Obi, I think what you're arguing is exactly what we do if on a subconcious level. If all Americans had cultivated an emotional attachment to those that died, we'd have accomplished nothing, and our country would now be in huge turmoil (ok fine it is in turmoil, but not for that reason). We're not saying every American should have gone into mourning, wearing black clothes and sitting around crying and doing nothing. But a moment to pray collectively for the souls involved (or whatever your religious equivilent may be) and recognize the horror of the situation is quite appropriate.
Somewhat along those lines, how does everyone feel about 9/11 being made a national holiday? I am personally against the idea. On the surface, I agree with having a day we can use to officially remember and recognize, even mourn the tragedy. However, I am also quite confident that if such a day were to exist, it would be used as no more than an excuse to get out of work and get drunk for the majority of Americans (ie Veterns Day, Memorial Day, etc), and such a cheapening of the event would really tick me off.
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