing. The Mormon church also hands most of its members a debilitating work routine, giving them tons of assignments, meetings to attend, and all manner of activities to perform that suck up hours and hours every week.
4. The leadership dictates, sometimes in great detail, how members should think, act, and feel (for example, members must get permission to date, change jobs, marry—or leaders prescribe what types of clothes to wear, where to live, whether or not to have children, how to discipline children, and so forth).
This one greatly applies to Mormonism. Mormon leaders spend great amounts of time and energy dictating in sickening detail what kind of clothes are acceptable, how many piercings a girl may have and where they are acceptable, where to live, how many children to have, who to date and when, the manner in which one must be married, etc.
5. The group is elitist, claiming a special, exalted status for itself, its leader(s) and members (for example, the leader is considered the Messiah, a special being, an avatar—or the group and/or the leader is on a special mission to save humanity).
This definitely applies to Mormonism. Let's face it, Mormons think they are God's chosen people and that their leader is the prophet of God. They are encouraged to be unlike society because they think they're special.
6. The group has a polarized us-versus-them mentality, which may cause conflict with the wider society.
Definitely. They are very good at pitting themselves against greater society. Sometimes, whole lessons are devoted to explaining that we should be different from society, and if they start to blend in with society and follow societal fads, they discipline them for it.
7. The leader is not accountable to any authorities (unlike, for example, teachers, military commanders or ministers, priests, monks, and rabbis of mainstream religious denominations).
This one may apply less so than other cults, because I'm sure Hinckley is accountable to authorities. However, one thing I've always been irritated about is that he is not accountable to any of his members.
8. The group teaches or implies that its supposedly exalted ends justify whatever means it deems necessary. This may result in members' participating in behaviors or activities they would have considered reprehensible or unethical before joining the group (for example, lying to family or friends, or collecting money for bogus charities).
I can honestly say this one does not apply to Mormons. That I've seen, anyway. Most of them try to be pretty genuinely ethical and upstanding.
9. The leadership induces feelings of shame and/or guilt iin order to influence and/or control members. Often, this is done through peer pressure and subtle forms of persuasion.
YES. They have guilt down to a science. Even if you're the purest teenager there ever was, they'd still find a way to guilt-trip you. They employ bully tactics, forcing young members to submit to interviews with local leaders where personal information is expected to be shared about sexual issues. The guilt is unbearable at times, and as a result, the suicide rate among Mormons is quite high (so is antidepressant use; Utah has twice the national rate).
10. Subservience to the leader or group requires members to cut ties with family and friends, and radically alter the personal goals and activities they had before joining the group.
It does require many changes. No drinking, no smoking, you're expected to attend three hours of church each Sunday, and you're encouraged by subtlety to stop socializing with nonmembers.
11. The group is preoccupied with bringing in new members.
Certainly. Mormons have roughly 50,000 missionaries working around the world at any given time. They are adament proselytizers.
12. The group is preoccupied with making money.
Yes. Each member is expected to pay 10% of his or her income to the church. Yet, the church doesn't even let them see how they spend it. They could be using it for anything.
13. Members are expected to devote inordinate amounts of time to the group and group-related activities.
Yes. I've already explained this.
14. Members are encouraged or required to live and/or socialize only with other group members.
Yes. I've already explained this as well.
15. The most loyal members (the “true believers”) feel there can be no life outside the context of the group. They believe there is no other way to be, and often fear reprisals to themselves or others if they leave (or even consider leaving) the group.
Yep. I've been there, done that.
14 out of 15. I'd consider it a cult.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009