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The Biblical Case for Gay Marriage
2008-12-08, 10:18 AM #1
http://www.newsweek.com/id/172653

Very interesting read, I thought.
2008-12-08, 10:30 AM #2
If I wasn't all tired from work I'd've seen it through. As it is, I still agree with you anyway babycakes.

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2008-12-08, 10:39 AM #3
i did as well. and it mentions every biblical argument i thought of on my own, and added a few in i had not.
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2008-12-08, 10:56 AM #4
I think the first page did a good job of bringing up points not usually made and that I hadn't thought of, but the rest of it was the same old stuff I've heard and thought before (don't misunderstand -- the "same old stuff" really should have been enough to begin with for people).
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2008-12-08, 11:05 AM #5
Huh, cool.

I should probably show this to my parents.
2008-12-08, 11:12 AM #6
<3 Vin and all my gay friends.

I think the arguments made for homosexuality in this article are about as flimsy as the ones most Christians make against it. I've been raised pretty fundamental, but I'm not a homophobe in any sense. I still lean towards not supporting the homosexual lifestyle based on the morals that I have been raised on; however, gay marriage is one topic where I lean towards creating equal rights. Laws should not be based on a particular religion's principles to begin with.

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2008-12-08, 11:39 AM #7
well, their arguments for biblical support for gay marriage are very... very week. they are skirting around issues looking for inconsistencies between old testament "marriages and families" and what most fundamental Christians today think a "family should be. all the while they are kind of ignoring the 800 lb gorilla in the middle of the room... in Leviticus it expressly decries homosexuality. however no... it does not specifically say a gay couple cannot get married.
and this is actually one of the reasons i feel that "religious" and "civil" aspects of marriage should not be as closely tied together as they are.
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2008-12-08, 11:40 AM #8
Originally posted by Vegiemaster:
Laws should not be based on a particular religion's principles to begin with.


also. this^
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2008-12-08, 11:45 AM #9
The thing I like best about the article is how it completely deflates the idea of "traditional marriage," which is the buzzword conservatives loves to throw around.
2008-12-08, 11:52 AM #10
That is certainly true. For instance, Old Testament tradition was for women to be married to ~35 year old men as soon as they started menstruating.
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2008-12-08, 12:40 PM #11
Originally posted by Vegiemaster:
That is certainly true. For instance, Old Testament tradition was for women to be married to ~35 year old men as soon as they started menstruating.


Might sound odd to us today, but if we go back a couple thousand years, this was the normal life everybody loved.

On a side note.... the image that says: Gay Is The New Black

So... what they are trying to say is that they don't have the same rights as white and black men do?

Also, isn't being gay, a sexual preference, like a preference of my favorite food? Unlike being black which is genetic?

My view is that gay people don't want equal rights, they want special rights.
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2008-12-08, 12:52 PM #12
****storm in:
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2008-12-08, 1:15 PM #13
Originally posted by Darth_Alran:
well, their arguments for biblical support for gay marriage are very... very week. they are skirting around issues looking for inconsistencies between old testament "marriages and families" and what most fundamental Christians today think a "family should be. all the while they are kind of ignoring the 800 lb gorilla in the middle of the room... in Leviticus it expressly decries homosexuality. however no... it does not specifically say a gay couple cannot get married.
and this is actually one of the reasons i feel that "religious" and "civil" aspects of marriage should not be as closely tied together as they are.


Doesn't Leviticus also include a lot of other directives that no one follows any more? You can't just pick and choose which ones you want to base policy on.
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2008-12-08, 1:37 PM #14
Originally posted by Vin:
The thing I like best about the article is how it completely deflates the idea of "traditional marriage," which is the buzzword conservatives loves to throw around.


I always laugh when people talk about traditional marriage and then warn that if the gays get married, polygamy will be next. There's no marriage more traditional than polygamy!

Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
On a side note.... the image that says: Gay Is The New Black

So... what they are trying to say is that they don't have the same rights as white and black men do?


Yes.

Quote:
Also, isn't being gay, a sexual preference, like a preference of my favorite food? Unlike being black which is genetic?


You're conflating two different meanings of "preference." If your favorite food isn't available, you'll eat something else. If a gay man can't find other men to have sex or a relationship with, he won't say "Oh well, I guess I'll do women instead."

Quote:
My view is that gay people don't want equal rights, they want special rights.


What special rights are those?
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2008-12-08, 1:41 PM #15
I'm glad SF_Gold is back, logic and human decency needs its punching bag.
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2008-12-08, 1:58 PM #16
don't take the bible too seriously... the people who wrote that **** were all high
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2008-12-08, 2:16 PM #17
If conservatives actually gave a **** about the "sanctity of marriage" they'd stop gay-bashing and work on passing constitutional amendments to ban divorce.

Jesus on homosexuality: "..."

Jesus on divorce: "Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery." - Luke 16:18

I'm looking at you, Ronald Reagan, John McCain, Newt Gingrich, Fred Thompson, Bob Barr, Rush Limbaugh, and so on and so forth.

