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Sex Ed
2007-12-04, 4:26 PM #81
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
I'm suggesting that we stop promoting sexual activity, except in case of mature, safe adults.


In that case you're going to have to do away with MTV, half of Hollywood, most prime time television, etc. Though I don't necessarily think that's a bad idea.

Teens like to act out, and they get their giggles out of doing things their parents don't like. If sex is made a big issue then it will only encourage using sex as a means of "rebellion."

The argument here is whether or not abstinence-only education is the only sex ed that the US government should be promoting. Sarn, I would be happy with what you propose about saying "if you do this, then here is how to stay safe". That isn't the direction the current administration and Congress are moving in, though.

Oh, and to all of the people who say, "people will figure it out on their own:" People don't figure it out on their own, and in the process of not figuring it out they make more people who aren't going to figure it out down the road. Thats why we have education, to learn from those who have come before us without having to make all of the same mistakes.

If you think things should go back to the way they were x centuries ago, then you're gonna have to get rid of things like the birth control pill. It was a huge part of the women's lib movement, because women finally had control over reproduction. The pill allows people to have sex without having to worry about getting pregnant. Any move to past ways would have to eliminate the pill, thereby reintroducing the threat of pregnancy.
"Flowers and a landscape were the only attractions here. And so, as there was no good reason for coming, nobody came."
2007-12-04, 4:28 PM #82
Originally posted by Bobbert:
Oh, and to all of the people who say, "people will figure it out on their own:" People don't figure it out on their own, and in the process of not figuring it out they make more people who aren't going to figure it out down the road.

While spreading diseases.
omnia mea mecum porto
2007-12-04, 4:40 PM #83
Quote:
What's this sex thing?


It's when you like a girl so you take your clothes off and look at each other.
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2007-12-04, 5:20 PM #84
Just girls? :(
2007-12-04, 5:25 PM #85
That'd be sodomy.
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2007-12-04, 5:51 PM #86
Originally posted by Tracer:
It's when you like a girl so you take your clothes off and look at each other.


Then the female dislodges her jaw and eats you, whole.

It's pretty awesome, I've literally had hundreds of girlfriends.
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2007-12-04, 7:19 PM #87
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
True, but I'm not saying otherwise.


Originally posted by Obi_Kwiet:
This is 100% irrelevant. Why would you even bring it up. Abstinence, and sex ed, will have no effect on that stuff.


[quote=Sarn Cadrill]Bottom line is abstinance is the **ONLY** garunteed method of prevent STI's or unwanted pregnancy.[/quote]

Thanks for playing.
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2007-12-04, 7:35 PM #88
C'mon, you know he's was referring to the spread of STIs in the context of sex. You're just nitpicking about his phrasing.
2007-12-04, 9:28 PM #89
they've been nitpicking my phrasing this whole thread, while avoiding my actual arguments. Thus, I'm done.

Thanks for playing.
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2007-12-05, 6:45 AM #90
Originally posted by Sarn_Cadrill:
they've been nitpicking my phrasing this whole thread, while avoiding my actual arguments.

Welcome to Massassi!
2007-12-05, 6:47 AM #91
Originally posted by Obi_Kwiet:
C'mon, you know he's was referring to the spread of STIs in the context of sex. You're just nitpicking about his phrasing.


A big part of arguing your own point of view is in the phrasing. If you can't properly convey your argument then maybe you shouldn't be arguing.
2007-12-05, 6:56 AM #92
Originally posted by Sarn:
I never said that liberal media causes high pregnancy rates


Originally posted by Sarn:
So, media says "Sex is good." People have more sex. More sex causes more pregnancies/STI's.


Liberal media = more sex
more sex = more pregnancy problems

THUS

liberal media = more pregnancy problems

THAT'S EXACTLY THE ARGUMENT THAT YOU ARE MAKING, SARN.

Originally posted by Sarn:
Now as sexuality becomes less taboo and more generally accepted... these things are suddenly a problem

How can there SUDDENLY be a problem if things have been improving for fifty years?

