*shrug* I'm not a huge fan of facebook either, but do you really feel like you have to go on a self-righteous crusade against it?
Umm, you're not making a heck of a lot of sense.. First, who are you to presume to know what the people who died want to be remembered as? Second, this isn't for the people who died, it's for the people still alive. The fact that they were at the premiere indicates they are big fans of Batman, and I can't imagine them being angry about an opportunity to meet Christian Bale. Besides which, it's not like they couldn't say no to the offer. I'm sure if this were arranged, the victims would have the opportunity to "opt out" so to speak. Who are you to decide for them? The whole point of the picture is for the question to be brought up. There will be plenty enough hurdles for this idea to go through without needing some random guy on the internet deciding he's the one that knows best for Christian Bale and for those victims.
(That said, the reason I suggested just Christian Bale without the Batman costume is simply because the Batman costume is kind of dark and sinister, and some of the victims are likely suffering from PTSD. So Batman showing up might not be the best thing for them... But again, there's nothing to say they couldn't be given the option.)
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.
Lassev: I guess there was something captivating in savagery, because I liked it.