Glenn Greenwald summed it up pretty well when he wrote:
Quote:
[Former Speaker of the House]Newt Gingrich argued that Republicans should remind the electorate that "Republicans are right to favor traditional American conservative social values, and the left is completely wrong to put San Francisco left-wing values third in line to be President by electing Nancy Pelosi (Calif.) to speaker of the House."


Nancy Pelosi's "San Francisco left-wing values":

Upon graduation in 1962, she married Georgetown University graduate Paul Pelosi. Pelosi and her husband, Paul Pelosi, a native of San Francisco, have five children: Nancy Corinne, Christine, Jacqueline, Paul and Alexandra, and five grandchildren.


Newt Gingrich's "traditional American conservative social values":

In 1981, Newt dumped his first wife, Jackie Battley, for Marianne, wife number 2, while Jackie was in the hospital undergoing cancer treatment. Marianne and Newt divorced in December, 1999 after Marianne found out about Newt's long-running affair with Callista Bisek, his one-time congressional aide. Gingrich asked Marianne for the divorce by phoning her on Mother's Day, 1999. Newt (57) and Callista (34) were married in a private ceremony in a hotel courtyard in Alexandria, Va. in August, 2000.

He famously visited Jackie in the hospital where she was recovering from surgery for uterine cancer to discuss details of the divorce. He later resisted paying alimony and child support for his two daughters, causing a church to take up a collection. For all of his talk of religious faith and the importance of God, Gingrich left his congregation over the pastor's criticism of his divorce.

Those who repeatedly dump their wives for new and better versions, and run around engaging in the sleaziest and most unrestrained sexual behavior, are stalwart defenders of traditional American and Christian values. Those who stay married to their original spouse for their entire lives and raise a family together are godless, radical heathens who represent "San Francisco values" and seek to undermine the country's moral fiber and Christian traditions.
2008-12-08, 2:35 PM #18
he is strictly separating business and pleasure
2008-12-08, 3:05 PM #19
Well it boils down to this, we humans have no arguments against allowing other people to do whatever the hell they want, as long as it doesn't affect a 3rd party.

I find homosexuality morally wrong, that's my view. I also think that homosexuality is a preference that for whatever reasons an individual has learned or accepted, and that it can be changed, perhaps not as simple as changing ice cream preferences, but not impossible either.

I won't say much more than that, I am finished here.
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2008-12-08, 3:25 PM #20
Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
blah blah blah


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2008-12-08, 4:00 PM #21
Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
I am finished here.


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2008-12-08, 4:17 PM #22
Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
Well it boils down to this, we humans have no arguments against allowing other people to do whatever the hell they want, as long as it doesn't affect a 3rd party.

I find homosexuality morally wrong, that's my view. I also think that homosexuality is a preference that for whatever reasons an individual has learned or accepted, and that it can be changed, perhaps not as simple as changing ice cream preferences, but not impossible either.

I won't say much more than that, I am finished here.



Quote:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conversion_therapy#Mainstream_scientific_community_perspectives

* American Academy Of Paediatrics ("Therapy directed specifically at changing sexual orientation is contraindicated, since it can provoke guilt and anxiety while having little or no potential for achieving changes in orientation.")

* American Counseling Association ("Research does not support conversion therapy as an effective treatment modality.... There is potential for harm when clients participate in conversion therapy.")

* American Psychiatric Association ("In the last four decades, 'reparative' therapists have not produced any rigorous scientific research to substantiate their claims of cure. Until there is such research available, APA recommends that ethical practitioners refrain from attempts to change individuals' sexual orientation, keeping in mind the medical dictum to first, do no harm.")

* American Psychological Association ("Mental health professional organizations call on their members to respect a person’s (client’s) right to self determination")

* Joint coalition of health organizations ("[H]ealth and mental health professional organizations do not support efforts to change young people's sexual orientation through 'reparative therapy' and have raised serious concerns about its potential to do harm.)



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2008-12-08, 4:42 PM #23
Seemed like a weak argument. (the article)
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2008-12-08, 5:02 PM #24
I didn't read it, but what I get from the highlights, they thought homosexuality is a sickness?

Like I said its a preference, just like people who smoke and don't smoke. People who smoke and leave, always have the urge to want to go back and smoke, why? Cause the like it, cause they learned to like it. Yeah, its a habbit and what not, but sex is a habbit for some people.

Its a matter of self discipline and will power.

Now I am truly finished here, I have work to do.
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2008-12-08, 6:12 PM #25
Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
I didn't read it


Obviously.
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2008-12-08, 6:21 PM #26
Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
I didn't read it, but what I get from the highlights, they thought homosexuality is a sickness?

Like I said its a preference, just like people who smoke and don't smoke. People who smoke and leave, always have the urge to want to go back and smoke, why? Cause the like it, cause they learned to like it. Yeah, its a habbit [sic] and what not, but sex is a habbit [sic] for some people.

Its a matter of self discipline and will power.

Now I am truly finished here, I have work to do.