Originally posted by Sarn:
Second, I *NEVER* suggested that "sex ed" was even a problem. Only that it wasn't a solution.

Originally posted by Sarn:
Originally posted by Wuss:
Okay. Now I'm lost. First you say, sex education is not the solution.

I never said that.


Uh.

Originally posted by Sarn:
we should have "Sex is dangerous. The best way to avoid reprecussions is to avoid having sex altogher. However, if you choose to have sex, here are the steps you can take to minimize the consequences."

There a term for what you are describing, its called 'sex education.'

Originally posted by Sarn:
Originally posted by Wuss:
Then you say we should have sex education in schools.

Not exactly.


Okay.
2007-12-05, 6:59 AM #93
Originally posted by Rob:
A big part of arguing your own point of view is in the phrasing. If you can't properly convey your argument then maybe you shouldn't be arguing.


But the point was, his meaning was obvious; they were simply pointing out a technicality in place of making an actual argument. No reasonable person would ever look at what he said in context and come to the conclusion that he thought that sex is the only way to spread STIs.
2007-12-05, 7:14 AM #94
I dunno, his argument sounds pretty downs.


But maybe you have to be a tard to understand one.
2007-12-06, 10:19 AM #95
I thought this was relevent:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/12/05/AR2007120501208.html?hpid=sec-health
2007-12-06, 10:40 AM #96
holy **** those are insanely high rates...

In my country it's around 4. That's among the lowest in the world. And our sex ed is damn 'liberal'.
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2007-12-06, 10:59 AM #97
Huh? The current rate according to that is %4.1.
2007-12-08, 4:49 AM #98
I don't know where you're seeing that.

I'm talking about that second graph. I'm seeing 73 births per 1000 women aged 18-19, 41.9 births for age 15-19 and 22 for age 15-17.

Ah, you're talking percentages.

Sorry. Anyway, I wasn't.
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2007-12-08, 8:46 AM #99
41.9 births per thousand woman is 4.19%.
2007-12-08, 9:56 AM #100
You meant 4 as in... 4 births per 1000 teens?
2007-12-08, 6:24 PM #101
Re-reading the opening post got me thinking that methods of birth control shouldn't even be part of the education. The sex organs, physical relationships, disease, pregnancy, and fetal development should but why go beyond that? It makes sense to explain what the parts are, how they work, and what can result.
"I would rather claim to be an uneducated man than be mal-educated and claim to be otherwise." - Wookie 03:16

2007-12-08, 6:43 PM #102
...but it doesn't make sense to teach kids safe sex?
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2007-12-08, 6:43 PM #103
Thats like explaining all about personal hygene. But not telling someone what soap is.

Or saying: If you crash on a bicycle you might get hurt!
And then not informing them that a helmet will help prevent that.

And if I ever found out someone withheld useful safety information like that from me I would promptly call them a douchefag.

o.0
2007-12-08, 7:02 PM #104
Originally posted by Wookie06:
Re-reading the opening post got me thinking that methods of birth control shouldn't even be part of the education. The sex organs, physical relationships, disease, pregnancy, and fetal development should but why go beyond that? It makes sense to explain what the parts are, how they work, and what can result.


Good idea. Teach them how sex works then leave them to their own devices. Brilliant.
Pissed Off?
2007-12-08, 11:04 PM #105
Originally posted by Avenger:
Good idea. Teach them how sex works then leave them to their own devices. Brilliant.


Left to their own devices, they will already figure out how it works. No need to teach anything by that logic.

Originally posted by Emon:
...but it doesn't make sense to teach kids safe sex?


There is no such thing as safe sex except in the minority of circumstances where there is abstinence or monogamy.

Originally posted by Greenboy:
Thats like explaining all about personal hygene. But not telling someone what soap is.

Or saying: If you crash on a bicycle you might get hurt!
And then not informing them that a helmet will help prevent that.

And if I ever found out someone withheld useful safety information like that from me I would promptly call them a douchefag.


