I whole-heartedly disagree with Kieran Horn's approach (and srsly Kieran Horn??? Where the hell have you been??). This basically screams "I'm a boring, uninteresting person." and "I just want to be friends with you." Yes, I suppose it's the "Safe" way to keep from alienating her and while it almost guarantees you'll see her again, it does nothing to establish your intentions as future boyfriend. In my opinion, you have to be *slightly* more edgy than that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with talking politics or religion if she brings it up. And if you two have different opinions, that's not the end of the world. (I'm not saying you should be pushing a political agenda or get into a heated debate or anything. But having your own opinion and not being afraid to talk about it shows that you have brains and balls.) Additionally, you need to treat her in such a way that she knows you intend to take her out in a romantic fashion in the future, (ie guiding her through doorways with your hand on the small of her back, opening and holding doors for her (including the car door if you're driving her anywhere, etc.). If things are going well towards the end of the evening try holding her hand, maybe go in for the kiss. Now I'm not saying you should be pushy or anything. If she doesn't want the attention then don't give it, but you have to be able to judge where she's at and whether your advances will be welcomed (and as long as you don't screw anything up early on, they should be welcome or she'd not have agreed to go out with you anyway). It's all little stuff like where does she sit in relation to you at the bar/table, how long does her eyes linger on you when she looks your way, if she's sitting near you does she have her hands folded into her lap, unaccessable, or up on the table in range of your own hands?)
Anyway, there's my advice. DONT take it and be an ***. You gotta find the line between "I'm a boring person who wants to be your friend" and "I'm an over-bearing jealous boyfriend even though I just met you last week."
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