I'm sorry, but you're a ****ing moron. Are you suggesting that homosexuals are undisciplined and weak? You're comparing homosexuality to smoking and ice cream? How do you learn an attraction? Especially since all homosexuals are born from heterosexual parents.
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2008-12-08, 6:27 PM #27
Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
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2008-12-08, 6:31 PM #28
Originally posted by mb:
go go go!

nope.
2008-12-08, 7:12 PM #29
Quote:
"Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery." - Luke 16:18


There are caveats for certain types of abusive or adulterous behavior, but this really underlines an important attitude toward relationships that a LOT of people could benefit from. What you need to ask yourself, though, is where in the Bible does it tell Christians to use the government enforce morality? The government exists to impose order, not to make people follow some moral path that is inconsistent with their religion or world view. The Bible even makes that pretty freaking clear. Paul doesn't hang around and whine about how Christians aren't doing a good enough job forcing everyone else to pretend act like Christians. The point is, and always has been, that people should be convinced to follow Christ. What the hell kind of good does it do to force a bunch of people to follow a moral code that they don't believe in? The fact that non-Christians don't behave like Christians in every way, is not the issue. It's just the obvious.

The fact that so many evangelicals today miss this painfully obvious point is just another reason that I give humanity a gigantic face-palm.


Also, the writer of the original article did a lot of typing for the amount of research he bothered to do.
2008-12-08, 7:36 PM #30
Originally posted by Wuss:
If conservatives actually gave a **** about the "sanctity of marriage" they'd stop gay-bashing and work on passing constitutional amendments to ban divorce.

Jesus on homosexuality: "..."

Jesus on divorce: "Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery." - Luke 16:18

I'm looking at you, Ronald Reagan, John McCain, Newt Gingrich, Fred Thompson, Bob Barr, Rush Limbaugh, and so on and so forth.

Glenn Greenwald summed it up pretty well when he wrote:

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2008-12-08, 10:15 PM #31
Zombie Jeebus also said "Love thy neighbour". I just stick to that one and everything else kinda takes care of itself.
2008-12-08, 10:23 PM #32
That one can kind of break the adultary thing.
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2008-12-08, 10:28 PM #33
Just a couple quick points...

SF_Gold: You're confusing homosexuality with homosexual behavior. Of course gays can change their behavior - anyone can. Gays can (and many do, often with terrible results) marry the opposite sex and have families out of a sense of moral or religious obligation. But that doesn't make them straight. If you want to carry on with the food example, I hate peanut butter. If I wanted do, I could eat nothing but peanut butter sandwiches for the rest of my life, but I doubt I would ever really like it. By the same token, you could swear off women and switch to men - but it would never feel right and you would never be happy. Assuming you're completely heterosexual, of course.

As for "Gay is the New Black," it's simply a comparison of the current gay rights movement to the black rights movements of the 60's. I personally think it's a dumb analogy, but some people like it.

One last thing: Don't ever compare being gay to being a smoker. It's not only a completely ridiculous and fallacious comparison, but it's also fairly insulting.
2008-12-08, 10:34 PM #34
Originally posted by Vin:
One last thing: Don't ever compare being gay to being a smoker. It's not only a completely ridiculous and fallacious comparison, but it's also fairly insulting.


how is it insulting... both gays and smokers love their fags
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2008-12-08, 10:55 PM #35
:gonk:
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2008-12-08, 10:58 PM #36
http://news.yahoo.com/s/politico/20081208/pl_politico/16305
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2008-12-09, 1:07 AM #37
Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
Like I said its a preference, just like people who smoke and don't smoke.

Can you, oh, back that up? Maybe with that psychological and physiological research you've been doing?

All, and I mean all credible studies show homosexuality to be almost entirely genetic, with some environmental factors (as shown by twin studies). Additionally, homosexuality is very common in the animal kingdom.
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2008-12-09, 3:23 AM #38
Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
I didn't read it.


Just read what he quoted, it's just a few lines. Are you that lazy? How can you even argue when you're not reading other people's arguments?


Originally posted by SF_GoldG_01:
Like I said its a preference, just like people who smoke and don't smoke.


You're just ignoring what people say and then you spout your own silly opinion without anything to back it up. You're just saying what you're thinking but you don't have any arguments.
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2008-12-09, 9:17 AM #39
Originally posted by Bobbert:
Doesn't Leviticus also include a lot of other directives that no one follows any more? You can't just pick and choose which ones you want to base policy on.


There's a big difference between the Old and New Testaments. There's civil, ceremonial, and moral law. This is not OT Israel. The civil and ceremonial is specifically given to the Old Testament Theocracy/monarchy of Israel. The moral law was given to Israel as well, but was universal and did not relate to the differences between the two testaments.
2008-12-09, 9:30 AM #40
Originally posted by Bobbert:
Doesn't Leviticus also include a lot of other directives that no one follows any more? You can't just pick and choose which ones you want to base policy on.


hey, look... im not saying i agree with it, im just saying it IS in there. and given that, it is... stupid, at best, to say the bible makes a good case for homosexual marriage.
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