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sounds like nbd i mean you've never met K in person before and unless you'd made some sort of commitment to her, then i don't think you're obliged to disclose whether or not you're going on a mere date with someone else at some point. especially if it's a holdover from a prior situation, one you're not really interested in pursuing.

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For moral reasons I have to suggest you don't play on K's jealously.

You have to drop one ASAP. It isn't fair to keep two people on the hook for any extended period of time.

Honesty is the best policy. You obviously realizing not telling K was a bad idea, which is good in my opinion.

I say decide as soon as you can before one of them gets hurt or more hurt than they would now.

Have fun

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I recommend L. K is too predictable.

I like this man.

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Why didn't you tell me about the other date, Ni?

If you can't pull off dating them both simultaneously (you apparently can't), then K is clearly the more rewarding choice.

One option: Tell K that the reason you didn't tell her about this is because you see her as potentially more than just a friend, and mentioning a date with another girl is more of a friends conversation. Not too far off the truth?

Regardless, I don't think you've screwed things up here, just be patient.

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Not everybody wants that, as you could see from Ni's opening post he felt guilty about even slightly having two girls on the line. I respect that. I think it's a little sad that this was your reaction.

But seriously, if she's willing to be an adult about it, she'll come around. It's not like you were actively covering anything up. If not, you should probably date E.

The guy was attempting to date Girl A while he was already dating Girl B. He's either not mature enough for a serious relationship or he's simply not interested in one. Therefore, I suggested a non-serious solution to a non-serious person (as far as relationships go). Besides, anyone seeking advice on relationships on Massassi at this point either hasn't been paying any attention or they just signed up yesterday.

I don't understand why his reaction is sad. There's nothing wrong with keeping your options open until you're ready to make a commitment, as long as you're not misleading anybody.

If you take the limit as the worth approaches infinity, it will go to 0

I'm sure the situation would have been entirely different had Ni actually met K prior to the date.


So, did you get lucky?

Thing is I completely agree with this statement. I'm not quite sure how to further explain to you why Mentat's reaction was a little saddening...

Now that he's explained himself a bit better it's alright though. I would suggest he's being a bit presumptuous in his statement but then I was presumptuous too so meh.

It's fixable. Most definitely.

This is why I date people and not letters.

Better to date letters than numbers, I hear 7 is a cannibal!

**** YEAH AMERICA! Football, fake ****, and double dippin!!! :wink:[/COLOR]

This is why i believe you've never seen a clit. No offense.

Its easy for people to spout out relationship morels over the internet. Just like its easy not to cheat when noone wants to **** you.


Excuse me are you a little girl? Did this crush your aspirations for future love?

Im sorry deadman, i know we don't want to spoil your high school fantasy of one love, and abstinence, but this is the new millennium. Everyone ****s everyone. It happens. Are you sheltered enough that if i were to tell you "two men could have sex together, **** it can even be more than two!", you'd **** yourself?

Really, i just want to talk the malarkey out of this guy because he strikes me as naive and wistful. One day, this dude i know tried to get into an in-depth conversation with me about how he believes that true love no longer exists. Further he blames the demise of love on porn. Yes, i know a guy who talks about pron being the vanquisher of love...

I picture you as that guy deadman. Hay, dont let me discourage you. Far be it from me to cast disillusionment on fellow romantic. Stay Golden pony boy, i mean deadman...



ANYWAYS.... on to ni.

I think its crazy how sooo many people meet over the internet now. Its just an odd, foreign concept to me. I suppose there was a time to actually go out and meet people in real life, but evidently that time has passed.

This is the new age of fake ****, porno, ipods, and cell phones. GODDAMN i love america (citation needed)

T**t.

this modern age of fake t**t

what do mushrooms have to do with anything

Stick with it. It's really in her court as to how she wants this to end, but if you like her don't give up. I don't think it's really a disastrous mistake, people have done far worse. If she likes you too, I think she'll come around.

Are you purposely trying to sound as immature as possible while attempting to insult my maturity? I have no idea where on earth all of that crap came from, especially since I already made it clear I completely agree with people to dating multiple people and such.
I am no hater of multi-dating, porn or even long term open relationships. I just think it's sad that some people that's the only way to be, and anyone who even feels a little guilty about dating two people and not telling one of them needs to man up, or is some weird combination of little girl in high school who hates porn and wants to make love to themselves.

I can't imagine how you must actually picture me, but I am very clearly picturing you as a troll. I mean seriously, what the hell

EDIT- I'm guessing that this guy you seem to think I am like (which I'm clearly nothing like) was a judgemental ass to you, and that's why you acted like a judgemental ass to me. Well believe it or not I'm not here to judge, everyone is welcome to whatever kind of relationship or whatever that they want, so long as no-one is getting hurt. So kindly stop judging me based on... well based on nothing really.

What? We should be good at it by now; a large portion of us are married or something.

On topic : Threesome. Or at least some girl-on-girl action. In a hall of mirrors. It could look like this : KEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKE

Having gotten married doesn't necessarily mean you are qualified to offer relationship advice

Hehehe so true.

or something!

dear lord! why would someone want to date more than one girl at a time?? ****ing more than one girl at a time i can understand, but ACTUALLY dating!!! oh no no... no offense to any here, but women are crazy.

not that Ni is really trying to date both at the same time, just that it was brought up, and... yick!

I'm confident that Xasthur sounded exactly as immature as he is, and didn't have to try at all.



I laughed out loud. Awesome.

I think the sketchiest part isn't that you didn't tell her up front, but that you /also/ tried covering your tracks afterward (by trying to erase the Facebook wall post before she could see it).

That said, if you're willing to own up to it to her than I don't see why it can't still work out. Maintaining open communication is crucial.

Perfection.

Bravo sir

I can't blame him for wanting to erase that post on his wall... it was giving a wrong impression, as if he had been anticipating to nail her.

LOL.

I'd follow Detty's advice