I didn't read most of these posts, sorry, but I did want to pop in here and say that the video posted does actually make some good points, and it also, in some of the cases, makes a lot of noise about nothing. But it should be noted that advertising, in particular, leads the way in completely mocking (for lack of a better word) the entire male gender. It's difficult to find even 1 ad involving men that doesn't make them look ridiculous, stupid, or otherwise unflattering. It's acceptable to do so, but if ads characterized women that way, there would be an uproar.
So like I said, some decent points, but a lot of it was bull as well. He doesn't take into account other factors - especially the news footage of the submarine. The guy being interviewed was obviously a PR person and the word choices are subtle reminders that the men down there went voluntarily and were trained for emergencies. It's absurd to be upset that we use the term gunman when we also use the term milkman, postman, etc... adding man at the end is just how our language crafts words. So yeah, a lot of the video was nonsense.
Okay I just glanced up and saw that most of the discussion isn't about the video, but about women in the military, which is something I don't have a strong opinion about, so I'll just leave it there.
Fincham: Where are you going?
Me: I have no idea
Fincham: I meant where are you sitting. This wasn't an existential question.