That's a video of one successful black couple and one zef family, thanks for that great example of how South Africa is now systematically rife with reverse racism.
According to you "Reverse racism is when a minority, most commonly black people, are over-catered to, to the point where they are given special treatment compared to your dime a dozen white guy".
Black people are not a minority in South Africa and were oppressed for centuries. South Africa remains a country that is both first world and third world depending on your race. The vast majority of black South Africans still live in poverty and money is still overwhelmingly concentrated with white South Africans. Affirmative action is the only way black South Africans are going to succeed and start to draw level with their white counter-parts in a remotely acceptable time period. There are plenty of problems with the way this is being implemented and this is leading to a brain drain in SA but you can hardly call it reverse racism to try to correct a situation born out of decades of brutal apartheid. Maybe when the black population isn't mostly living in shanty towns and broken-down, unserviced townships will the accusation that affirmative action constitutes reverse racism ring true. In the meantime, you're talking out the wrong end of your alimentary canal.
Just look at the demographics sub-sections for blacks and whites here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_South_Africa - the country is still a long way from a happy rainbow nation.