How ignorant. I said the consequences of having sex should be taught. Pregnancy and disease. You must have misread my post.
"I would rather claim to be an uneducated man than be mal-educated and claim to be otherwise." - Wookie 03:16

2007-12-08, 11:07 PM #106
Ha! I didn't know there really was abstinence only sex ed stuff, I thought that was just something Family Guy made up for hilarities sake.
Never encountered such a thing in Australia, though I suppose we might have them somewhere.
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2007-12-08, 11:09 PM #107
Woah... you don't want them taught about birth control?
That's idiotic, they are going to try sex, it's going to happen... the most important thing sex ed can do is teach about safety.
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2007-12-08, 11:11 PM #108
Originally posted by Obi_Kwiet:
Welcome to Massassi!


And you are one of the worst offenders of that particular annoyance.

As for Sarn claiming that sex is suddenly a problem, that's just plain ridiculous. I'm fairly sure I've seen multiple studies saying that the rate of sex hasn't changed much since the 50's.
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2007-12-08, 11:15 PM #109
Originally posted by Wookie06:
Re-reading the opening post got me thinking that methods of birth control shouldn't even be part of the education. The sex organs, physical relationships, disease, pregnancy, and fetal development should but why go beyond that? It makes sense to explain what the parts are, how they work, and what can result.


.............

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2007-12-08, 11:17 PM #110
Originally posted by Wookie06:
There is no such thing as safe sex except in the minority of circumstances where there is abstinence or monogamy.


Just because you only poke one person doesn't mean it's safe. I see someone was denied sex ed himself.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2007-12-09, 12:13 AM #111
I hate religious debates.
2007-12-09, 1:15 AM #112
Originally posted by Wookie06:
How ignorant. I said the consequences of having sex should be taught. Pregnancy and disease. You must have misread my post.


I misread nothing. I am making an analogy here. Try to comprehend.

You want to tell them about the negative effects of sex. But not tell them how to prevent them. That is all kinds of stupid.

o.0
2007-12-09, 11:15 AM #113
Originally posted by Vincent Valentine:
I hate religious debates.


This issue should be a logic debate, not a religious one. Any religious morals in sex education should be confined to Sunday School.
"Flowers and a landscape were the only attractions here. And so, as there was no good reason for coming, nobody came."
2007-12-09, 11:18 AM #114
Originally posted by Wookie06:
There is no such thing as safe sex except in the minority of circumstances where there is abstinence or monogamy.

How is using a condom and/or birth control not safe? Because they fail to do their job 0.1% of the time? So do airbags and anti-lock brakes. Are those unsafe, too?
Bassoon, n. A brazen instrument into which a fool blows out his brains.
2007-12-09, 1:16 PM #115
I'm just amuzed that he thinks monogomy is some kind of protection against anything. Yeah it lessens your risk somewhat, but your wife could still have something.
"it is time to get a credit card to complete my financial independance" — Tibby, Aug. 2009
2007-12-09, 2:11 PM #116
Your wife could also be ****ing twelve guys behind your back. It doesn't really prevent anything.
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2007-12-09, 2:15 PM #117
Originally posted by Freelancer:
And you are one of the worst offenders of that particular annoyance.


Yeah, sure. :rolleyes: Bickering with rob doesn't count.
2007-12-09, 2:17 PM #118
Originally posted by Emon:
Your wife could also be ****ing twelve guys behind your back. It doesn't really prevent anything.


Then it isn't monogamy :specops:
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2007-12-09, 2:26 PM #119
When I was in sexed they told us a story about a christian couple who had been supposedly monogamous. Then they both got AIDs. Turns out that the guy had been gay and having unprotected sex with guys for most of the marriage, even though they had several children and had been up there in the church. >_>

o.0
2007-12-09, 2:40 PM #120
Also http://www.thebody.com/content/art2418.html

"Teenage birth rate per 1,000 births
* Sweden -- 7
* France -- 9
* Canada -- 20
* Great Britain -- 31
* United States -- 49"

Googling around shows that in some sub-Saharan African countries the rate is around 140 per 1000 and in South Korea its 2.9 per 1000.

In Sweden sex ed has been a part of the mandatory coursework for schools since 1955.
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