Well then I am afraid I can't love people because I haven't allowed, in a long time, that strong compelling emotion which clouds all logic, makes you look like an ***, and leads to bad decisions, run my life.

That's awesome, suggylez. You just made me want to have sex with an older woman even more.

You're a moron. That is all. You have the mindset of a child. I remember when I was a kid and I tried to explain love as something that made sense. You don't rationalize it, and you sure as hell don't hide from it. It isn't about making good and bad decisions, it's about having that chance at attaining something greater than you know, at feeling more complete than you ever could. Everyone knows that love is a gamble, but people don't go sheltering themselves from it. I think you have some growing up to do.

Uh...

Short: I don't know what Gold is talking about. Things are as they should be.

Long: Gold, seriously: what? The point of a relationship in its early stages is to get to know someone. I don't know where you're going with your background checks and whatnot... And, apparently, we're supposed to ignore emotions, even though they're the reason we have relationships?

Don't try to understand it. You're better off.

And... suggylez?

I'm just saying, that you shouldn't let emotions cloud your judgement, take over. Love can make you do good things, and bad things. I've done both in the name of love.

@ SAJN, I feel very complete as it is. I love my girlfriend, and we've been together for a while now, but were both very rational, which is the reason I believe were still together to this day. We've gone through VERY hard times, in fact were going through a hard time right now, but things are getting better, and were holding on.

You have to be rational to last, or even the smallest problem could undo everything.

I dunno it just came out. How about El No Sugarino then? Or maybe Your Sugarlessness.

hahaha suggy's fine, but the lez bit sounds like you're questioning my sexuality.

Though Your Sugarlessness has a bit of a ring to it, I must say

Sounds to me like your questioning some old lady sex...

...

Or not at all. You know, whatever.

Oh yeah, that's not how I meant it though. Besides, porn has proven time and time again that it's okay to be a lesbian.

do it. i'm dating someone 16 years older than me.

Don't do it, Lee will arrest you. Also, girls of that age tend to be unstable.

Ayem at that age they are awfully unstable.

Infact I dated a 19 year old when I was 25... I realised she was nuts seconds into it and poltiely called it off.

I was in a similar situation a little over a year ago. Girls (not women) of that age change their mind and personality every couple of months because they aren't even sure who they are yet. It's a waste of your time to really persue this, even if it may be fun for a while.

They are unstable at any age.

Me I just like to f***

It's weird to me that at 20 you're interested in a 16-year-old to begin with, but given that that's the case, my immediate reaction is "Why the hell not?" The fact that something might end badly is no reason not to enjoy it while it lasts, right? You're not breaking any laws, so what's the worst that can happen?

Vegiebaby with unwanted ex-girlfriend.

Vegie says he won't be having sex with her, but even if that's not the case any relationship carries the same risk.

Sounds like you have a really good friend there. That's not a relationship. That's a friendship under the guise of a relationship to make you both feel better about it. Not a good way to have a relationship, really.

I'm pretty sure my thoughts were cleared up after the about halfway down the first page, but this thread has turned quite hilarious. Please, carry on.

Yes, which is probably the best thing, no matter what happens.


Yeah, you're right. I just tend to sympathize for women more. Men usually can move on a lot easier, in my opinion, but I suppose it's all dependent on the situation.


Sorry if it came across that way. I only meant to look out for her.


I doubt they would mind at all, but they'd probably prefer if we wait up a bit.

Anyways, thanks for all the advice guys. Like I said above, it's helped clear up most of the fog. I'm going to have to agree with Sug, Jin, and the others about maturity. She's got a good head on her shoulders, but she still has a good many years to figure everything out. People change a lot before they've really stepped into adulthood, so I don't plan to pursue anything romantic.

Another question though: do you guys think I should talk to her about this? Honestly, I'm not sure wether she's thinking, "Okay, we'll be good friends for now," or "We're just in love secretly because I'm too young."


Again, thanks.

This is a really random and offtopic post, but I guess I'm bored or something because I tried omitting every third word from this paragraph. Here's the result:

Anyways, thanks all the guys. Like said above, helped clear most of fog. I'm to have agree with Jin, and others about. She's got good head her shoulders, she still a good years to everything out. Change a before they've stepped into, so I plan to anything romantic.

Yeah...it doesn't really make any sense. Moving on.

/me mansexes Kroko

How do you like them vegies?

I'll cut my hair when you take a bath... with a toaster, and stop coming here.

i hear high school girls will let you go *** to mouth

But you never go *** to mouth!

except in the heat of the moment

Tell that to any girl I've liked.

Go stock the napkin holders.

That's not universally true. I've met some 16 year olds that are more mature than most people will ever be.

I've never really liked the whole "there's other fish in the sea" thing. You should date someone because you know someone you want to date. Finding someone to date because you want to date just seems really eh...

As long as her parents are ok with it I think the 16 year old thing could be ok, as long as you can be certain it won't be a sexual relationship.

I know love is love, but damn.

it's great.

I wasn't saying it was wrong, illegitimate or anything, just damn.

yeah i told my parents about it tonight. that went over well. =\

I like these threads full of enlightened people. They have all the answers, they understand all the components of the system fully.

It's why we were allowed on the internet.

Presumably the trouble there is that she wouldn't have enjoyed it while it lasted either.



If this is not the best thing that anyone has said in this thread, it is at least one of the best.

It's hard to say that you can enjoy any 15 second period of time...